Do you feel confident?

**CAUTION: SOME NSFW CONTENT. IF YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE SEEING NUDE BODIES, DO NOT ENTER THIS BLOG.THIS IS NOT A PORN/FETISH BLOG.** This is the page where we honor beauty, strength, and health. This isn't about how to do your makeup and hair, or what diet and workout routine will make you supermodel skinny. This is the page where we come to be confident about who we are, and where we learn to take care of ourselves.

a good gender neutral term to use is “fool”

[tobeauty-andbeyond]

Help me out?

I think I'm gonna make a new blog, more of an aesthetics one but with ONLY original shit. If I made it would you guys help me out a bit by following me and promoting it? I've been really into photography lately and I don't want to spam my instagram

[tobeauty-andbeyond]

I am a demisexual, bicurious, cisgender female.

[micolanne-deactivated20251230]

30.10.2015 // “Bloom” ‘cause we’re all beautiful flowers. Ig | Fb 

[tobeauty-andbeyond]

Fuck you.

With all you aggressive SJWs and feminists and LBQT+ supporters out there, you really make me feel horrible for being a skinny, blonde, straight, white, cisgender female who likes minimal body hair. So congrats to you. You’ve done the exact opposite of what needs to be done in this world: help EVERYONE love themselves.

[flomation]

sexuality is confusing so maybe gifs can help

bisexual

asexual

demisexual

pansexual

[youarereadingthistextnow]

I literally fell off my chair when I saw the last one

[di-pression]

At least you didn’t fall off a building. 

[marilynsdirtymind-blog]

Omg .. everything. Especially ⬆⬆⬆

[khymeira]

working closing shifts at that obscure vid rental store looks

[tobeauty-andbeyond]

I want that shirt.

[the-plum-princess]

I didn’t wear the buns today 

[theimmaculatebeauty]

Happy Blackout Day!

[tobeauty-andbeyond]

I'm trying to name all of my cats after Harry Potter characters based on color and personality. Didn't have to change a thing on this one 👌

[tobeauty-andbeyond]

Thick girls, you win. The prom dress I want is only made in size XL even though the person modeling it is my size 😢 I understand the argument that bigger girls have been posing for years: the clothes we want aren't made in our sizes. I'm so sad 😣

[reakiro-deactivated20191023]

pro tip for bad body image days: look at yourself the way you’d look at a cat. average-sized cat? awww. itty bitty cat? so cute. big fat cat? mcfreakin’ adorable. cat with chubby cheeks? AMAZING. cat with a big soft belly? LOVE IT. cat with scars? MY CHILD. so go out there and strut your stuff like the cool cat you are !!

[adaptive--manipulator]

“But you never tell smokers they’re unhealthy!”

This is an arguement often brought up when we’re talking about obesity.

And I will tell you why that arguement is bullshit.

The whole point in telling obese people they’re unhealthy, is because most of them refuse to acknowledge that. They will scream somthing like “Healthy at all sizes”  and then change the topic by bringing up smokers. 

“But they’re unhealthy too, why don’t you tell them that?”

Because smokers know they’re unhealthy. If you’ve paid attention, you’d notice that on our cigarette packets there are at least two warnings about how smoking kills. They talk about it every grade in school. Every smoker gets told this at least 10 times the first time they start doing it. They;ve been educated long and hard about how dangerous it is. So it’s their responsobility. They know all of this but they continue. Which we have no problem with, because they NEVER blame other people for their mistake.

Got lung cancer? Well shit, my fault for smoking.

On the other hand, obese people will blame doctors for telling them to lose weight or chairs that they brake. Most obese epople never stop and think - is it really society’s fault or mine?

Also, you never see anti-obesity campaigns, while there are thousands of those for smokers.

Point beng, we are trying to educate people for things they may not know is shitting on their health. Smokers know the risks, some obese people don’t.

Which lifestyle you choose, it’s your choice.

[tobeauty-andbeyond]

I don't ever want to hear that men have it harder than women when it comes to genitalia (no pun intended). They don't understand what it feels like to come out of the shower all nice and clean, wrap up in a towel, then realize you have blood running down your legs and staining your towel. AND THE BLOOD DOESN'T JUST STOP WHEN YOU SEE IT, OH NO. IT JUST KEEPS FLOWING OUT OF YOUR BODY UNTIL YOU SHOVE A TAMPON UP THERE.

[youreanime-zing]

I just wanna put something out there that really pisses me off.

No. I do not believe everyone is equal. This has nothing to do with your gender, your sexuality, or any other shit like that. I’m talking about the people that make poor life decisions and choose to make their life shit. Why should I stand up for someone who drinks alcohol and becomes a drunk because it’s fun? They lost everything for a decision they made. I’ll be more than willing to help you but I sure as shit won’t listen to you complain about how hard your life is when all your problems are fueled by your petty alcoholism. There are people who’s parents abused them and forced them to drink alcohol and are now addicted without it being their choice. I refuse to see those people as equal. Not everyone is equal. Everyone has the opportunity to be, but not everyone takes advantage of it. If you have problems, FIX THEM. If you can’t fix them yourself, have someone help you. I can’t listen to people continuing to complain about “problems”. Everyone has something wrong in their life. If you don’t try to fix it yourself, I CAN’T HELP YOU. I will not listen to you complain about your problems if you refuse to help yourself. Sorry for the rant and sorry for the people I pissed off but I just can’t anymore. This isn’t just about alcohol either, I just used it as an example.

[ashleybeinghealthy-deactivated2]

Just woke up. Haven’t worked out in a week. Barely have worked out this entire break but guess what? I’m still not putting on tons of “fat”. Like four pounds of water weight and I look the same☺️ Friendly reminder to all my lovelies, make sure you live💕

[tobeauty-andbeyond]

So if you're like me and you feel like you take awful pictures, especially looking at what other people post, remind yourself that first of all NO ONE IS PERFECT and neither are you. Don't make perfection a standard for yourself, or anybody else for that matter. If you wanna take good pictures though, make sure you have good lighting cause as you can see, it seriously makes a difference. In the pic on the right my bags are virtually invisible and my skin in glowinggg. Also, I am wearing some makeup this is not a natural selfie. But anyways, just remind yourself that there are so many different things that go into a good picture and it takes a while to get all of them right. So try lots of lighting and watch yourself slay those "perfect" people. Stay fabulous you gorgeous motherfuckers 💜