The Gay Mans Witch

Gemini. Gay Man. Wiccan. Est. 1996. Nursing Student. @SexualT-Rex96

[maeve-the-moonrise-mage]

Finding Your Element

Though we’re never just one element at any time, its common for us to be closer to one more than the others. The element you associate with may share traits, both positive and negative, with you. Knowing your element can help you understand yourself and help you overcome problems that you encounter because of it.

Note that the element that you associate with now may change with time and personal growth.

So, how does one find their element? Well, first you gotta know the elements. Each one has its own set of traits.

Now, I won’t be listing all of the correspondence for each element, just the ones I think may be relevant to the topic.

Air

Colors: Yellow, sky blue

Direction: East

Season: Spring

Compliment: Fire

Opposite: Earth

Positive Traits: Joyful, humorous, intelligent, intuitive, communicative.

Negative Traits: Loves gossip, chatterbox, loud, messy, selfish, manipulative, boastful, know-it-all.

Possible Fears: Suffocation, being buried alive, being wrong/being stupid, stagnation.

Earth

Colors: Brown, green

Direction: North

Season: Winter

Compliment: Water

Opposite: Air

Positive Traits: Reliable, level headed, punctual, good with money, preserving, wise.

Negative Traits: Materialistic, narrow minded, stubborn, greedy.

Possible Fears: Heights, falling, financial crisis, change.

Fire

Colors: Red, orange

Direction: South

Season: Summer

Complement: Air

Opposite: Water

Positive Traits: Energetic, out-going, courageous, loyal, passionate.

Negative Traits: Power hungry, dominating, egotistical, stubborn, resentful, violent, reckless.

Possible Fears: Lack of control or lack of power, fear of large bodies of water or drowning.

Water

Colors: Blue, silver

Direction: West

Season: Fall

Complement: Earth

Opposite: Fire

Positive Traits: Compassionate, loving, forgiving, empathetic, easy going, modesty.

Negative Traits: Weepy, overly sensitive, frigid, lazy, insecure, dependent, indifferent.

Possible Fears: Burning alive, losing loved ones, being alone.

When looking at one’s own traits and flaws it’s important to be honest with yourself and open to your intuition. If you find you can’t decide between two or more elements ask around, see what others think you are. It might help you narrow it down.

Thank you for reading! Feel free to ask any questions or to leave any suggestions.

[dalish-blackshuck]

Okay so dyed hair is cool already but let’s consider witches using their own homemade, charmed, protection spelled, hair dye to stop people from being able to use their hair to curse them ? ??

Like, innovative and cool ? Colorful witchy dyed hair plus protection??? Great idea.

[dopepornforever]

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[dumbbbunnnyy-deactivated2021021]

Planetary Charm Jars 🔮

Create one of these jars to represent whichever planet you choose! These jars can be used as offerings, spell components, or altar display. 

Basic Ingredients:

Glitter

Sea Salt

Essential oil

Gem chips

Small jar

Planetary Variants:

[☾] Moon

White glitter

Sea salt

Lemon essential oil

Clear or milky quartz

[⊙] Sun

Gold glitter

Sea salt

Orange essential oil

Citrine

[☿] Mercury

Yellow glitter

Sea salt

Eucalyptus essential oil

Aventurine

[♀] Venus

Pink glitter

Sea salt or Himalayan pink salt

Rose essential oil

Rose quartz

[♂] Mars

Red glitter

Sea salt or red salt

Cinnamon essential oil

Red agate

[♃] Jupiter

Blue glitter

Sea salt

Sage essential oil

Amethyst

[♄] Saturn

Purple glitter

Sea salt or black salt

Cypress essential oil

Garnet

[♅] Uranus

Light blue glitter

Sea salt

Lime essential oil

Clear quartz

[♆] Neptune

Dark blue glitter

Sea salt

Jasmine essential oil

Aquamarine

[♇] Pluto

Black glitter

Sea salt or black salt

Basil essential oil

Onyx

compiled from my personal grimoire

[waywardwesterly-deactivated2023]

Looking for some good, spiritual pagan music.

Preferably that:

Isn’t too cheesy

Minimally electronic

Features druidic or Celtic imagery, lyrics, and instrumental styles

Vocals are good, but I also love instrumentals. I need some music for my faith. Thank you all dearly. ❤

[magickowl13]

The wheel of the year 💛 Found this at a store called Heart Body and Soul in Columbia, MO. Marked by a crystal shows the next Sabbat.💛 Litha the Midsummer Sabbat is coming June 21st. 💛The celebration of light and the Sun. Light yellow candles and dance with the Sun letting the light envelope you the peak of crops and fruits this is when revelations of the year come about. Your life in the cycle of the sun and moon. 💛Blessed be 💛 🌈☀⛅☀⛅☀🌈

[magickowl13]

Spells to be added soon Follow me at magickowl13 💙🔮💛

[strangesigils]

I don’t really know what people generally call this method of sigil making, so I’m just calling it “Letter Shaping” because you’re using the basic shapes from certain letters. This is the most common form of sigil making, and it allows the most creative influence. As you see above the sigils are for nearly the same thing, yet the sigils came out completely different. Not because the purpose was different, but because I approached them both a different creative way, and that’s what I like so much about this method. There’s a lot of freedom and personalization involved.

(UPDATE: Here’s a link to a guide on how to deconstruct letters down to basic shapes)

[sexy-muppet]

@outathecloset-intothegrinder

[thewitchbitch96-blog]

Would you rather clean with a sponge or paper towel?

Hmmm that depends, I like to think I am kinda eco friendly so I dont use a lot of paper towels. I like the versatility of sponges because I can scrub with them as well as wipe things up. So I guess sponge.

[dopepornforever]

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[deviantwitch]

Tomorrow!

I’ll be lighting #candles, saying prayers, sending blessings as the moon enters Full! I put together something that you can use if you want to participate as well :) It’s not necessary and this is just for those of you who want something to work during the Full Moon and make it #magical for you too! I will be sending all of this out to you during that time and putting together a way to call it all in for those who will not be attending. No matter, the energy will be sent and you will be blessed but I find calling it in helps the physical body and mind to really help root these things into our own experience.

If you want to partake then here is a simple #chant for you.

Ground. Find your center. Focus on your breathing. Take a white candle and hold it in your hands. Feel your power rise, call forth blessings, call forth beauty and let all of your happy vibes pour into the candle. Call upon #God or #Goddess or Source (whoever you call upon) and ask for guidance, ask for assistance and let that power go into the candle. See yourself a part of a team, connecting with a group of energy, me and others and then light your candle as you chant or pray:

God(dess) Bless Me and Mine Awaken Healing | Beauty | Strength | Abundance Unwind all that blocks my path Clear out all that holds me back Open the way for my magic to fly Into the cosmos back to my life.

Focus on the candle, focus on sending out and being a part of something beautiful. Let the candle burn :)

::Note::

The Moon will enter its full expression at 10:19 EDT tomorrow and I’ll begin prior and finish just after it hits its full stage. You are wondering if you can do this at any time tomorrow? I will say technically yes but if you want to have the full effect then (if possible) make the commitment to yourself to get up at that time and be ready. I know I am doing that. I’ll probably pass out tonight around 3-4am and be up early to get this done! Do what you can :)

Join my event, visit The Deviant Witch on Facebook or message me!

#witchesofinstagram #instawitch #fullmoon #sagittarius

[noonymoon]

I’ve been told I can’t be a witch because I’m a guy (I’m FTM) and that being a witch was exclusively for cis girls. I feel really left out despite being a witch for almost a year now

ahhhhh, precious !!! please don’t let anyone ever tell you that you can’t be a witch !!! you can have any sexual identity and orientation that there is and even if you invent your very own gender, YOU CAN STILL BE A WITCH. anyone can be a witch. fuck elitists and terfs who say otherwise. BE YOUR PRECIOUS SELF AND BE A WITCH. please come off anon so that everyone can tell you the same thing right to your face !!! ♡♡♡ much love to you

[zenkyosen-deactivated20200309]

A Witch is a Witch regardless of gender.

Anon, whoever told you you can’t be a witch unless you’re a cis girl doesn’t understand what witchcraft even is. They are 100% factually incorrect and you should ignore them and everything they say. They have nothing of value to offer. Don’t give them your time or your energy. You know you are a witch, and no transphobic jerk can take that away from you.

[thewitchbitch96-blog]

Listen up bitches because I am passionate about this issue!!

You do not have to be a women to be a witch!! For every aspect of the goddess the is a god aspect. Men can be great witches in fact one of the largest efforts for the revitalization of witchcraft and wicca in America was led by a man. I have many of his books and I have many books and literature by female witches as well.

If you are bigoted enough to think that because you are a women or because you live a certain lifestyle that you are more qualified or your craft is more valid than anyone else's click that unfollow button right tf now because I ain't putting up with that shit.

[whit3noize]

unusual asks

1: Do you ever wish you were someone else?

2: What is your full name?

3: How old are you and how old do you get mistaken for?

4: Have you ever dyed your hair?

5: What’s your eye color?

6: Your opinion about your body and how comfortable you are with it

7: Do you have any tattoos or piercings?

8: What would you say is your best quality?

9: What are you really bad at?

10: What talent do you wish you had?

11: Are you nice to everyone?

12: What do you think about the most?

13: Things you like/dislike about yourself

14: What is your least favorite word?

15: What is your favorite word?

16: Are you more like your mom or your dad?

17: Would you ever smile at a stranger?

18: A reason you’ve lied to someone

19: Are you lying about anything right now?

20: Have you kissed someone older than you?

21: Do you believe in love at first sight?

22: Do you believe in soulmates?

23: Are looks important?

24: Opinion on relationship age differences

25: Would you date someone off the Internet?

26: Have you ever cried over a boy/girl?

27: Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have?

28: Anyone you’re giving up on right now?

29: Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated?

30: Have you ever liked your best friend?

31: How does someone win your heart?

32: What turns you on?

33: What turns you off?

34: Do you get jealous easily?

35: What is your definition of cheating?

36: Do you forgive betrayal?

37: Have you ever been cheated on?

38: Have you ever cheated on someone?

39: How often do you listen to music?

40: First concert you attended

41: Last movie you watched

42: Favorite type of movie

43: Is there something that happened in your past that you hate talking about?

44: Are you good at hiding your feelings?

45: Do you fall in love easily?

46: Do you think people say I love you too much?

47: What’s your favorite holiday?

48: Are you a forgiving person? Do you like being that way?

49: Where’s the most magical place on earth?

50: What’s your “type”?

[meiselr]

Pantheon Aesthetics

Greek - Egyptian - Roman - Norse

[meiselr]

Pantheon Aesthetics

Greek - Egyptian - Roman - Norse

[hewhois]

this is what modern day witchcraft looks like

sharing private moments for my own healing and wandering eyes

me doing some spellcrafting and writing on beaver moon // documenting ritual for upcoming personal art project

blessings4all

[thehagandthestag]

This was so cool, if I was this involved with my craft I’d want to do this too! Its so cool to see other people’s rituals. Thanks for sharing!

[awitchandhersecrets]

Thank you a million times for sharing your private circle with us! It was an amazingly comforting and centering time and space. And it was awesome to see reflections of my own practices in what you did. I found comfort in seeing you walk thru the steps I usually find myself doing. Sometimes I wonder if I am witchy enough, magical enough, not theatrical enough, but it is centering and helps me and is enough for me. Thank you again. This was a beautiful moment and I missed my sacred space moments that haven’t been coming as often as often used to.

[mahigxn-deactivated20200629]

That was fucking amazing holy shit

[violetwitchcraft-deactivated202]

Thank you for sharing this, so lovely to see! You have a beautiful altar. And i’m glad that i’m not the only one that pulls out 50 reference books while i’m in the middle of it all.

[tnt-x0x]

What a priceless privilege it is to witness magic in others practices.

[grimoire-of-geekery]

You remind me of someone I know, actually.  And this video is awesome- thank you for doing it!

[witchcraftings]

This was lovely to watch! Thank you so much for sharing. You have a gorgeous set-up, and the entire energy of the space and this video is incredibly comforting.

[rainy-day-witchcraft]

This was so enchanting to watch!

[thewitchbitch96-blog]

I would love to see more of this in our community. Currently I do not have the supplies to do stuff like this yet having just started out but I will soon!

[sexualt-rex96]

Lubes

Anyone out there have any suggestions for good lubes for toys and a good toy cleaner? Or any good toy suggestions period. I’m looking for my first and there are soooooo many options I have no idea XD

[broomsick]

If you are a baby witch, I would recommend you to start by a book of shadows. A book of shadow is a witche’s most precious tool. It is a kind of journal, or diary, in which you write your magickal learnings, spells, etc… Here are some examples of what you can put in it.