down to chat with women and enbies but please be 25+ to dm me💜 i’m not the best at replying very fast at the moment though
men and minors DNI, and transphobes, radfems, terfs, racists, ableists, bigots and zionists fuck off. i block very liberally. blank and ageless blogs too.
If you don't talk to your girl while you are eating her pussy, telling her how good she tastes, how pretty it is, or just straight up moaning as you suck her clit between your lips, you aren't doing it right.
I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.
Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default
“Do whatever you want to me” and then not elaborating and putting the scene on the dom
“It’s not up to me” yes it is this is kink
And so on and so forth is alot of what I see, and it’s simply behavior I don’t engage with anymore.
Engaging online is obviously different but y’all, please be good to your doms. Holding scenes by yourself is really really hard especially when you don’t have anything to go off of, and the other person refuses to communicate what they want. It is very hard to have safe encounters, both for the sub AND for the dom.
Any idiot can have sex. But can you make a woman feel safe? Comfortable? Appreciated? Adored? Can you support her at her worst? No? Then stay the fuck away from her.