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[toyhousedramas]

READ ME

THIS BLOG IS BEING SUNSET, PLEASE FOLLOW THE NEW ONE (STILL RUN BY ME) AT @toyhousedramatics

THIS BLOG IS STILL ANSWERING ASKS, BUT WILL CEASE TO DO SO ENTIRELY AS OF: JULY 30TH 2026

RULES ARE ARCHIVED BENEATH THE CUT

• My Mod Name is 'Tower', or 'Mod Tower', and I prefer to be referred to specifically as just Mod/The Mod/Tower/Mod Tower in place of pronouns. If you need pronouns for me, It/Itself. 

• I’m not going to let you use slurs or send death threats to people. I don’t need to explain why.

• I’ll try not to put a ban on topics or cut topics off. I don’t think it’s fair to people who still have things to say, but if the same drama goes in circles for weeks I may put a temporary ban on a topic until new info comes up.

• If you want to be scrubbed from this blog, that’s unfortunate, I won’t, the best way to avoid drama is to not send in an ask acknowledging you were brought up at all, it only ever makes things worse

• Serious accusations must be sent in with proof, ‘xyz is a pedophile’ ‘xyz is an abuser/is friends with an abuser’ ‘xyz scams!’ will be deleted unless you can send proof of this. I will not accept ‘look it up on instagram’ or ‘watch this video’ as proof. Do. Your. Own. Legwork. Send Me Proof Directly/Link To Proof Directly.

• I’m not holding a debate club, if a topic strays away from Toyhou.se I will delete your ask, probably.

•  The moderation of this blog is proship, I don’t care if Antis send shit in but know I will be mean to you.

• I’ll allow things that happen on other sites so long as it relates to a user who is also on TH but please clarify their TH username vs offsite at least in your first ask

• I don’t delete asks unless they break a rule or they don’t have to do with TH, don’t accuse me of deleting your shit, tumblr is a shithole badly programmed site, things get eaten. Just resend it. The exception is if you’re doing discourse that isn’t related to a specific user in my inbox, I reserve the right to delete that at my leisure. I.E: if you get mad at one of takes because I disagreed with your ask, and you try to send me shit arguing about it, I’ll delete it, I don’t do ‘arguing; on this blog, send your ask and get it posted then get the fuck out or whatever, if I disagree and you and you try to beef it out with me in my home turf I’m just going to ignore you.

• I’m not active in the community of TH, I literally just use it as private storage and I lurk. All of my content is authorization only. So threats saying you know my account will be deleted, I promise you don’t, no one does. This also means I have zero biases, I post things as they come

• The ‘Grain of Salt’ tag is for allegations with no proof that I may or may not just delete later, assume they’re all false until proven otherwise.

• Send in an ask with the term ‘AITA’ [Am I The Asshole] and I will append a poll to it and tag it as such to encourage people to weigh in

• Asks about minors are strictly forbidden, I am nearly 40, it’s not appropriate for me to be hateposting about minors or facilitating it.

• If people are misgendering you, please send an ask or message with pronoun corrections. However, due to past issues, I do not accept pronoun corrections on anon unless they link directly to a user’s TH where pronouns are hosted and up to date (if a user hasn’t been on in a year, I won’t accept it), otherwise, you must send pronoun corrections off anon, on your blog. I will NOT post your blog publicly, I will make an announcement about correcting the pronouns, but will not post your URL

• If you send me an ask with no context, I.E: ‘Does anyone have info on [username]’, ‘[username] knows what they did’ ‘[username] just can’t shut up’, ‘uhg I wish [username] would learn what neurodivergency is’ I will delete your stupid ask.

• Radfems of any variety are not welcome here, if you follow this blog and you are a radfem, whether the trans inclusive flavor or not, I will immediately publicly out your tumblr. Likewise for any other form of bigotry that one states proudly in their bio.

• If you censor a username in your ask such that I cannot read it in order to tag the post correctly, I will simply delete it. I sometimes need to go back and edit things in a tag or retag things, etc, and I don’t care to let anyone make that harder for me.

• If you send me an ask about how you love to go out of your way to ignore systemic political issues like Racism, etc, I will report your ask as spam in order to IP block you.

• If you are an anti and you send me an ask whining (I will platform antis who have things of interest to say but to be fair most of them aren’t actual antis) I will report your ask as spam in order to IP block you.

• If you’re wondering about the dog in the icon, search the blog for /Stranded and /Stranded’s Ex 

• I’ll add more here as needed

Blacklisted users and topics below. Blacklisted users are users who are known to be underage or who have been spoken about to the extent that I and most of those watching are sick of. Asks involving them will be deleted, unless you send in proof of severe wrongdoing.

Banned and softbanned topics are topics that have been going in circles for too long or that people refuse to have nuance about and I don’t want to deal with, Hardbanned topics are topics I will delete asks pertaining to 99% of the time unless I feel they are extremely important or have something to say, softbanned topics are topics I will delete asks pertaining to if they aren’t about an exact TH user.

Banned User Topics Simpgamer777  Discussed to death. Unless something new comes up do not force me to look at this over and over again. PSA and evidence are in the link provided. Gvrlfailure Wonderultra - Soft banned, asks that do not contain hard proof will be discarded Lovera Keropuppy

These users may submit, but may not be spoken about by others. These users are users who are minors, some of which have submitted proof of wrongdoing or predatory/dangerous behavior towards them. Others are simply minors that have been submitted here by users who can’t read the fucking rules. For those that have contacted this blog about people who have been creepy, predatory, or otherwise to them: I host their proof but do not allow people to discuss them directly.

Garzie / Necrotin ChrisLovesVHS  Foursona  CINNABONZ  toonilumi  AsmodeusHot Shadowtism OdysseyRebirth jynxnohcyare

Banned General Topics

Softbanned: Kin Discourse. 

Banned: Syscourse.

[toyhousedramas]

Why do we need a label for "ship and let ship" to begin with though. I know fandoms can be rabid but I usually assume that it's the default. I'm wary of self identified proshippers because normal people don't need to signal that they won't harass anybody.

Because unfortunately harassment and public callout posts are the default now. Are you not more concerned about the people who self label as harassing others?

[ This blog will no longer answer asks after July 30th. The new blog, run by me, is @toyhousedramatics ]

[toyhousedramatics]

Update. I have been sent further evidence that Trix did not mean the apology given, and that she is saying even worse things in private. Here is an example of how this group behaved behind 'closed' doors:

This is the kind of person this group is friends with. This is the kind of behavior being encouraged via not being immediately called out and pushed back against.

This is how I, an unrelated third party, not even one of the actual targets of this ongoing mess, am being spoken about because I hosted, not even my own opinions, hosted boring nothing asks from other people on a tumblr blog about tracing spyro the dragon pixels.

[toyhousedramatics]

Verridith, Carina, and Firedragonx will all be blocked going forward for posting and encouraging posts and messages threatening me and telling me to kill myself. You may still send in asks about them, but I will not be allowing them to speak here.

Also I’m not zoo staff, I work in a job that just happens to involve being hired by them but I am not employed by a singular zoo, but good guess.

Please be extremely wary of this group, while a bunch of sad internet strangers has no effect on me, if this is how they’re willing to behave and allow their side to behave in public towards an anonymous unrelated party, I have no idea how they must be treating victims.

Yes I consider them all complicit in this for not telling this person to delete it. Suicide baiting people is never okay.

[toyhousedramas]

https://toyhou.se/~forums/5867.service-reviews/813832.urgnuggetmachines-2-psa

BOOM NEW PSA FOR NUGGET! use this instead of the old

( reminder that this blog will no longer answer asks after July 30th. The new blog I run is @toyhousedramatics )

[toyhousedramas]

Is this blog going to stay up as an archive? Or is it getting deleted on the 30th? Sorry if that's a dumb question.

This blog will be archived, nothing on it will be lost!

[toyhousedramas]

Positivity time. Mewzoids HELLA popped off with the recent fruit bat batch!! I think a lot of their designs are cute, but never quite up my alley, so I've never purchased a design by them. But??? Oh my gosh I want that papaya bitch

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Remember that this blog is sunsetting, and will no longer accept asks after July 30th. The new blog, still run by me, is located at @Toyhousedramatics ]

[toyhousedramas]

New Followers: This blog is being sunset July 30th because I have moved it to be its own main blog, this blog is now located at @toyhousedramatics

[toyhousedramas]

All I asked was that a single screencap be acknowledged, you people are ridiculous.

[toyhousedramas]

Hello! I’m hoping to find info on the current whereabouts/usernames of somebody called Orion. She has at least 4 victims to my knowledge, but likely more considering how openly she would be sexual with minors. I will be brief on what she’s done, but she has been sexual with children as young as 13-14 while she was 17-18, and has obtained photographic CSAM from one of her victims. Shes also requested audio and video CSAM from others.

I have proof of most everything she’s done. All I need is anybody with info on her current whereabouts and usernames. If anybody recognizes her and has anything that may be helpful, please dm me or blog mod (if that’s ok with them) so that I can do something to hold her accountable. Thank you!!

Because I have access to private proof for these claims, this ask is being posted.

People may DM me with evidence, please send it to @toyhousedramatics if possible, as I will be checking that blog somewhat more going forward. This will be reblogged there.

[toyhousedramas]

hi I’m from the prev ask. I don’t really know what to think as a lot of people with DID have told me that child alters do have the mental abilities of a child and it is predatory for somebody older to take advantage in that state. I struggle to blame the person because they were operating on a childlike level and said that alter didn’t even understand the body was 20 and also that the alter didn’t know the concept of grooming/inappropriate age gaps which makes me feel even more like I took advantage of that lack of knowledge.

I also have a friend who was groomed by somebody bodily the same age but with a much older alter who talked inappropriately, and if I started saying bodily age is all that matters I’d be invalidating her very traumatic experience.

I appreciate the advice and I feel like it’s a really complicated situation where both of us are a little bit in the wrong. I’ll try to feel less guilty about it going forward since I truly didn’t know the alter’s age, but I think it’s always gonna make me feel a bit like a creep. But we’ve discussed/resolved it in private a while ago, so I was mostly just ranting about leftover feelings. Tysm for the concern though

Please try to understand you are 0% in the wrong, that person was definitely aware and had the responsibility to go 'hey, my Alter shouldn't have done that, I'm 20, this can't be a thing' and they did not.

Wishing you so much health and healing anon!

[toyhousedramas]

Anonymous asks have been turned on for @toyhousedramatics!

Sorry about that.

[toyhousedramas]

Posting this one in public even because I think some of you genuinely do not understand how absurd this expectation is.

No, I do not need to “do the legwork too.” You are the one making a claim. You are the one insisting someone is innocent or misunderstood or that context changes things. That means it is your responsibility to actually provide the relevant information in a coherent way instead of vaguely gesturing toward “go look through old forum posts yourself.”

And no, you getting a bad signal for a few minutes or even a few days or having to resend a link is not remotely equivalent to telling me to potentially spend multiple hours digging through toyhou.se forums, archives, screenshots, and user callout threads trying to reconstruct an argument you could have just presented yourself in the first place.

Especially because this is not my career. This is not my full time responsibility. This is a blog I run while juggling an actual life and actual work.

That 1-2 hours I spend digging through toyhou.se forums is 1-2 hours I could spend either resting or doing backend work connected to actual animal welfare and environmental work to protect the planet you people live on.

I have not been kicked by zebra, bruised by overly affectionate rhinos, or bitten by a sea lion just to come online and have a toyhou.se user involved in dragon drama lecture me about how I personally need to spend hours independently proving their argument for them because they cannot be bothered to compile their own evidence correctly.

If people are sending in evidence against someone, organized screenshots, timelines, links, explanations, then yes, if you disagree with those claims I expect you to do the exact same thing. Do the legwork. Compile your evidence. Explain your position clearly. Send in things that actually address the current issue being discussed instead of recycling old unrelated material and acting offended when it does not magically settle everything.

But do not come into my notes already being rude and confrontational while simultaneously expecting me to do unpaid investigative work on your behalf.

And definitely do not try to frame yourself as being in an even vaguely similar situation to me workload-wise because I do not for one second believe it took you over an hour to retrieve and send a single link.

I'm sorry, but this is ridiculous to even begin to say or push.

[toyhousedramas]

Starting the process of moving this blog to its own blog, as it currently exists as a side blog to a blog where I host work related things.

I will hopefully be able to re-snag this url eventually, but for now, know that @toyhousedramatics is me.

I will be archiving this blog, so nothing already sent here will be lost. In the meantime, please start following and utilizing that blog.

Asks sent here will still be posted, but they'll also start getting a link to the other blog to encourage it being used!

[toyhousedramas]

seeing carina ask people to move on and to stop talking about her while shes actively encouraging people to report a design that she gave away, and i quote, "with no strings attached" is... interesting.......

And her and her friend are in my notes being aggressive and rude while insisting she's changed, while also refusing to provide recent evidence of such, while others send me evidence of very much recent bad behavior.

I don't have a horse in this race, I take the evidence and I post what I am sent directly, I'm not on either team, so I don't know why they keep accusing me of being so.

[toyhousedramas]

all this is reminding me of how a bodily 20 year old toyhouse user dated me when I was 14. But it turned out the alter who mostly fronted while we were dating was 11 :( I of course deleted the PSA when I learned, but their are still posts up talking about how I dated an 11 year old at 14 and I feel so guilty. I didn’t know and I just assumed everything was ok since they were bodily 20, but I should have asked for alter ages and I carry so much guilt for it. I’m 16 now but I still feel so disgusting for not just asking and for making a callout when I was actually the problem

They abused you actually, plural folks are responsible for their systems, and bodily age is what matters when it comes to situations like this.

My plural friends (I show them any and all asks related to the topic so I can better avoid The Syscourse) are absolutely horrified and need you to know that you were and are the victim. You have been gaslit or manipulated or DARVO'd into thinking otherwise.

[toyhousedramas]

Anon to be frank I didn't even read your ask past the first few words because you were an asshole in the first few words, and I did attempt to block you, so just block me back if you're going to throw a toddler temper tantrum about the fact that I won't let an anonymous person go off about their opinions on a banned topic on my Toyhou.se blog.

This will be the last I post about it, any other syscourse asks will be silently deleted.