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Holly | Ohio living | I drink a lot of caffeine, eat a lot of peanut butter, lift some heavy shit, and enforce some laws

[fstw-deactivated20141229]

I’m calling it now 5 years from now when it’s New Year’s Eve before the year 2020 every white person gonna wear those New Years glasses and all make the same joke “haha look I got 20/20 vision”

[theysaidkeepgoing]

Scheduled on Jan. 1 2015

[luxky]

[makethelastonecount]

Ghey

[lohver]

how do i say “i miss you” in a way that will make your heart ache as much as mine does

[pvrisfvns]

[thegoodvybe]

[tanrak]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[awwww-cute]

[lacedmuse]

i’m gonna love the fuck outta my future wife

[lamusebrune]

Stop being considerate in situations where you aren’t considered….

[whitney-hayes]

[remanence-of-love]

[olearypoetry]

[adorablegarbage-xy]

“And I knew it. That’s the worst part: I knew it.”

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[billy]

Stop disturbing women you’re not ready for. Please

[naomierouse]

wow, a scripture tbh

[theysaidkeepgoing]

I'm just rambling here...

If there's one thing that I've learned through my too many failed relationships, its that you cant force someone to want to be with you. That seems like common sense, right? But why is it so hard to accept? I think... because it hurts. It hurts so much. The only time you would ever want to try to force someone to be with you is if you start building something with them, right? Why do people start building with you if they're not sure that, some day, they wont wake up and realize they dont want to build with you anymore.

All relationships have one person who cares more than the other, and I'm really fucking sick of being that person every fucking time.

You cant force someone to want to be with you... and you sure as hell cant force someone to be right for you. So why, if someone who isnt right for me and doesnt want to be with me, is it still so hard to accept and move on from? Idk. Maybe I'll figure it out some day.

[asarlaithe-deactivated20220528]

please remember that in a healthy, adult relationship (romantic or not), you should be able to talk about things that are bothering you. if you are bottling up your emotions and holding it against someone when you haven’t told them what is wrong, you’re not engaging in healthy behaviour. but also, if your friend/significant other makes you feel as though you can’t talk about what bothers you- i.e. has made you feel guilty/gotten extraordinarily angry when things were brought up in the past- they are not engaging in healthy behaviour.