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hello! id be really interested in knowing how some of you guys are feeling during this social distancing/quarantine. if u are feeling lonely, sad, calm, relaxed, id love hear you out. this is what this blog is for! <3
Hey, because of covid-19 I have to leave my home. My mom is a doctor and she's in contact to the virus so in order for me to not get infected (I have preexisting respiratory disease) I must leave my home for 2 months and stay in quarantine somewhere else. We don't want nobody to die from this so, I know this huge change it's necessary, but I'm so sad, I just really want all of this to be over...
First, I must thank your mom for being a doctor and being able to help all these people. It must be so exhausting for her but we are all so grateful for her hard work. I am sorry you must leave your home, but at least you know your mom is saving all these lives and it’s better to stop seeing someone you love for your own safety and hers as well (she wouldn't want anything to happen to you). It will be over sooner than you think, as long as everyone follows safety precautions/social distancing/lockdowns. Try to keep your mind off the situation! Also, if you feel lonely, please dm me! I’d be happy to talk. <3 thanks for sharing your story with us.
hello! id be really interested in knowing how some of you guys are feeling during this social distancing/quarantine. if u are feeling lonely, sad, calm, relaxed, id love hear you out. this is what this blog is for! <3
Part 2: I recently found out that he had to be admitted to hospital and even had to be resuscitated (he’s okay now) and I just don’t know how to feel or even I should reach out to him, I feel like a liability around the sister in terms of information about him and I don’t know if I’m even allowed to feel emotional, but I just needed to get this out. Thank you!
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oh no im so sorry. i think you should definitely reach out to him and let him know what happened, i am sure he will understand. when people go through things like that, in this case being hospitalized, people appreciate when people are attentive, and even though you stopped texting u still mean well. if u explain what happened it will be ok. and youre totally allowed to feel emotional! emotions should not be repressed, they exist and its totally healthy and ok to let them out, whether it is laughing, crying, talking about them etc. never try to repress them! thank u for telling me about this, i really hope that you feel better and that my advice was good. if he was resuscitated maybe that is a second chance for you to get back in touch with him, thank god nothing happened to him. also, dont worry about sending long asks! im always here for u if u need to talk <3
Hey! Sorry for this long message, I was just so confused I needed advice. Part 1 I met a boy (brother of one of my close female friends) at a party and we hit if off, he asked for my number via his sister and we talked and planned a lot of things e.g. FaceTime, phone call etc... I lost contact with him when my phone got stolen, couple weeks later I got a new one but thought if I contact him then it’s looks so rude.
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meeting awesome people at parties is the best thing but oh im sorry u got ur phone stolen!! ill do a serious reply on the next ask hehe
I contantly live knowing i am going to kill myself eventually, not suicidal but its always been there
do u need to talk about it? i am and always be here for you, in case you want to discuss it. suicide is a complicated thing. just know that you're not alone <3
Hi. What age do u think is a good age to go on dating apps? I’m an adult already but I still feel like I’m too young to try it out & im scared if I see someone that I know because it’d be awkward but I also want to date?? I’m not talking to anyone rn
i think there isn’t a right age to go on dating apps. you can never be too young for them - unless youre a minor, but you know what i mean- and you can never be too old. its just a matter of wanting to try different ways of dating! and dont worry if you see anyone you know, because if you do, that means that you guys would be in the same position/situation. life is too short to not try things. just give it a chance :)
tw- sexual assault??? i don’t really know if i was raped or not? like i said no so many times but he just kept trying and so i finally gave in? i didn’t really say yes but i let him do it and let him keep doing it for months even though every time I said no a bunch before just letting it happen. i don’t know if this is rape? or sexual assault? im so confused. every time im around him i get so scared even though this was over a year ago. my therapist doesn’t even know. im confused.
i am not someone who could decide that for you, but it all depends on how you see it. if you give in, that doesn’t necessarily mean that it was consensual,, it’s a confusing thing. i think it would be better if you talk to someone that can answer those types of questions and provide the help that you need. idk where you’re from but RAINN is the US’ largest anti-sexual violence organization and they have a 24/7 anonymous and free hotline that you can call - 800.656.HOPE
if you’re not american or live in the united states, you can dm me or inbox me your country and i can find another hotline that works for you. i am here for you and i really hope you get the help and assistance you deserve. <3
Im 18 my father passed away last year. Yesterday while going thru some of his old stuff i found letters my mom and him used to write back and forth while he was in jail... i was a baby at the time and never new about him being in jail until i read those letters.. i asked my mom if dads ever been in jail and she said no so im kinda pissed that shes not telling the truth
im so sorry for your loss! maybe it’s because she wants you to have a good memory of your dad, you know. maybe you should come up to her in the right moment and let her know that you know but that won’t change what you think of your dad
push yourself to get up before the rest of the world - start with 7am, then 6am, then 5:30am. go to the nearest hill with a big coat and a scarf and watch the sun rise.
push yourself to fall asleep earlier - start with 11pm, then 10pm, then 9pm. wake up in the morning feeling re-energized and comfortable.
get into the habit of cooking yourself a beautiful breakfast. fry tomatoes and mushrooms in real butter and garlic, fry an egg, slice up a fresh avocado and squirt way too much lemon on it. sit and eat it and do nothing else.
stretch. start by reaching for the sky as hard as you can, then trying to touch your toes. roll your head. stretch your fingers. stretch everything.
buy a 1L water bottle. start with pushing yourself to drink the whole thing in a day, then try drinking it twice.
buy a beautiful diary and a beautiful black pen. write down everything you do, including dinner dates, appointments, assignments, coffees, what you need to do that day. no detail is too small.
strip your bed of your sheets and empty your underwear draw into the washing machine. put a massive scoop of scented fabric softener in there and wash. make your bed in full.
organise your room. fold all your clothes (and bag what you don’t want), clean your mirror, your laptop, vacuum the floor. light a beautiful candle.
have a luxurious shower with your favourite music playing. wash your hair, scrub your body, brush your teeth. lather your whole body in moisturiser, get familiar with the part between your toes, your inner thighs, the back of your neck.
push yourself to go for a walk. take your headphones, go to the beach and walk. smile at strangers walking the other way and be surprised how many smile back. bring your dog and observe the dog’s behaviour. realise you can learn from your dog.
message old friends with personal jokes. reminisce. suggest a catch up soon, even if you don’t follow through. push yourself to follow through.
think long and hard about what interests you. crime? sex? boarding school? long-forgotten romance etiquette? find a book about it and read it. there is a book about literally everything.
become the person you would ideally fall in love with. let cars merge into your lane when driving. pay double for parking tickets and leave a second one in the machine. stick your tongue out at babies. compliment people on their cute clothes. challenge yourself to not ridicule anyone for a whole day. then two. then a week. walk with a straight posture. look people in the eye. ask people about their story. talk to acquaintances so they become friends.
lie in the sunshine. daydream about the life you would lead if failure wasn’t a thing. open your eyes. take small steps to make it happen for you.
This is all really good advice for dealing with long term depression and anxiety. It’s not gonna magically cure you, but I’ve pushed myself to incorporate a few of these things into my day to day routine and it helps
i really need to follow this
4/? Possible TW!! .. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm extremely shocked that I was able to talk to someone about some of the most difficult topics for me to think about (for traumatic reasons) and I cant believe it was with this specific person, out of all people in the world. I didnt expect any of this, I already was surprised that we became acquainted in the first place in 2018 after I posted in the band page, and here I am working on my biggest life challenges with him now.
im happy for you! the people that are truly there for you come in the most unexpected places, and sometimes it takes a while for you to understand who the people are. it’s relieving to find them. <3
3/? Possible TW!! .. relationship. He responded to it with a lot of understanding and compassion which was also surprising because most people don't know how to react when/if I tell them. We ended up having a 3 hour long conversation about various aspects of why it makes me so uncomfortable and what might help me feel better about myself and I told him things I haven't told anyone before. It was really nice actually and I can definitely say it changed my perspective in a positive way.
yes! i am soso glad that he would listen to you, that says a lot of positive things about him, and sometimes it is nice to have someone by your side that is willing to understand and help!
2/? Sorry forgot to mention in my last message; possible TW!! .. The thing is - I have pretty severe PTSD from CSA and topics like sex are very hard for me and I know that both him and his dad (my idol, lol...) are very comfortable with it, unlike me, which is partially why I look up to them in the first place. So I explained a little bit of that to him and why I might be a little shocked or confused how to answer to his [very unexpected, might I add...] offer to include *HIM* in my current
ohhh ok i get it! it’s nice that they’re open. im glad he is willing to listen! :)
7. Also I am very sorry for practically spamming your inbox - I don't mean to be a bother I'm just so emotionally perplexed. Thank you for being here ♡
yes no problem! i am so glad that you appreciate the blog :) also, is this part 7? i only got parts 2 and 3. hmm.
3. with a person I have kinda looked up to for some time but didn't ever expect to actually speak with. Somehow, we had become acquaintances (idk if you'd call us friends since we haven't met) over the internet for a few months now and it was always pretty casual but not romantic or anything like that. Well the other morning, he messaged me asking if my boyfriend and I were interested in adding another person (him) into our relationship. At first I thought it was a joke or he was drunk
you should casually ask your boyfriend if he thinks it is ok. communication can go a long way! i dont know what you think about it since i think there was a mistake and i didn’t get some parts of the story, but if you feel like it would ruin your relationship with your boyfriend i would not necessarily tell him :)
2. and although I don't think my current bf would be as mad as my ex would've been, I still don't know how to explain this to him nor do I really think I should since, again, I don't plan to actually *do* anything. 2. I told my only other close friend a little but I didn't really go into detail because I don't want to gross her out or something since it gets a little graphic (I won't go into detail here either unless you say it's okay to do so) but anyway, I had a really personal conversation
im sorry i think you forgot to submit part 1 :( i cant see it anywhere. and sure, you can get graphic here! i will just add a trigger warning.
I messed up, I hurt people I love and care about. Im scared I'll be alone, but I know they have every right to walk away. I cant fix the past, and I cant right my wrongs. I havent been this alone before, and that is terrifying to me. I'm the bad guy in this story, but im still scared of the future
its never too late to apologize. a sincere apology can go a long way! and even though you can’t change the past, you can fix your future. don’t dwell too much on the past, embrace your mistakes and stay focused on the present so you can improve your future <3