to all the 13 year old girls that follow me
if you think her skirt is cute, tell her
the guy that you have a crush on probably doesnāt take enough showers
liking 1D or taylor swift isnāt embarrassing. dont hide it
draw draw draw! youāll be happy to have the skill later on
do your homework itāll help with stress
when youāre overwhelmed you should run. it makes you feel better
donāt start cutting no matter how afraid you are
if that shirt doesnāt fit you it doesnāt matter
hug the people you love
know that your life is weird right now and it will get better
reblogging because I wish someone told me this when I was 13
- donāt talk shit about people - if you wanna experiment with your hair/makeup go for it, find what suits you. - if you start to feel sad alot, tell your parents/friends talk about it - be the best you can be - learn to love yourselfĀ
-donāt be embarrassed of anything you like. -clothes from Hollister and Abercrombie and Fitch only fit a certain type of body. Donāt let their narrow-mindedness make you cry in the dressing room -donāt starve yourself. Please donāt. -thereās a reason you donāt look like people in magazines and on TV. You look like you and thatās wonderful.
-Be yourself, no matter what other people say -Donāt start smoking or drinking alcohol, ITāS NOT COOL -Donāt waste time on judging others
Thats not only for the 13 years old!
- donāt stay friends with someone who makes you feel shitty inside
- donāt be afraid to be friends with people in different grades
- your worth is not defined by what you can afford
- do what you love as often as you can, because thatās how you get better
- forgive yourself
-drink milk for strong bones
-you might end up liking girls and thatās okay
-you might not end up being a girl and thatās okay too
-drink a lot of water
-donāt stop yourself from doing things you love just bc they are too āmasculineā or āfeminineā
-Wash your face before going to bed
-just because someoneās older, it doesnāt mean they have the right to treat you like garbage
-speak up, itās ok if you do.
-pay attention and love the little things because itās too easy to get caught up with life and forget
-take deep breaths and slow down
-you are doing your best and thatās enough
-similar to how you shouldnāt compare yourself to people you see on tv or in magazines, donāt compare yourself to people you see on social media
-try your best to stay in the moment. Stop constantly worrying about the future or thinking about the past.
-if thereās a skill you want to develop, work on it now! The earlier you start the better!
-when youāre a teen, itās normal to feel all sorts of emotions. If youāre feeling really depressed or lost, reach out to someone
-also, when youāre feeling upset, try distracting yourself with something that involves all of your attention. Even better if that something is productive. Best examples are exercising, playing an instrument, doing homework, video games (as long as itās not a sad game!)
-your school life isnt everything! You have a life outside of school too.
-Itās okay if youāre not ācoolā. Cool is subjective.
-If you canāt make friends at school thatās okay. try joining a group/club/activity/sport outside of school. You can also make some friends online
-Some adults say their teen years were āthe best years of their lifeā and that you should āenjoy it while it lastsā. Although you should try to enjoy it as much as you can, donāt think that it should be āyour best yearsā and that life gets worse when you become an adult. For many people, thatās NOT true. Everyone āpeaksā at different points in their lives. Hell, most people donāt even have a single āpeakā, they just have regular ups and downs throughout life.
-if you have an idea write it down donāt forget your amazing thoughts, and maybe one day you can work to achieve it
-donāt be discouraged if you canāt do something. Practice, practice, practice.
-donāt skip school. Youāll fall behind and it only makes things more stressful
-stay in school. Youāll regret it later of you donāt.
- try and stay positive even in the shittest situation. If you have positivity it will help you over come it all.
honestly,
- if you like something that isnāt ātrendyā donāt hide it.
- if you find yourself drifting from your friends and they still hang out together: you are just discovering what you really value
- ask for help. if you have any kind of problem, your friends, especially your parents(!!!) can help.
