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This is Factomisia

Inspired by @this-is-pluralphobia and @this-is-fictomisia

This is a space where you can submit any factomisic experiences. This is not limited to factives; anyone with any factID is welcome to submit!

This can include hatred, discrimination, and/or fear of any kind directed at factIDs.

(Links for the flag and icon used in the banner and PFP are below the cut)

I don't allow...

NSFW asks. I'm sorry but I am not comfortable with this content.

Violence or threats of violence. (Venting is fine, but as soon as it turns targeted or you start describing things, your ask is getting deleted.)

Promotion of harm towards any being (including mental and emotional distress).

Usage of disorders as insults (e.g., don't call someone delusional if they disagree with you, or use terms like "narcissistic abuse") or as jokes/treating disorders unseriously.

Harassment.

About the Mods

This blog is run by a system. We support non-traumagenic and non-disordered plurality.

Tagging

#this is factomisia - submissions

#this is not factomisia - accompanies any non-factomisic related post

#mod post - used for updates about the blog

#vent - anything clearly labeled as a vent

#reblogs - anything that feels relevant

I'll do my best to add CWs, but if I miss any feel free to let me know

#this is factomisia #this is not factomisia #mod post #intro post #factfolk #factid #factive #factkin #factual id #factual introject #factualkin #factlink #faitive #faitkin #faitlink #endel

fictomasia is me getting told my source is problematic, or people making jokes about it every time i front. or make jokes about it. or people calling me a bigot. -jimmy.

#this is fictomisia #(technically doesn’t fit the blog. but the fictomisia blog seems to be gone so I’m allowing it)

Factomisia is seeing someone say that factives specifically need to source separate because they’re based from a real person (as opposed to fictives).

Sorry but no. All the factives in here have chosen their own levels of separation, from “you wouldn’t believe me if I told you they’re a factive” to my level, where I actually view myself as being more like a small piece of my source’s self that broke off from them and appeared here. I am perfectly comfortable and happy staying so source connected, and would be incredibly upset and destabilized if I had to separate. Let everyone choose for themselves. Don’t assume you know what’s best for them.

#this is factomisia

Recently discovered I’m a Fact kin/Otherfix of a guy who I have been hyperfixated on for months and I want to talk about it but I’m scared to talk about it in kin spaces.

FactKin is so demonized especially from what Iv seen in fictionkin spaces. Whenever im in a discord server for alterhumans I constantly check the rules and the blacklist to see if it’s okay to even bring up that Im FactKin. When I was first discovering this identity I hated it so much and I felt isolated because of it, there were no spaces that were openly Fact positive and I couldn’t talk about it

And now because my Hyperfixation is fading a bit so is the kin and I’m jus scared all that worrying and identity consideration was for nothing

I know of a factfolk discord server (though it's currently not very active). If you'd like you can DM me and I can send you the invite. All forms of factual identities are welcome in there

#this is factomisia #this is internalized factomisia

I (and the other factives in the system) feel the need to change our names and be as private about our sources as possible so that we aren't judged for our sources/blamed for hurting people by using their names?

Some of us feel the same way. It's a really frustrating experience

#this is internalized factomisia

this-is-pluralphobia

Ok so we're not sure if this is pluralphobia or not but we seem to have a problem with factives.

Not others, but ours. It stems from not wanting the real equivalent irl to not be uncomfortable even though MANY of us are Factives of others, straight up.

This was sparked by realizing our cringe culture helper or whater she's called (she helps express our interests we normally can't bc they're "cringe") is a factives of another plural blog, though we're not sure if it's all of those beings in general or like what's going on there.

Other examples are our irl friend, irl best friend where our normal could cross into more than purely platonic feelings but it's so causal it's kinda not a big deal, and another.

This is internalised pluralphobia and factophobia.

#this is factomisia #internalized factomisia #reblog

not sure if this counts but I just really need somewhere to vent anonymously. It has some super heavy topics, so absolutely zero pressure to answer.

I feel like I’m a factkin of a school shooting victim. In the sense that I have a past life where this is how I died. I don’t mean a specific victim and I don’t want to get into details for obvious reasons, but it scares me. I don’t want to seem disrespectful in any way shape or form and I understand basically anything related to my possible past life is a horrible tragedy that should never be spoken ill of. I’m just worried because if I am, I’ll have to keep at least the way I died a close secret so I’m not labeled as disrespectful and I won’t lose anyone I’m close to. I’m already labeled as The Friend That’s Too Woke and I’m sure this would push everyone to unfriend me. I guess I understand where people would be coming from. From their perspective, I’m making light of a horrible tragedy that shouldn’t be joked about. I’m genuinely scared of kinfirming this because of how controversial it would be to anyone “normal”

🫂 (if wanted)

This sounds like a really difficult situation

#factomisia vent

Factomisia is some acting like "introject" only includes fictives and not factives

#this is factomisia

I have a friend who keeps on saying “guess I’m not woke enough” whenever I’m questioning a facttype or gain a new factive 🫩

Wow that's annoying

#this is factomisia

Even people who claim to be pro-factive can get very weird about certain kinds of factives.

I just have to see a post that was positivity for factives, but specifically had a note excluding abuser introjects from that. You know, one of the most well-documented kinds of factives in literature about dissociative disorders.

They only changed it once someone pointed out that not all abuser introjects are still connected to their source or repeat the behaviors enacted by their source. Which, true. But shouldn’t they deserve good things regardless of their stage in recovery?

I feel like some people interpret supporting factives as “support headmates of actors and celebrities and stuff”. Which, of course support them. They’re great. But can you support the ones with a worse stereotype?

#this is factomisia

factomisia is being accused of being a criminal over being factkin

#this is factomisia

The idea that factives are ok because it can't be controlled who you introject but factkins aren't because... uh? "identity theft"? But it doesn't apply to factives? As if kins CAN be controlled?

(Honestly it'd make more sense to flip it around. Factives could be willogenic'ed or something but kins are literally uncontrollable. Not saying factives are bad btw, factfolk are valid whether it was controlled/intentional or not, just talking about the main idea of the argument...)

Yeah the argument makes so little sense

#this is factomisia

oopsc okay i misread the username and I sent the last ask feel free to delete it

All good! Do you want it back so you can send it to @/this-is-fictomisia?

(I think if I hit the Respond Privately option it’ll send it back just to you? Or you can DM and I can copy/paste it in)

#this is not factomisia

this-is-pluralphobia

(Internalized) pluralphobia is our introjects feeling like they have to be source-accurate to be valid

This is internalised pluralphobia and introject-phobia (idk if that’s a term).

#reblog

hi i don’t know what factomasia is and i was wondering if you could explain it? i tried looking it up and searching otherwise on tumblr, but all i saw was your blog and google just said it was a typo or mishearing

The "facto" comes from "factfolk" and "-misia" is a suffix which means hate, so it basically means "hatred against factfolk", so anyone like factkin, factives, factlink, endels, etc.

I created the blog because I saw there was a specific blog for fictomisia (hatred against fictionfolk), but not one for factfolk, so I based the name of of that

#this is not factomisia

You know, if I'm being honest: I did not expect to get so much attention on this blog so soon. I had followers literally *seconds* after making the first post. I'm glad so many are feeling seen

#this is not factomisia #mod post

factomisia is having to fight to be in alterhuman servers because I'm seen as a criminal if I don't explain or water down my identity

#this is factomisia

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