if the only men you know are scumbags then you should look into changing the social spaces you inhabit.
The majority of men are basically, like, fine, but it's a well-documented observation that people will tend to stick around with people who hold similar values etc. This is called "homophily" in the social sciences.
So you get these calls for men to "call out" their friends who make misogynist jokes but well... most of the men who will actually hear that message are already not friends with the men who make those jokes, BECAUSE they find men who make those jokes odious.
Decent men and scumbags tend to self-sort into distinct social scenes. This isn't absolute, there are mixed groups, but it can lead to specific scenes or subcultures where all the men are shit heads. If you are finding yourself surrounded by such men consider taking up new hobbies and expanding your social circles. You may have to go out of your comfort zone.
There are factors that bring heterogenous groups together -- work, school, university, to the extent that it's actually succesful political activity -- so it's not like you can have a life totally seperate from the bad guys. This isn't some solution to all life's problems. But I am telling you that if you think some abhorrent behaviour is something the "all men" do then you are wrong, and should consider whether you can change up your social surrounding so you are no longer exclusively associating with shitbag men. This doesn't solve sexism but it probably gives you, personally, a better time.
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