Help Unemployed Biracial Disabled Trans Man with Apartment Necessities!
Hello, I (Disabled, Autistic, and Mestizo. Recovering from Homelessness) and one other trans man (disabled and Jewish) need help with Necessities for the very small studio apartment we share.
We have an Amazon wishlist, with the things that we require: Such as; a vacuum, a toaster, curtains and rods to create privacy and separate space, power strips, and cooking wear.
December is often seen as a month of Charity, and we can certainly use yours this month.
You can also help out, by donating to my cash.app if that’s easier.
Amazon Wishlist
Cash.App: $NicoBowie
Please make sure to sort the wishlist by priority. The sort and filer drop down menu is located on the right-hand side at the top of this list.
i dont even know if this is the way to share the list right im doing it from my phone and this feels weird but you know what im gonna probably dye my hair for my bday and spoil myself so if you wanna help me spoil myself this year ❗️heres my amazon wishlist❗️my bday is December 15th most of y'all know this because i havent shut up about it
or if ya wanna send me money instead ill buy something in one of my many tabs on my browser of things i want ca$happ: $alunien
im hoping by next years bday ill be in my own place thats my goal. an impossible one? yes. but one im desperate to strive for!
Sunday, December 5th: Hi everyone, I’m Gemma, a bi, mentally ill disaster, who is in desperate need of help as I'm still struggling to get by and I don't receive my welfare until just after Christmas.
As most of you are already aware from my previous posts, I have been struggling financially these past few months due to my welfare benefit (Universal Credit) being under a review, which is due to my worsening mental health and the UK’s controversial changes to how benefits are assessed and assigned, I was also recently declined Disability benefit (PIP). And I've tried to avoid making this post because I know Christmas is right around the corner, but due to my utilities going out and boiler breaking down and needing an emergency servicing, I've had to put my remaining money in to them to keep them on, which has left me with nothing to pay this bill that is due on December 22nd.
I know this is a huge ask, and I'm completely heartbroken to keep asking for help, but I still urgently need some as I don't receive my welfare until after Christmas (December 27th) and I desperately need help to pay my bills, keep my utilities on and get groceries for Christmas.
Additionally, I have a CHRISTMAS WISHLIST, some items are just silly wishes, but some stuff like dog food and blankets are essential for the winter, and I would appreciate it if anyone could have a look.
If anyone could spare any amount to help me, even if it’s just £1/$1/€1, it would literally save my life, and sharing definitely helps just as much as donations. Nobody is obligated in any way to donate or buy anything from my wishlist if they can’t or don’t want to, I know we’re all struggling right now. ❤
£34.01/£350!!
Go to paypal.me/GemzyM and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.
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alright so as some of you know my dad had a stroke and I'm going back to Cleveland to visit/help my mom take care of him until my sister's travel assignment ends and she can help out (she was planning to stay in cleveland so it works out). I live in new orleans so I had to take a week off from both my jobs and purchase a plane ticket. again I hate to ask more than I hate life itself but these were two expenses I did not anticipate and could not afford and ultimately had to come out of my rent. I explained the situation to my landlord and he's cool with me being late on rent (again). I'm trying so hard to get better and thinks keep on happening
My policy for the past couple of years is to go into the Doctor and state my symptoms. Then tell the Doctor. “STOP” “I want your diagnosis and treatnment options for someone weighing 135 pounds.” When they try to argue and immediately START with weight, I firmly reiterate they are to diagnose me as if I were 135 pounds. Eventually most grudgingly will think about it and answer me. I’ll allow them then to “triumphantly” go on to dismiss their previous diagnosis and pin everything on my weight.
Then I point out I have been the same weight for 15 years and these symptoms are sudden and new. My weight is no factor in that. Give me the tests and treatment you first mentioned.
This is how they discovered a large fibroid that needed to be removed. From stories I’ve heard from others, if I hadn’t approached it this way it might have taken me years of pain and discomfort before they might have finally discovered the fibroid and treated it.
Just remember;
DEMAND A DIAGNOSIS FOR THE SAME SYMPTOMS FOR A PERFECT BMI FOR YOUR HEIGHT FIRST!!!
It happened to me sort of. I didn't know anything was wrong. I watched my waistline go up randomly when I didn't change my diet or level of activity. I thought the doctor will just call me fat so I didn't go. I had back pain and trouble breathing when walking long distances. I couldn't put any pressure on my stomach. I just thought it was fat. I changed my diet and tried to be good about exercise. Until I hurt my back so bad for like days. Turns out I had an ovarian cyst for years. It was taking up the whole my stomach and pushing my organs into my lungs. I'm lucky that I got surgery, I only lost one ovary and it wasn't cancer. After all this my gp is telling me I have to lose weight. I don't hate my gp. I just know if I don't get down to the BMI weight should be at, that if something bad does happen the doctors aren't going to take me seriously unless things are bad.
I need some advice about branching out cause I don’t necessarily want to escort again (I mean I do but body image blah blah blah anyways)
Just yeah - experience wise
Was a cam girl for like 20 minutes (so like 2 months) before I got more into sugaring for like 20 minutes (probably another 2 months) and then accidentally stumbled into escorting and was like yess this is it, am just generally a consistent hustler of men which is why I’m considering looking into Dom work ~ I’m not confident in many areas but my ability to get men to do shit is something I am.. proud of 😂
Also considering niteflirt~ and sexpanther but any following I have is mainly as an escort so idk if I wanna put that out there - honestly I can sext like a goddamn champion so that could work lmao
I’d be down to cam but definitely doesn’t come the most naturally to me
Seems like tik tok and only fans have been blowing up as of recently sex work wise? That’s just what I’ve heard around
But yeah
Bat signal to all the sex workers
For advice but also cause I miss my community /Miss u beautiful humans
Btw this is gonna have an obnoxious amount of tags cause I’m tryna find my people so please ignore that
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