The Surrendered Man

[CrossAmorous & Cross-Sexual (Crossamorist*) content. Mature (18+); NSFW.] “We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the deepest life force, a force which moves us toward living.” ~Audre Lorde ******** When a man opens up to and expresses his gentler yin nature, surrendering himself to a woman, giving her the gift of his surrender, of himself, offering himself up to her, mind, body, and soul, I believe it’s as we tend to imagine the birth of a star – rare, powerful, beautiful. In its disruption of traditional gender roles, its subversion or upending of conventional notions of masculinity, its creation of new paradigms for what it means to be a man, male surrender is counterculture, noncompliant, badass. This blog, then, is where one crossamorous, cross-sexual woman (me), curates and celebrates extraordinarily moving and exquisitely erotic images of male surrender. Welcome. Enjoy. ******** "To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself, and to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the breaking of bread." ~James Baldwin

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He craved her…not just the sex. But her touch, her words, her mind, her kiss… He craved all of her. And that is why she craved him.

coachmw–Thoughts of a Silver Fox

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“Extraordinary” by n.r. hart

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“It’s an incredibly intimate experience that bonds us emotionally. I love the feeling of total exposure and vulnerability.” ~An Anal Erotic Man

“I'm a straight*, cis dame who adores anal erotic men, men whose sexuality/sexual orientation is more anal than phallic, who find the truest, most authentic expression of their sexuality and the most fulfilling experience of erotic, sensual, and sexual pleasure and satisfaction from anal stimulation rather than phallic ejaculation, not in the act of penetrating, but in being penetrated. Accepting our gender nonconforming, non-normative sexual identities can be transformative, liberating, freeing, even healing, and men who embrace their sexual anality/anal sexuality are not only uncommon, they're extraordinary: brave in their noncompliance, beautiful in their surrender, and, quite simply . . . breathtaking.”  ~A Phallic Woman (from http://thepenetratedman.tumblr.com/ )

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I adore the struggle you carry in yourself. I adore your terrifying sincerity.

Anaïs Nin (via thelovejournals)

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Theme Song for Surrendered Men “Surrender the Crown”

Stay with me Love me like a mistress sun And I won't let you down Broken by the moment now As I surrender the crown

Lay with me, so far away The world is pure and in reach Punish me a thousand times I'm the end of your leash

Stay with me Lead me like a mistress should And I won't let you down Broken by the beauty and the love As I...

Surrender...

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On Newt Scamander, Toxic Masculinity, & The Power Of Hufflepuff Heroes

Warning: This post contains spoilers for Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them. Newt Scamander is a rare bird — rarer even, perhaps, than the Thunderbird he recklessly smuggled into Manhattan in Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them. Newt Scaman

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It’s like wanting to be someone’s wife or girlfriend. Except that someone is a lady. And you’re a dude. But still.

me trying to explain relationship role reversal (via rolereversalreader)

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