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everythingfox

Cat sees snowflakes for the first time

(via)

djklmnx

If it doesn’t open, it’s not your door

lifeafterpsychiatry

If you lost your teenage years to mental illness and/or trauma, I just want you to know that you did not “miss out on the best years of your life” and that it isn’t actually too late for you to have fun, explore yourself and grow into the person you want to be. There’s still plenty of time for all of that. I promise.

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same goes for your 20s

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Sebastian Stan being a dork

The original video came from his IG but I edited this on TikTok ☺️

thiscolorfultwilight

I think this is a new sexual preference for me

followthebluebell

adulthood is just a constant struggle of, “man, i want cookies for breakfast, but I also recognize this is a bad nutritional decision. On the other hand, the only one who can stop me is me. i know that fucker’s weaknesses. i could totally take me in a fight.”

dreamingofbabylon

frog and toad are my two remaining brain cells struggling to keep my horrible body alive

thoughtkick

“It’s both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so very deeply.”

— David Jones

nerdbrazil

Has it occurred to anyone else that Bucky Barnes is a Pisces (represent!) and Cap is a Cancer and those are best friends of the Zodiac?

Nothing in Marvel has ever made more sense to me. (Also, I don’t even really care about the Zodiac like that but I know way too much about it and it makes me laugh because I am also an emotional, dramatic little crybaby like Bucky)

Just random thoughts of a 26 year old clearly going through something. I’m pretty sure superheroes birthdays shouldn’t matter to you when you’re almost 30! 🤣

But since we’re already on the subject…

How is everyone feeling about Loki? I’m enjoying it. Visually it’s stunning and Tom was made for this role. But TFATWS is still my favorite and not just because I’m a total Bucky/Cap fiend.

The dialogue and banter between Bucky/Sam gave TFATWS more depth and was very humanizing in my opinion, which is something Marvel tends to lack. Even Cap and Tony never showed each other vulnerability in the way Sam/Bucky started opening up to each other over the episodes.

The writing was top notch.

Plot wasn’t as grabbing or strong as WandaVision or even possibly Loki (still too early to tell on Loki even through we’re at the finish line) but the character development of ALL characters in FATWS makes it the clear winner in my opinion. I also enjoyed that so far, TFATWS is the only show to show us what the MCU is like post-Blip.

Thanks for reading my unsolicited feelings on all things Marvel Phase 4. 😬

I’m sure you’re all VERY excited for my Black Widow review to come in! 🤣

#TFATWS #bucky barnes #sam wilson #Marvel #The Falcon and the Winter Soldier

scifiandfantasyuniverse

Mal Reynolds “Firefly”

cali-cocaine

this is good

embyrr922

I’d just like to add, see how they behave when they’re angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they’re calm, and then talk to them about it.

My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but after I explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration.

When I’m upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel like I’m mad at him, so now when I need some space, I’ll tell him what I’m upset about, or that I’m in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while.

See your friends and partners at their worst, but don’t assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they’ll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability.

ladylike-foxes

^^^^ This is the best advice I’ve ever seen on this site, and it is so important. Communication is everything, and is 80% of the reason my husband and I have such a healthy, strong, and supportive relationship.

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objectlessondujour

The book is 1984, which is neither. It's anti-authoritarian, which tells you a lot.

musicalsilence

Ya know, sometimes I wish the joke *didn’t* write itself.

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Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray // Virginia Woolf, Orlando

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anniespositivity

You do not have to look beautiful while walking down the streets. You do not have to look beautiful while eating. You do not have to look beautiful while talking. You do not have to look beautiful while laughing. While doing sports. While having sex. While singing. While dancing. You were not born to look beautiful, my love. You are here to enjoy, to feel, to live. There is no point in worrying what you look like when you are doing things you actually enjoy because that joy will be taken away by the fear of not looking good enough. Again, it is not your purpose to look beautiful, darling. Your purpose is to fall in love with life, to laugh until your belly hurts, to express your feelings, to sing from the top of your lungs, to dance as silly as you want to - without worrying about your appearance. For all that matters is that your soul is beautiful and happy.