Fat Love❤

18+ 28m Ex-gainer, Feeder, Feedee(?). Just here to appreciate!

[garden-hose-obesity]

If you identify as a feeder or encourager, I’m BEGGING you to operate with a realistic understanding of the human body.

There are a ton of different things I see said that make me roll my eyes, but here are a few that have stuck with me over the years:

“You should eat so much that you gain five pounds tonight”

Friend. That’s not how bodies work. The amount of weight you can actually gain in one day is different for everyone, but it’s pretty safe to use the rule of thumb: 1lb per day maximum. Weight gain is caused by consistent calorie surpluses, not so much by occasional overindulgence. If you want someone to grow, encourage them every day, not just once in a while when you’re horny.

This one isn’t a specific quote, but eating goals that are unclear or unrealistic. “Mmm, keep eating. Yup. Keep going.” Okay. To what end? “You’re going to eat three extra large pizzas” no, I’m not. “How about 5,000 calories for a light snack?” You’re out of your fucking mind. It sends such a clear message that you have no clue what you’re doing when you interact with feedees like this.

“I want you to eat so much that your belly button goes from an innie to an outie”

Nope. Not even close to a thing that happens. If it does, you probably have a hernia. Or you have some other condition that has caused fluid buildup.

“Wow, you’re almost 300lbs? You’re gonna need a scooter once you get there”

What? I’m less than 25lbs away from 300 and I walked MILES in downtown, hilly Seattle last weekend. There are literally 500lb gainers who are walking (waddling) around with relatively few troubles. Please understand that when a gain happens gradually, mobility is far less impacted than in extremely quick gains. Also, I’m six feet tall. I can seriously pass for an average build in public if I want to. Please work on understanding how weight works on people.

This isn’t to call out any specific person. It’s just so important that feedees feel seen, safe, and comfortable. Otherwise… we’re not having fun. And when you severely misestimate our capacity, mobility, or general human body operations, it’s concerning. It’s clear you don’t interact much with feedees, and it’s a huge red flag.

[sleepyfa]

Every day I crave a feedist relationship more and more.

I want to show someone my love by offering food constantly, I want to worship their growing body as physical proof of my affection and care for them, growing more as our relationship does.

I want to gently tease them by pinching pudgy flesh spilling out of tightening clothes, and proudly show them off in public, letting everyone know I love them not in spite of their size, but being abundantly clear in my attraction to all of them.

I want to curl up in a soft warm embrace every night and wake up to wandering hands caressing fat tummies and exploring chubby side rolls, offering breakfast with a yawn before being dragged back into a plush embrace, nuzzling closer and drifting back off to sleep peacefully.

[thatfatgoth]

I don’t know a single decent person in this community that isn’t regularly discussing the abuse that occurs. Discussions on how to protect yourself, warnings about certain people, debates about how to make the community safer overall it’s always being discussed.

Every community has abusers hiding in it, and I think we would be naive to say that kink communities (not just feedism) make excellent hunting grounds because people are often already playing with power dynamics/imbalances, and it's easy to manipulate that into abuse. We also cannot ignore the fatphobia aspect, and you have abusers telling their victims, no one but me will love you cause you are fat and disgusting and then society is like, “lol true”.

People outside the community constantly accuse us of not addressing that, and it’s like, hey so we talk about that constantly actually and are also the ones most likely to be the victims of those abusers. So when you send death threats to a queer, fat, RACK compliant feedist over a jokey post you didn’t like, I’m not actually sure you are the good guy you think you are.

People just completely ignore anything that we have to say, ignore any fat lib/activism work we do, and make documentary after documentary being like: “Look how icky and gross this thing I don’t understand is!” Without ever addressing the actual issues they are supposedly so concerned about.

I’m fucking tired man like they wanna have their cake and eat it too and frankly that’s meant to be our thing.

[eeepyfaerie]

It’s getting harder to hide these days

[thickhungryhoney]

I can’t believe I never posted this 🥺🥺🥺🐽🐽🐽

[teasedfatty]

Fat greedy goddess😍

[pearshapelover]

[fatroundrounderfatter]

[fatroundrounderfatter]

[bellagirlsbelly]

wideeeee mama 🫶🏼

[es-draws]

[fufufeedee]

Jiggly passenger princess + speedbumps hehe

[blondiee188]

Want to see exactly how i've been eating over the last few weeks? Chugging sugary drinks that i've become addicted to...eating fattening fast food while outgrowing all of my jeans...

(New video on Curvage!)

[secretfatty]

So this is new 😳😅

[fatvalentina]

Before stuffing and after stuffing 🤤

So guys I'm still taking applications for me to be your chubby goth gf😁

May the best knight win my heart ❤️

Btw don't y'all just love my belly hang?🥹👉🏻👈🏻

[bricout13-deactivated20180809]

[walker9000]

Feedism and app controlled vibrators

My partner and I started experimenting with her wearing an app controlled vibrator. Specifically the lovense lush model. We’ve been using it for about a year now and after some technical kinks (pun intended) we have fully integrated it into this lifestyle.

I control the device through an app on my phone and my partner earns stimulation/orgasms when she overeats. She initially set the rules of the game. She was sitting at the kitchen table hand feeding herself slices of cheesecake when she said between bites that she was wearing the device snd for me to turn it on if she eats all the cheesecake. When she did I turned it on. She orgasmed multiple times and later said it was one of the best orgasms of her life.

But now we use it a bit differently. I decide when it gets turned on snd she earns it through being a good 🐷. 4000 calories by noon and she gets her first orgasm. She earns another with a major stuffing at night. Even when we are miles apart i csn activate it. We’ve joked that she’s become Pavlov’s pig because she now associates overeating with earning an orgasm.

when we started this she was chubby at 5’3 185 lbs. But now a year later she’s 240. Poor girl has become a butterball. The other day she was shoving in donuts so fast knowing that once she finished she would start feeling the buzz and just breathlessly said “fuck I’m such a horny pig.” I’m starting to wonder. How will she ever be able to give this up? 🐷

[pudgegirly]

How it started and how it’s looking after several snacks 🤰🏻❤️

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