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[toyhousedramas]

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THIS BLOG IS BEING SUNSET, PLEASE FOLLOW THE NEW ONE (STILL RUN BY ME) AT @toyhousedramatics

THIS BLOG IS STILL ANSWERING ASKS, BUT WILL CEASE TO DO SO ENTIRELY AS OF: JULY 30TH 2026

RULES ARE ARCHIVED BENEATH THE CUT

• My Mod Name is 'Tower', or 'Mod Tower', and I prefer to be referred to specifically as just Mod/The Mod/Tower/Mod Tower in place of pronouns. If you need pronouns for me, It/Itself. 

• I’m not going to let you use slurs or send death threats to people. I don’t need to explain why.

• I’ll try not to put a ban on topics or cut topics off. I don’t think it’s fair to people who still have things to say, but if the same drama goes in circles for weeks I may put a temporary ban on a topic until new info comes up.

• If you want to be scrubbed from this blog, that’s unfortunate, I won’t, the best way to avoid drama is to not send in an ask acknowledging you were brought up at all, it only ever makes things worse

• Serious accusations must be sent in with proof, ‘xyz is a pedophile’ ‘xyz is an abuser/is friends with an abuser’ ‘xyz scams!’ will be deleted unless you can send proof of this. I will not accept ‘look it up on instagram’ or ‘watch this video’ as proof. Do. Your. Own. Legwork. Send Me Proof Directly/Link To Proof Directly.

• I’m not holding a debate club, if a topic strays away from Toyhou.se I will delete your ask, probably.

•  The moderation of this blog is proship, I don’t care if Antis send shit in but know I will be mean to you.

• I’ll allow things that happen on other sites so long as it relates to a user who is also on TH but please clarify their TH username vs offsite at least in your first ask

• I don’t delete asks unless they break a rule or they don’t have to do with TH, don’t accuse me of deleting your shit, tumblr is a shithole badly programmed site, things get eaten. Just resend it. The exception is if you’re doing discourse that isn’t related to a specific user in my inbox, I reserve the right to delete that at my leisure. I.E: if you get mad at one of takes because I disagreed with your ask, and you try to send me shit arguing about it, I’ll delete it, I don’t do ‘arguing; on this blog, send your ask and get it posted then get the fuck out or whatever, if I disagree and you and you try to beef it out with me in my home turf I’m just going to ignore you.

• I’m not active in the community of TH, I literally just use it as private storage and I lurk. All of my content is authorization only. So threats saying you know my account will be deleted, I promise you don’t, no one does. This also means I have zero biases, I post things as they come

• The ‘Grain of Salt’ tag is for allegations with no proof that I may or may not just delete later, assume they’re all false until proven otherwise.

• Send in an ask with the term ‘AITA’ [Am I The Asshole] and I will append a poll to it and tag it as such to encourage people to weigh in

• Asks about minors are strictly forbidden, I am nearly 40, it’s not appropriate for me to be hateposting about minors or facilitating it.

• If people are misgendering you, please send an ask or message with pronoun corrections. However, due to past issues, I do not accept pronoun corrections on anon unless they link directly to a user’s TH where pronouns are hosted and up to date (if a user hasn’t been on in a year, I won’t accept it), otherwise, you must send pronoun corrections off anon, on your blog. I will NOT post your blog publicly, I will make an announcement about correcting the pronouns, but will not post your URL

• If you send me an ask with no context, I.E: ‘Does anyone have info on [username]’, ‘[username] knows what they did’ ‘[username] just can’t shut up’, ‘uhg I wish [username] would learn what neurodivergency is’ I will delete your stupid ask.

• Radfems of any variety are not welcome here, if you follow this blog and you are a radfem, whether the trans inclusive flavor or not, I will immediately publicly out your tumblr. Likewise for any other form of bigotry that one states proudly in their bio.

• If you censor a username in your ask such that I cannot read it in order to tag the post correctly, I will simply delete it. I sometimes need to go back and edit things in a tag or retag things, etc, and I don’t care to let anyone make that harder for me.

• If you send me an ask about how you love to go out of your way to ignore systemic political issues like Racism, etc, I will report your ask as spam in order to IP block you.

• If you are an anti and you send me an ask whining (I will platform antis who have things of interest to say but to be fair most of them aren’t actual antis) I will report your ask as spam in order to IP block you.

• If you’re wondering about the dog in the icon, search the blog for /Stranded and /Stranded’s Ex 

• I’ll add more here as needed

Blacklisted users and topics below. Blacklisted users are users who are known to be underage or who have been spoken about to the extent that I and most of those watching are sick of. Asks involving them will be deleted, unless you send in proof of severe wrongdoing.

Banned and softbanned topics are topics that have been going in circles for too long or that people refuse to have nuance about and I don’t want to deal with, Hardbanned topics are topics I will delete asks pertaining to 99% of the time unless I feel they are extremely important or have something to say, softbanned topics are topics I will delete asks pertaining to if they aren’t about an exact TH user.

Banned User Topics Simpgamer777  Discussed to death. Unless something new comes up do not force me to look at this over and over again. PSA and evidence are in the link provided. Gvrlfailure Wonderultra - Soft banned, asks that do not contain hard proof will be discarded Lovera Keropuppy

These users may submit, but may not be spoken about by others. These users are users who are minors, some of which have submitted proof of wrongdoing or predatory/dangerous behavior towards them. Others are simply minors that have been submitted here by users who can’t read the fucking rules. For those that have contacted this blog about people who have been creepy, predatory, or otherwise to them: I host their proof but do not allow people to discuss them directly.

Garzie / Necrotin ChrisLovesVHS  Foursona  CINNABONZ  toonilumi  AsmodeusHot Shadowtism OdysseyRebirth jynxnohcyare

Banned General Topics

Softbanned: Kin Discourse. 

Banned: Syscourse.

[toyhousedramas]

Is this blog going to stay up as an archive? Or is it getting deleted on the 30th? Sorry if that's a dumb question.

This blog will be archived, nothing on it will be lost!

[toyhousedramas]

Positivity time. Mewzoids HELLA popped off with the recent fruit bat batch!! I think a lot of their designs are cute, but never quite up my alley, so I've never purchased a design by them. But??? Oh my gosh I want that papaya bitch

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Remember that this blog is sunsetting, and will no longer accept asks after July 30th. The new blog, still run by me, is located at @Toyhousedramatics ]

[toyhousedramas]

New Followers: This blog is being sunset July 30th because I have moved it to be its own main blog, this blog is now located at @toyhousedramatics

[toyhousedramas]

All I asked was that a single screencap be acknowledged, you people are ridiculous.

[toyhousedramas]

Hello! I’m hoping to find info on the current whereabouts/usernames of somebody called Orion. She has at least 4 victims to my knowledge, but likely more considering how openly she would be sexual with minors. I will be brief on what she’s done, but she has been sexual with children as young as 13-14 while she was 17-18, and has obtained photographic CSAM from one of her victims. Shes also requested audio and video CSAM from others.

I have proof of most everything she’s done. All I need is anybody with info on her current whereabouts and usernames. If anybody recognizes her and has anything that may be helpful, please dm me or blog mod (if that’s ok with them) so that I can do something to hold her accountable. Thank you!!

Because I have access to private proof for these claims, this ask is being posted.

People may DM me with evidence, please send it to @toyhousedramatics if possible, as I will be checking that blog somewhat more going forward. This will be reblogged there.

[toyhousedramas]

hi I’m from the prev ask. I don’t really know what to think as a lot of people with DID have told me that child alters do have the mental abilities of a child and it is predatory for somebody older to take advantage in that state. I struggle to blame the person because they were operating on a childlike level and said that alter didn’t even understand the body was 20 and also that the alter didn’t know the concept of grooming/inappropriate age gaps which makes me feel even more like I took advantage of that lack of knowledge.

I also have a friend who was groomed by somebody bodily the same age but with a much older alter who talked inappropriately, and if I started saying bodily age is all that matters I’d be invalidating her very traumatic experience.

I appreciate the advice and I feel like it’s a really complicated situation where both of us are a little bit in the wrong. I’ll try to feel less guilty about it going forward since I truly didn’t know the alter’s age, but I think it’s always gonna make me feel a bit like a creep. But we’ve discussed/resolved it in private a while ago, so I was mostly just ranting about leftover feelings. Tysm for the concern though

Please try to understand you are 0% in the wrong, that person was definitely aware and had the responsibility to go 'hey, my Alter shouldn't have done that, I'm 20, this can't be a thing' and they did not.

Wishing you so much health and healing anon!

[toyhousedramas]

Anonymous asks have been turned on for @toyhousedramatics!

Sorry about that.

[toyhousedramas]

Posting this one in public even because I think some of you genuinely do not understand how absurd this expectation is.

No, I do not need to “do the legwork too.” You are the one making a claim. You are the one insisting someone is innocent or misunderstood or that context changes things. That means it is your responsibility to actually provide the relevant information in a coherent way instead of vaguely gesturing toward “go look through old forum posts yourself.”

And no, you getting a bad signal for a few minutes or even a few days or having to resend a link is not remotely equivalent to telling me to potentially spend multiple hours digging through toyhou.se forums, archives, screenshots, and user callout threads trying to reconstruct an argument you could have just presented yourself in the first place.

Especially because this is not my career. This is not my full time responsibility. This is a blog I run while juggling an actual life and actual work.

That 1-2 hours I spend digging through toyhou.se forums is 1-2 hours I could spend either resting or doing backend work connected to actual animal welfare and environmental work to protect the planet you people live on.

I have not been kicked by zebra, bruised by overly affectionate rhinos, or bitten by a sea lion just to come online and have a toyhou.se user involved in dragon drama lecture me about how I personally need to spend hours independently proving their argument for them because they cannot be bothered to compile their own evidence correctly.

If people are sending in evidence against someone, organized screenshots, timelines, links, explanations, then yes, if you disagree with those claims I expect you to do the exact same thing. Do the legwork. Compile your evidence. Explain your position clearly. Send in things that actually address the current issue being discussed instead of recycling old unrelated material and acting offended when it does not magically settle everything.

But do not come into my notes already being rude and confrontational while simultaneously expecting me to do unpaid investigative work on your behalf.

And definitely do not try to frame yourself as being in an even vaguely similar situation to me workload-wise because I do not for one second believe it took you over an hour to retrieve and send a single link.

I'm sorry, but this is ridiculous to even begin to say or push.

[toyhousedramas]

Starting the process of moving this blog to its own blog, as it currently exists as a side blog to a blog where I host work related things.

I will hopefully be able to re-snag this url eventually, but for now, know that @toyhousedramatics is me.

I will be archiving this blog, so nothing already sent here will be lost. In the meantime, please start following and utilizing that blog.

Asks sent here will still be posted, but they'll also start getting a link to the other blog to encourage it being used!

[toyhousedramas]

seeing carina ask people to move on and to stop talking about her while shes actively encouraging people to report a design that she gave away, and i quote, "with no strings attached" is... interesting.......

And her and her friend are in my notes being aggressive and rude while insisting she's changed, while also refusing to provide recent evidence of such, while others send me evidence of very much recent bad behavior.

I don't have a horse in this race, I take the evidence and I post what I am sent directly, I'm not on either team, so I don't know why they keep accusing me of being so.

[toyhousedramas]

all this is reminding me of how a bodily 20 year old toyhouse user dated me when I was 14. But it turned out the alter who mostly fronted while we were dating was 11 :( I of course deleted the PSA when I learned, but their are still posts up talking about how I dated an 11 year old at 14 and I feel so guilty. I didn’t know and I just assumed everything was ok since they were bodily 20, but I should have asked for alter ages and I carry so much guilt for it. I’m 16 now but I still feel so disgusting for not just asking and for making a callout when I was actually the problem

They abused you actually, plural folks are responsible for their systems, and bodily age is what matters when it comes to situations like this.

My plural friends (I show them any and all asks related to the topic so I can better avoid The Syscourse) are absolutely horrified and need you to know that you were and are the victim. You have been gaslit or manipulated or DARVO'd into thinking otherwise.

[toyhousedramas]

Anon to be frank I didn't even read your ask past the first few words because you were an asshole in the first few words, and I did attempt to block you, so just block me back if you're going to throw a toddler temper tantrum about the fact that I won't let an anonymous person go off about their opinions on a banned topic on my Toyhou.se blog.

This will be the last I post about it, any other syscourse asks will be silently deleted.

[toyhousedramas]

I'm posting this on behalf of someone who DM'd the page directly to me.

Regarding Carina Ayland's harassment of a user on Artfight. The anonymous user states that they are exclusively sending this in as evidence that despite Verridith's words, Carina has been engaging in this behavior as recently as 4/26/2026, and that they are only sending it because they're irritated by Verridith's arguing otherwise in the notes here.

It will be hosted under a cut.

TL;DR What has happened is Carina gifted an OC to someone and then two years later after that person had been writing, drawing, and RPing that OC for the last 2 years, went "nevermind, you can't use it any more because I want it" and is trying to claim that's a formal reclaim. Just. In case that's not apparent. toddler trying to steal toys out of someone else's hands and getting mad when people go "no actually I am going to continue to use my character"

11/12/2022 - Carina makes a character called Polaris, created for the Destiny Intertwined setting for a clan called Northwind. 11/14/2022 - CrayonSoup posts her Northwind character, Sanctus. 11/14/2022, 4 hours later - Carina posts a redesign of Polaris to resemble Sanctus more closely.

6/19/2023 - Carina gifts Polaris to Constelia.

6/29/2023 - Constelia redesigns Polaris.

7/22/2023 - CarinaAyland leaves Destiny Intertwined's Discord server.

10/7/2023 - Constelia checks in with Carina and makes sure permissions are in order. Quote Carina: "No strings attached, Polaris is entirely Stelia's"  Album attached >>> HERE <<<. 

7/13/2025 - Carina comments on Constelia's upload of Polaris on ArtFight asking to be credited, then edits it to say that she believes that Constelia's redesign is different enough from hers.

7/18/2025 - Carina posts a ref of her Polaris that resembles Constelia's redesign more than it resembles Carina's original. Constelia is not informed of any "reclaim", but the design description states that any other versions are stolen

3/8/2026 - Constelia and another artist (DrakiLady) redesign their Polaris to resemble other existing members of Northwind.

4/9/2026 -  Carina sends a somewhat inappropriate (Mod Note: I changed the wording here to make it less ableist admittedly) message to Constelia making demands and telling Constelia she's been gaslit or something, and then "apologizing" for doing this same thing with another one of Constelia's designs previously.

In plain text below: Hello Constelia, I'm messaging you solely to set the record straight with you once and for all. I don't want a reply. I want you to read, understand, and act as necessary. Without violating the privacy of this DM, please. I am here to solve things, not make them worse. This isn't an attack. This is an enlightening final message to you and you alone. I feel as though you lied to me, and everyone, about how you didn't steal from another artist, and that I "manipulated you into stealing a design" which several people have claimed. You lied to me a second time, stating you never felt such a way. That was not only hurtful but also to me, a display of how far you will go to save your face, all because you're a part of a toxic clique (in Destiny Intertwined) which you didn't want to disappoint when you were caught stealing. (Again, apparently, even though I considered it hearsay at the time.) DI is very toxic, and has changed you for the worse. This has made me feel like you either stole on purpose to see if you could get away with it like others have due to favouritisms, or to see if you could hit the last nail on my coffin, since I had my own problems to deal with already.  With that said, I'm here to list what I expect of you:

Remove your posts on Twitter/X about me, including whatever else defamatory messages DrakiLady added.* These issues have been laid to rest.*

Clean my name from all your public socials.

Never speak my name again unless it's to give me my due credits for your "redesigns" of Orion and Polaris. I want my name visible on their ref sheets as "original concept by CarinaAyland". (Regarding my Polaris, I will make my own adjustments)

Refusal to comply, will eventually result in escalation. This is your last chance to fix things with me. Just like I was given the chance to fix mine. About Solyne: you have my sincere apology for backtracking on the voidance. I was unreasonably attached to a design, one that you hyped me about, and I also had unhealthy company that only fed my already wrong ideals. At the time, it also felt justified to use basic things like the colors for one design, and the loose features for another, especially after losing a relevant sum in the transactions. It was never done out of pettiness nor with harmful intention.  Yet your poor behavior certainly didn't make it any easier to question my own poor decisions. The designs are currently being reworked with the individual that was most harmed in the ordeal. And the voidance is henceforth respected. However, you should also know that you displayed a high level of not just pettiness but also hypocrisy when you did an unsanctioned redesign of Solyne for Astarphel, solely to be in good terms with him. A redesign that was basically what you should've done in the first place, when you were first accused of theft. Had that been the outcome, instead of you doing a couple of changes, nobody would've been upset with you. You want others to respect you but you don't respect anyone. Not even yourself anymore. You wouldn't have been stressed into guilt tripping your genuine client and friend, that only wanted to support you, for a refund they never wanted to go through with because you needed the income, yet they accepted anyways. Because said individual prioritized your mental health over pixels. Only for you to have such awful actions, for whatever reasons only you know. In the future, give respect where due, use empathy and compassion, maybe get away from DI's toxicity. Please. I genuinely hope you will amend these toxic attitudes, as they only make you and those around you look bad. Regardless of what the Clique wants you to do. That's not healthy for yourself nor any hope of sincere friendships, because not everyone is as dumb as those around you make you think they are. Thank you for your cooperation, and may our paths never cross again. Sincerely: I wish you a better life, and may things go up for you from here onwards.

4/23/2026 - Carina reposts Polaris with... "edits". And a statement that Polaris was "recalled" and is "stolen".

4/26/2026 - Through Linsaangs as a mediator, Carina demands that Constelia changes Polaris to not have a black head. Carina did not come up with this marking, as seen above: the original Polaris did not have this marking until Polaris was edited to resemble Crayon's character. The black head marking is indicative of Destiny Intertwined's worldbuilding and Northwind lore. After some discussion, Carina says she'll drop it and she recognizes that Constelia's updated character does not resemble hers.

Sometime in the last couple days idk when exactly- Carina uploads her "updated" Polaris to ArtFight openly asking people to report Constelia's character as theft, including with a direct link to Constelia's profile. 

Submitting this design as a formal reiteration of ownership.

ATTENTION - This character is considered stolen as of 2026 by ConsteliaArts who has not taken down the character from her socials yet https://artfight.net/character/4649167.polaris. Kindly report it (as well as any unauthorised redesigns) for theft. Thank you!

Details: Due to the continued false accusations, public slander and other grievous attitudes, Polaris (peviously a gift) was recalled in 2025, and an official statement was made in 2026. However the character remains on this users' socials despite having no rights to it. Furthermore, two redesigns were made of it, first were adjustments to fit another world which kept the character much the same; the second was an entirely unauthorized design *after* a statement had already been made public about the character returning to its rightful designer and owner (myself).

Once the design has been appropriately taken down this description will be wiped of any mentions of the problem or the user.

[toyhousedramas]

Anon, we don't do syscourse here, I'm not posting your ask going off about people 'pretending' to have DID and I never will.

[toyhousedramas]

All forms of syscourse are useless and I hope this blog sticks to not posting about it. It’s a highly debated disorder and most psychologists agree that our understanding of it is very flawed, and it may function very differently than earlier mental health professionals believed. There’s a not-insignificant number of psychologists who argue that there isn’t proper evidence for the disorder existing at all. (I’m not arguing that this is the case in my personal opinion.)

I’m tired of “I have a diagnosis” being treated as an authority considering that these diagnosises are being based on a possibly flawed and outdated criteria to begin with, along with the fact that having a disorder doesn’t make you an authority on it, just like being a woman doesn’t make you qualified to make broad statements on the history and application of feminism. Personal experience only goes so far.

If even psychologists can’t settle on how this disorder works at its core or even that it exists, it’s pointless for people on the internet to pretend they know better. It’s endless and never reaches a conclusion, because the research for the conclusion doesn’t exist yet.

Rest assured that:

1. There will be no syscourse here, I cannot stand it, while people are welcome to discuss relevant things related to being a system, the moment anyone starts getting into syscourse I will shut that down 2. Plurality is complex and personal, and this blog is safe for all forms of it. Whether Traumagenic, Endogenic, Somewhere between, or something else entirely. And this blog will never become a debate platform for it.

I'm even only posting this ask to make my views clear since it's a little syscoursy, but every so often I have to remind people of where I stand.

[toyhousedramas]

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Answer to these things is almost always that you’re still responsible for yourself. If an alter commits a crime, you’re still staying in jail. If an alter cheats on a partner, you’re (probably) still getting dumped for it. If an alter does something awful, you’re still going to face the social consequences. If somebody sets a boundary with an alter, they are setting that boundary with YOU!

If your disorder is affecting you in a way that you’re struggling to control your own actions, you need to seek help and stay off the internet until you’re able. I see it as a similar predicament to people who have severe manic episodes that may cause them to say or do hurtful things. While I can understand that a disorder caused them to briefly act that way and that is not their “normal,” it was still them that did it, the same way it is still a central “you” doing everything that your alters do.

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