Since my ex wanted to anonymously reach out on her secret third account, I thought I’d speak my piece on why I want her to leave me alone forever, as if I hadn’t already made that incredibly clear. It was hell being her girlfriend, it was hell navigating our breakup, and it was hell initially trying to be her friend in the aftermath. She used me as an emotional punching bag for 5 months. After I ended things, she tried to convince my wife that the connection they had was more special than the connection my wife and I had - one of the most evil things you can do in an ENM relationship. I have stories for days, and the screenshots and contexts below barely scratch the surface of what it was like to be in any kind of relationship with this person. She loves to act like she’s a soft, poetic saint, and I’m done allowing her to twist the narrative to whatever suits her best.
Truth is, I rarely think about her anymore. Her reaching out 6 months post-breakup on a platform she’s blocked on and attempting to cross my boundaries (her speciality) has me feeling fucking annoyed though.
Everytime she asks herself why I hate her so much, or why we can’t be friends (something I got asked constantly after we broke up), I hope she comes back to this post, takes a good look in the mirror, and can clearly see why she’ll never be welcome back into my life.
