àŒș PAC: WHAT CAN YOU DO TO ATTRACK LOVE INTO YOUR LIFE? àŒ»
âđ©â§đȘâ This pick a card/pile reading is for my single dreamers who want to finally find a love so pure that it seemed to be blessed by Venus herself⊠but donât know why it hasnât happened yet. (lol) âđ©â§đȘâ
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Hi everyone! My name is Alexander and I hope everyone is having an amazing Valentineâs Day! I really hope you guys find this useful, this is my first PAC reading so please make sure to reblog and leave in the comments down below your experience! Iâm open to constructive criticism to make the readings as accurate as possible <3
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Your romantic status in the present
Whatâs stopping you from attracting love into your life?
How can you attract your desired love into your life?
Additional messages with oracle cards and a channeled song
Ready? Take a deep breath⊠and let your heart guide you to your message đ
deck used: Tarot of Mermaids â§âŸă
Whatâs your romantic status as of now?đ The Star, 2 of Pentacles rx, 6 of Cups
Most of the people in this pile are single, but I feel like they are the ones that have the most intense craving out of the rest to find love. And actually, your wish is already coming true as I speak, for I see a potential partner already in your mind; though I feel like this connection has taken place not too long ago, youâre already seeing them in your future, because they make you feel so happy and at peace every time you spend time with them⊠like a mix of extreme joy that makes your belly hurt from laughing, but also enough security that makes you light as a feather.
However, there seems to be some kind of blockage in this energy, something thatâs not letting the waters of love flow as freely as they should. While I will clarify more in the next question, I can already feel a certain type of anxiety, a need to be âgood enoughâ for them before truly going in⊠maybe even perfectionism.
Itâs like youâve wanted this for so long⊠that now that the opportunity has finally presented itself to you, you simply just want it to be perfect, so thereâs this sense of âfor this to be as perfect as possible, I have to be as perfect for them and truly get my shit together.â
Whatâs stopping you from attracting love into your life?đ„The Chariot rx, 6 of Pentacles rx, 7 of Cups rx
Well, continuing with the energy of the last question, itâs this same perfectionism that has led you to believe that youâre not good enough for them. The cards show that thereâs an emotional blockage inside your heart that reflects false illusions, insecurities, instability, but mostly low self-esteem.
You are not making any progress in this possible relationship because you feel like you need to improve yourself before you allow love into your life, and the small moments of bravery you get from time to time to finally make a move towards them get shut down by this same insecurities, like ropes or branches holding you so hard that they donât allow you to move at any direction, leaving you petrified and only creating great sadness and deep anger directed at yourself for your inability to finally be âreadyâ for them.
From feeling like youâre not emotionally, financially or mentally stable enough to commit to a relationship, all this fears and insecurities end up leaving you to only admire them from afar, longing for what could be, but isnât. Itâs almost like youâre used to drowning in this feelings of sadness and despair, allowing fantasies and fake scenarios to take over you as a way to procrastinate the act of âtaking actionâ and go after the love you desire so much.
How can you attract your desired love into your life?đ King of Cups, Wheel of Fortune rx, 10 of Cups, 8 of Swords rx.
Stop sabotaging yourself! Allow yourself to flow with your own emotions and desires to finally allow life to happen! This is especially important since I feel like the people in this group are really emotional and sensitive, however, thereâs a difference between âallowing yourself to feel your emotionsâ and letting yourself to be controlled by them. Itâs this same habit of you overanalyzing everything about yourself that has, not only blocked your emotions, but the connection you have with others in the process.
Your mind is your worst enemy here, for itâs this clouded falsehoods you believe of yourself that eclipse the beauty and light that itâs inside your heart. Youâve been advised to let yourself flow, and to allow yourself to drown in love and deep desire, instead of negative emotions. This may sound a bit dramatic or erotic, but thatâs not a bad thing! Desire as an universal force itâs what gave birth to life and energy in our universe! So please, donât suppress your desires, let yourself be guided by them. If one does this and gets to connect to his inner world, you create the possibility of finding a mate to which youâre able to build a future with, a type of soulmate!
For the people attracted to masculine partners, this person seems to be a sensitive being that finally helps you open your heart completely, teaching you how to flow easily in the waves of love⊠but only if you allow it. However, if youâre embodying the masculine energy in this situation, youâre being advised to connect to your feminine side, for itâs your inner woman the one that would help you connect with your emotions and finally teach you to deliver yourself to love.
Mainly, you guys need to learn that your emotions are not a weakness, something to fear, or even your enemies, but instead they are your allies that help you experience the beauty of life and love! I mean think about it, thereâs a reason you feel so deeply compared to the rest of the people around you⊠so why not allow yourself to deeply feel love instead of pain? ;)
This card reminded me of that Oscar Wilde quote: âlove is a sacrament that should be taken kneeling" <3 letâs ignore that this is about sucking cock and focus on the romantic aspect lmao.
Because this group has great inner instability, itâs recommended for you guys to, physically or symbolically, create an altar; a place of devotion to yourself where you get to feel completely safe and sound, as a way to practice self-love and create more confidence within yourself. Whether this altar gets to be in the comfort of your home, or deep inside your heart, you must make the effort to make this a place that allows you to make mistakes, to let yourself flow, and most importantly, somewhere that allows you to truly glow.
Remember that youâll always have yourself, and that love is not something to be afraid of or to feel insecure about, but instead is something so beautiful that it could be compared to an altar where you can safely show devotion to the one you love. <3
Song: Slow Down by Selena Gomez
I feel like this song describes this pile perfectly because even though you guys have deep craving and passion inside yourselves, you still need to take it slow to show that side of you more confidently. Which is okay, but the key is that you guys have to do it, instead of just admire from afar haha. Take this song as the type of energy you guys need to embody, yes, slow at times, but mostly fun and lighthearted. <3
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deck used: Dark Wood Tarot â§âŸă
Well, I firstly want to apologize to this pile for you guys ended up receiving the deepest message yet. So donât worry! Iâll be grabbing your hand along this reading the whole time and I want to let you know you are loved and appreciated, and whatever youâve gone through in the past doesnât have any power over you. <3
Whatâs your romantic status as of now?đ Queen of Swords, Lovers rx, 6 of Cups rx, 10 of Swords rx.
I see that most of you in this group have recently gone through a very bad breakup, maybe some of you are still with this person, but they are not the majority here. I see that this relationship was very toxic and emotionally abusive, one that was mainly based in sexual desire, but your past partner used this to take advantage of you and control you in some sense.
Thereâs this big emphasis on the past, I can see that this relationship in the beginning was pure and sweet, but it ended up being an illusion for what you thought was a place of security and love, and ended up being a place so unstable and devoid of happiness it made you feel numb at the thought of this âromanceâ. I can see that this is because this person abused their position in the relationship and manipulated you a lot, dismissing your emotions at every chance and leaving you feeling completely worthless.
I can already sense that most of you are really struggling to move on from this connection, it has become like a ghost that doesnât stop haunting you, to the point in which even some of you have repeated the same patterns in the relationships that took place after this one.
Whatâs stopping you from attracting love into your life?đ„ Hierophant, The Empress rx, 9 of Pentacles rx.
As I was just saying, the wound from this relationship have been so engrained within you that it has made it difficult to not taint your search for love. Unconsciously, you end up repeating the same patterns in the way you choose partners and, along with the fact that the wounds that are still taking time to heal have left you with a negative perception about love, you unknowingly end up creating blockages to attracting the love of an honest partner.
This abusive relationship has wounded you so much internally that you have completely lost touch with the emotional pleasures and sweetness that are required to generate any type of romance. Itâs like after this person youâve noticed youâve become colder, dismissive, pessimistic and even crueler to the idea of love, and you donât know how to stop it; Itâs a very conflicting energy because even though you crave to be held lovingly so much⊠youâve also lost hope as time passed by. To the point in which you donât know if you should keep seeking for someone or completely give up.
âIs it worth it? Or am I just wasting my time to end up in the same place as before?â. It's this same insecurities and inner instability that has made it difficult for you to open yourself to other people, and this leaves you angry and frustrated because you can sense your fire or spark being completely dimmed, separating you from everything that happens to be sensorially or materially pleasurable, but you still donât know how to stop being like this. I can see that even some of you experience extreme jealousy at the sight of happy couples, but itâs your own heart crying saying âwhy them? Why do they deserve that kind of love but not me?â
How can you attract your desired love into your life?đ 4 of Pentacles, The Hermit, 3 of Wands.
Inner healing and self-discovery.
You guys need to love yourselves first, my loves! Your soul is craving deep and profound inner healing, whether itâs done through shadow work or with a therapist (which I highly recommend), it must be done as quick as possible. Thereâs an emphasis in the need to hide yourself from the world to take the time to heal the wounds of the past and not to sabotage yourself. So in that way you can build stronger internal roots that strengthen your inner world, finally empowering you light and allowing you to deliver yourself to love with confidence and positivity! You basically need to pull and Eat, Pray, Love haha.
The cards are asking you to do this inner healing as soon as possible, so youâre able to change the perception you have of the world and of yourself. Above all you have to prioritize self-love, and realize that this dimmed crushed version of you itâs not the real you, for the reason they are telling me you have to get help quickly itâs because it has been way too long since the world last saw you shine before that bastard abused the love you gave to him. You deserve happiness, you deserve love, and no matter how hard it is to believe that right now, trust me, itâs the truth.
Oracle Cards: Altar, Banshee
While the emphasis in building a strong inner foundation is still present, the main message is the next warning: if you donât try to heal your past wounds in any type of way, youâll be forced by outside forces to face your demons⊠and itâs not going to be as gentle or nice as it could be if you took the initiative yourself.
Itâs no longer an option, The Banshee comes to sing about the symbolical death and transformation you have to go through for your wellbeing. It doesnât matter how difficult it is as of now, the more you resist, the more it will hurt. The Banshee is not cruel, thereâs a reason why she cries and wails while delivering warnings, because at the end of the day she cares for the person she shows herself to. So please, take this message as a hug from your spirit guides/gods/elementals/etc. that care for you, they are worried about you, and they see that you need to heal before you are blessed with an honest person who would appreciate you.
Song: Your Power by Billie Eilish
Well⊠I feel like the song speaks for itself. I just want to remember to everyone who resonated with this pile that whoever did this to you, as much as it may have impacted you, that they no longer have the same control as they used to. Their words, their manipulation, and their abuse does not define you. I know itâs hard, but you can heal from this, I believe in you. <3
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deck used: Tarot of Vampyres â§âŸă
Whatâs your romantic status as of now?đ 10 of Cups, 8 of Pentacles, 3 of CupsÂ
This pile was a lovely surprise, because out of the 3 piles I can sense that, on their own, this group actually feels completely happy and stable on their own. And you guys have worked for this emotional stability, for you have learned through hard lessons how to enjoy the pleasures life has to offer. The cards tell me that you guys have such a rich inner world that now youâre able to see beauty easily in everyone and everything (omg golden retriever vibes <3), AND itâs for this same reason a lot of you finally feel ready to pursue love!
I can sense that a lot of you are very hardworking individuals, very intelligent, organized and ambitious; maybe some of you are really deep into studying magic, as I can sense that some of your are spiritually protected. However, the main thing I see in this pile is the gentleness and sweetness that you guys carry in your soul⊠which can be a double edge sword. For this reason, I see that this pile in particular tends to attract a lot deceitful and vampiric people that just want to take advantage of your emotional and economical abundance.
I see that this is the main problem you have: feeling ready to finally open up to someone, but your energetic abundance keeps bringing vampiric people into your life, looking to take advantage of your light. I especially see this for the people who embody masculine energy in this pile that thereâs a tendency to attract women or feminine beings who are manipulative and controlling.
Whatâs stopping you from attracting love into your life?đ„ 6 of Pentacles, 5 of Cups, The Hanged Man
Expanding on the message said before, the main mistake is that, while you guys tend to attract a lot of vampiric individuals who try to deceive so they get to abuse of your energetic of financial abundance⊠the main problem is that you believe them, or allow them to take advantage of you.
I see a lot of suitors who pretend to be someone they are not, wearing beautiful and enticing masks that lure you like a moth to a flame, they end up charming you with words and promises, while at the same time looking defenseless and making it know to you the different ways you can help them. I cracked the code! That is the main fault that blocks true love from coming into your life⊠you sacrifice yourself at the expense of others.
This pile gives me the vibes of Jupiter ruled people, always ever giving and ever gentle. However, as lovely as you may be, your own sweetness may be your greatest weakness! By trying to help others and put them first before yourself, you end up opening your energetic doors and allowing this people to not only abuse you, but also drain you completely. For some of you I see some of your suitors using sex as a way to control or manipulate you. Try to ask help from your spirit guides to remove this people form your life, so you can protect your abundance and light as much as possible!
How can you attract your desired love into your life?đ Judgement rx, 7 of Cups rx, 7 of Wands.
This group in particular get to be (whether financially, spiritually or both) extremely abundant, being completely noble and nonjudgmental, liking to offer energy and love to anyone who might need it. However, my cards are telling me that, either for low self-esteem or lack of willpower, your indiscriminatory nature ends up working against you in the realm of love! And, if you keep this type of abusive people to keep taking from you, you take the risk of ending up emotionally empty!
So youâre being asked to connect and embody the fierce energy of Venus. As the planet of beauty and attachment, people forget that Venus is extremely discriminatory and picky to everything she chooses, accepting only the very best. As negative as this may sound, itâs this same energy that creates lasting love and pleasurable connections, for it allows someone to only accept the love of a person who truly is worthy of their heart, and shielding them from vampiric energies. By connecting to her fierce energies of discrimination and elitism in the area of love, youâll get to realize you suddenly spot more easily the true intentions of possible suitors.
I can also sense that because of your gentle nature, this group tends to repress a lot of their negative emotions, especially anger. So the main advice I see is to, instead of repressing this emotions, redirect them into helping you become more fierce yourself, like Venus; allowing you to make boundaries for yourself, making sure that nobody breaks them, and only accepting anyone who seems to be truly worthy of your love!
Oracle Cards: Mischief and Coming of Winter
Self-reflection and rest are also advised for you, for in the search for love that youâre currently in you happen to be surrounded by people who want to take advantage of you, so the cards are advising you to put on hold your search for âthe oneâ, so you can prepare to embody the energy that will allow you to find true love. Itâs at this time you will need to analyze your inner world and your romantic patterns, so the next time you meet someone you donât fall under their spell too easily and you get to also renovate your energy by not giving so easily. Once you heal and replenish yourself, youâll find that the search for the loving partner seems to flow more easily. <3
Song: Sour Candy by Lady Gaga, BlackPink
I honestly feel like this song came as the type of energy you guys must embody. Lady Gaga describes this song as a middle finger to the people that only want the sweet side of her, but reject her once they take what they were looking for. So the lyrics are embracing the fierce side of love, directly saying to the love partner, âif you donât love both my ugly and pretty side, we can end it here and now, and ill find the partner that would actually appreciate meâ. I feel like Venus herself said âhold on, let me step up and directly tell them how they should do itâ lmaooo.
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