Oh the Many Things I’m Thinking About

the things I think about... just a lot of stuff aI found and liked for one reason or another. Submissive. Over 21. Go away if you’re not.

[wednesdays-child-is-missing]

[thinking-about-this-too]

Found this on a lovely blog! You’re not alone!

@anne-hairbrush

[cornertimesblog]

[anne-hairbrush]

She was screaming from the top of her lungs and squeezing my hand really hard. So I paused for a moment and ordered her to take a deep breath.

“Do you remember the safe word?” I asked her.

“Yes sir,” she replied.

“Do you want to use it?” I suggested.

“No sir, I don’t,” she replied.

So I continued the spanking, in amazement.

[thinking-about-this-too]

Love this exchange!

[spankingwomen]

An honest to goodness ass whoopin' is exactly what she needed!

[hasturfhtagn]

I think it would be fun to punish a sub by making them sit in a chair in the corner for a “time out”, except there’s a dildo in the middle of the seat that’s way too big for them to take comfortably, and they’re very firmly tied down so that there’s no way for them to escape the feeling of being stretched out and stuffed full. I’d take special care to tie down their hips so that every little movement they make would press the tip of the toy against their cervix with the full weight of their body.

Maybe the amount of time that they have to stay in time-out would vary depending on what they did to earn it, too. Five minutes for something minor, fifteen for something worse, etc. l, and at the end of the time limit I’d ask them to tell me what they did wrong and how they plan to avoid doing it again. If they can’t give me a good enough answer, then the time starts over. I bet that would be a pretty fun punishment. Well… fun for me, at least.

[m-at-night]

i've literally dreamed of this. maybe a vibrating dildo, so just when i start daydreaming or get off track, my Dom can start it back up and i squirm and whine because i can't do anything about it

[spankingwomen]

[anne-hairbrush]

Sometimes I feel like crying all day, for no particular reason. Those days I feel lucky to have someone who won’t hesitate to give me a good reason to cry.

[sweetmelody39]

[roughribo]

My favorite form of submissive conditioning is basic longterm positive reinforcement in the form of praise kink. It's my favorite because I love hyping them up and I love reaping the rewards of that praise. And all it essentially boils down to is consistently praising them for the behaviors you want to see in the future.

And I fucking love my partner giving me a reason to be proud of them and hyping them up with praise. In my case I really value obedience, control, and sexual service. So any time they obey an order, defer a decision to me, or please me without hesitation/resistance I dial it up and layer on the praise until I make them blush and make them feel how proud of them I am. And I'm consistent with when I hand out that praise and I'm effusive and genuine with my praise. If I want my sub to gush for me all the time, then I'm going to gush over them all the time.

I sprinkle in some spontaneous punishment for variety sometimes, specifically positive punishment, usually only as necessary and only very briefly. It's not as effective as positive reinforcement typically, but it can be a useful tone setter for expectations. A swift hard slap on the ass, a prompt stern look, and a verbal "know your place" will do wonders for enforcing expectations and keeping them on track whenever my sub falters or hesitates doing the behaviors I want to see out of them. It will keep them on their toes to behave, and to behave properly to my standards, not theirs.

This will not get you the behaviors you want to see out of them overnight. It will take years and you will have to stay consistent over all that time. But it's hard to deny the results when you say "kneel" and they don't even have time to process what you said before they're on their knees waiting for your praiseful adoration like Pavlov's dog. As if it's automatic for them. The behaviors you conditioned in them over time become their instincts. It's a beautiful sight.

And for those subs who were forced to become independent because of where their life took them or their upbringing, it can be absolutely liberating to be returned to their factory default settings of submission and obedience by someone who cares for them. And do I even need to explain why as a dom having a conditioned sub is awesome? You and your raw power and your hard work and dedication did that to them, you should absolutely be proud of that and take advantage of that conditioning for your own pleasure too.

[infinitelyhisgirl]

∞

[thinking-about-this-too]

My heart still hurts from the time I told my man that he was my best friend and he blurted out…”you’re not my best friend.”

[lordbortleby]

[still-wednesdays-child]

A girl pets status should be constantly reinforced... this will require a regime of regular spankings discipline and humiliation 💯🍅

[ickytreats]

How dare you? I'm sorry! No sorrys today little girl! My pretty girl blatantly ignored Daddy's rules. He shakes his head and pats his lap, over my lap you know what to do. I shake my head with a small pout, please...I'll- no excuses. Obviously I need to teach you again, he grabs my wrist and pulls me close. A hand coming up to my face pulling me down and squeezing my cheek. Daddy only takes care of the prettiest girls and I catch you doubting that? Doubting yourself? I won't have that happening in my house. Now get over my lap like a good little girl.

He lets go of my face and I huff with an eye roll. All I'm doing is speaking up, I bite back. I'm not the prettiest, smallest, or any of the other things you say. His gaze softens, says who? Says everyone! I throw my hands up in frustration. I'm not everyone, he stands up towering over me. I find you gorgeous, small compared to me, and everything I want. He grabs my chin again, we can have this conversation in or out of the scene you decide. In, I say softly as I look away. Okay then like I said I want you over my lap, he takes a seat. I sigh and put myself over his lap, that's a good girl. He coos softly as I feel him push my dress up. Exposing my panties to him, always has a pretty pair on to match how pretty she is.

I feel him grab my bottom, playing with the fat. I've always been so in love with these curves. I whine softly, you are going to talk with me. He hooks his fingers on my panties and pulls them down. I hear him moan softly at the sight, I've got such a precious girl on my lap don't i? I feel a hit on my bottom when I take a minute to respond. Y-yes you do daddy! That's right, you know what I love about her? Another hit, no... You don't? Oh well I love how she behaved with me, another hit. How she dresses, one more hit. How nice she can be, another. Love when she talks about anything and everything, another hit. That she's so different from other girls, I gasp when a hit falls on my cunt. How she fits so perfectly with me, he rubs my slits. Right? Y-yes...i fit so perfectly with you, my voice strained.

This pretty little clit, he laughs softly as he uses his thumb to rub it. Daddy- shush little girl, if it's not to tell me how pretty you are I don't wanna hear it. I whine softly and bite my lip. Such a small hole...doesn't matter how often it takes my cock. He suddenly hits my cunt a couple times, if you expect more pleasure than pain you better start talking pretty to me, princess. I take a deep breath and struggle to think of words, I'm daddy's pretty girl. I was stupid and silly to not see my beauty, I squeal when he goes back to rubbing my clit. Only the most pretty and important girls can take my daddy's cock. And that is? That's me! I feel like I'm getting closer, I'm daddy's only pretty and important girl. Good girl, he smacks my cunt again before going back to rubbing my clit.

Don't you ever forget that, he coos softly. My girl, my princess, and my everything. My legs shake as I get closer, if daddy makes you cum you have to promise to talk to me through these things. I gasp and nod, yes! I'll talk to daddy instead of being a brat, daddy knows it can be hard to talk- I cut him off, please let me cum. He laughs softly, my pretty girl can cum. I moan softly and finally let go, look at the fat cunt... so pretty and all for me.

[cruelmarauderkraken]

Structure creates clarity.

Every boundary, every restraint, every carefully designed limitation exists for a reason. They are not random. They are reminders that roles have been defined and expectations have been set.

In a world where most people live without direction, there is something strangely comforting about knowing exactly where you stand.

Some people spend their lives avoiding responsibility, avoiding discipline, avoiding accountability. But others seek it out. They crave structure because they understand that guidance from someone stronger, calmer, and more focused can bring a sense of balance they cannot create on their own.

[smiskare2]

[wastedyouth1983]

Reduced to tears as her husband wears her ass out

[tickleospanker]

Nuh uh, I'm staying quiet honey. You got your desperate fap material and I pinched and cooed at your digital cheeks; you don't get to know anything else.

I do really fucking love this though. I've sent a deliberately teasing ask to, hm, maybe one other special girl on this website. And she also responded in all caps, gushing about how I made her feel, that same performative flailing that triggers the predator in me, asking pretty please to have a chat. Never happened. I sat back, saw her silly followers sound jealous and flustered, watched her posts go from a dom's pov to explicitly her own for a good week afterward. Once I was bored and teased her again. Like clockwork, same reaction, same poor new needs I abandoned. Am I sooooo fun and manipulative, or are dolls like you just too easy to play with?

V gentle lesson before I leave you: when you meet someone, make it very clear it's your first time and that you have very hot fantasies but are not sure quite where all the real hurt totally fits yet. There's a lot of different ways to be mean when you've got a poor girl's bottom over your lap. When the sub knows it's also their job to understand their limits, I can be cruel in ways that they will definitely, definitely prefer.

I’m losing my mind over this. Holy shit. You’re right- maybe the severity that I crave would be too much for me 😓 I’m desperate for it though. For the endless rain of smacks- my desperation being overlooked. I don’t want the cute little “Oweee”s.. I want hard, fast, severe- praying I can do something to make it stop but it just increases in intensity. I want to feel like I’m going to die. I want the spankers’ amusement at my predicament to be obvious.. Enjoy my torment and don’t let my animalistic begging force you into a corner where you feel you need to stop or hold back. I want, no- I NEED to feel completely helpless, like I made the wrong decision. I need to be prey to a vicious predator.. But at the same time- this is my courage behind a screen.. What’s to say I keep that when I’ve got my milky white bare ass presented and it slowly goes from white, to pink, to red, to purple? When tears are pouring and I’m reduced to a child throwing a tantrum? Is it a deep, integral desire? Absolutely. Would I be screaming, crying, thrashing, begging? Probably. Is it what I want? Absolutely. But can I handle it? Probably not. For what it’s worth, though- you do have QUITE the way with words 🫣

[wednesdays-child-is-missing]

[texasbikerdom49]

Yes it will.