thistles & weeds

plant your hope with good seeds don’t cover yourself with thistles and weeds

[thoughtkick]

“Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.”

— H. Jackson Brown, Jr

[letsmakepoppunkgreatagain]

Neck Deep - Take Me With You

[anxietyproblem]

[thepersonalquotes]

disagreements are fine, disrespect is not

[creeksource]

SCHITT’S CREEK S01 E11

[furiousgoldfish]

pressure put on victims to have compassion for abusers: IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII

pressure put on abusers to feel compassion and understanding for the victims:

[c-ptsdrecovery]

Everybody’s symptoms are different, but these are some common ones.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

you do not have to earn love. you should not have to chase after it or work for it. you deserve unconditional love.

[melblogsgfreethruptsd]

It’s not that they “don’t understand”

They’re not “confused”

It’s weaponized incompetence.

[beenthereregrettedthat]

[nmolesofadrenaline]

[furiousgoldfish]

abusers will go 'it makes me feel sooo upset when you live your life the way you want to and do the things you want to do, actually what you're doing is victimizing me by not existing only as a support and validation to me you are so abusive and selfish and you should think more about how your sense of freedom and boundaries is negatively effecting me'

[thistles-n-flwrs]

👏👏👏👏

[loveyourlovelysoul]

You are worthy. You are deserving. You are important. Do not let someone else's behaviour or judgment weight so much on you, they don't know you and they simply cannot see your real worth cause you are shining much more than them and therefore they are trying to overshadow you. So keep shining bright, my star. Keep shining no matter what.

[softgritspoonie]

[tklshtxler]

[family-trauma]

Sadly I can check off alot of items from this list. Time and self education are the only things that will help reclaim life back once you lose yourself with emotional abuse.

[thistles-n-flwrs]

Unhappiness consumes me when I come home.

This home is not a haven any longer.

Nothing positive, nothing warm comes from it any longer.