Women: I need to get this off of my chest.
I guess you could consider me to be somewhat of a feminist. Especially lately. The thing that bothers me about females is that we all turn ourselves into sexual objects all the time. I've never understood why we do this, but I've got my theory. We constantly feel like we have to one up eachother. Being a woman is a constant competition. We're competing for affection and attention constantly, and it's pathetic and ridiculous. Why do women feel the need to show a ton of cleavage, wear itty bitty shorts, and post pictures of it all online and flaunt it all the time? There is another girl out there looking at you and beating herself up because she doesn't feel like she measures up. Then she starts doing the same thing. It's a domino effect. One after the other, just to catch a male's eye. I guess what really bothers me is that a female can sit there with a shirt hardly covering her chest at all and get totally pissed when a guy can't maintain eye contact with her and automatically assume she is DTF. Here's the thing, sweetheart. Dress like a slut, you'll be treated like a slut. You're going to have offers only on what you're advertising. If you really want someone to love you, cover up the goods and turn him on with your charm and personality. You're worth knowing. If you want to be treated like a whore, by all means then continue acting and dressing like one. I don't believe for a second I could ever change someone's mind and make them be a little more modest, that'd probably be an extremely unrealistic expectation for a blog post. All I am saying is respect yourself and you'll be respected. Love yourself and you'll be loved. And for the love of God, put some clothes on if not for you, for all the other girls out there that don't feel good enough.