lgbtpn positivity

hi ! my name's remy, and i'm a trans boy. feel free to send asks, i'll try to keep it as kind and positive here as possible ! 💜 people are welcome to submit positive posts 💜

[boys--love--boys]

shoutout to mlm who:

like glitter

like pink

wear short shorts and crop tops

who love to bake

who have a high pitched voice

are soft

cry a lot

are feminine

are flamboyant 

you are not bad for liking these things or being this way

it is perfectly natural to have these interests and mannerisms

you are not giving gay men a bad name by being yourself 

everything about you is fantastic and im proud of you

[transboyespy-blog]

lgbtpn people that have cluster c personality disorders? we're all good and deserve to feel safe with the people in our lives. cluster cs with avpd? we all deserve a very special safe person or two that we can trust with our feelings that don't try to tear us down. cluster cs with dpd? u all deserve a depended that treats you well and loves you entirely. cluster cs with ocd? ur super duper cool people and deserve people that respect your boundaries and understand u even though cluster c people are usually defined by anxiety or being fearful, we're all very tough even with our personality disorders.

[straightboyfriend]

passing in terms of being transgender is a flawed concept because some people use it to:

• invalidate a trans person’s sexuality (ex: you aren’t “actually” gay/straight because you don’t pass) • invalidate their trans identity (ex: you don’t try to pass therefore you aren’t a real trans person) • say that trans people who pass are inherently better & more attractive than nonpassing trans people

not to mention MOST trans people are unable to pass unless they have access to hormones & medical assistance which is a privilege, & also there are closeted trans people who cant transition even physically for their own safety, as well as trans people who dont even want to pass.

how well you pass doesnt determine your sexuality or if youre actually trans, its a personal decision & place of privilege

[transboyespy-blog]

I've never seen a positivity post for us before so: shout out to all of the lgbtpn people with avpd. those without safe people to trust with our emotions those who are self diagnosed those that are too scared and anxious to fully express yourself and your identity we deserve a lot of love and we're all strong despite our personality disorder.

[radfemsideblog]

psa: you don’t need dysphoria to be trans

[hpdprince-blog]

trans mlm are not and never will be straight girls.  trans mlm are not and never will be straight girls.  trans mlm are not and never will be straight girls.  trans mlm are not and never will be straight girls. trans mlm have a right to talk about mlm issues because they are men who love men

[userboxer]

[candymlm]

This post is for those mlm who struggle to feel represented when they are looking at mlm posts. So if you are a…

Trans mlm 💙💙💙

Mlmoc 💙💙💙

Neurodivergent mlm 💙💙💙

Fat mlm 💙💙💙

Nonbinary mlm 💙💙💙

Bisexual/Pansexual mlm 💙💙💙

Asexual/Aromantic mlm 💙💙💙

YES you are mlm enough. You are good, perfect and deserve to be happy!

[transboyespy-blog]

i hope you've all had a good day !

[catwhisker-archive-deactivated2]

Shout out to lesbians who use it/its pronouns

your pronouns are just as valid and real as your sexuality <3

(okay to reblog if you aren’t a lesbian who uses it/its pronouns)

[you-are-another-me]

[yokitoshi]

To all of the Trans Guys that have been misgendered today: you look handsome today

To all of the Trans Guys that haven’t started T yet: you are still handsome as fuck

To all of the Trans Guys that have to deal with Transphobia: Remember you’re strong and never let anyone crush your spirits

To all of the Trans Guys that don’t want to go on T: you’re still a real man no matter what anyone else says

To all of the Trans Guys that don’t want top and/or bottom surgery: You’re amazing the way you are

To all of the Trans Guys on their period right now: you’re strong never forget that

To all of the Trans Guys that are feeling Dysphoric: stay strong

To all of the Trans Guys that aren’t Dysphoric: you’re still valid

To all of the Trans Girls that have been misgendered today: you look pretty today

To all of the Trans Girls that haven’t started E yet: you’re still gorgeous as fuck

To all of the Trans Girls that have to deal with Transphobia: Remember you’re strong and never let anyone crush your spirits

To all of the Trans Girls that don’t want to go on E: you’re still a real woman no matter what anyone else says

To all of the Trans girls that don’t want Top and/or Bottom surgery: you’re amazing the way you are

To all of the Trans Girls that have body hair: you are pretty

To all Trans Girls that are feeling Dysphoric: stay strong

To all of the Trans Girls that aren’t Dysphoric: you’re still valid

To all Non-Binary People that have been misgendered today: you look amazing today

To all Non-Binary People that haven’t started hormone therapy yet: you look great

To all Non-Binary People that have to deal with Transphobia: Remember you’re strong and never let anyone crush your spirits

To all Non-Binary People that don’t want to go on Hormone therapy: you look fantastic

To all Non-Binary that don’t want top and/or bottom surgery: You’re amazing the way you are

To all Non-Binary people on their period right now: you’re strong never forget that

To all Non-Binary people with body hair: you’re amazing

To all Non-Binary people that are feeling Dysphoric: stay strong

To all Non-Binary people that aren’t Dysphoric: you’re still valid

[mioxenoblade]

You don’t have to respect someone who wishes to do you harm.

[transboyespy-blog]

questioning and being unsure is okay and finding your identity is a process that all of us go through in one way or another

[tripppmag-deactivated20181130]

[monty-green]

reminders for the young wlw out there

it’s okay to want to have sex with a girl

it’s also okay to be totally terrified at the thought of having sex with a girl- internalized homophobia affects all of us to a certain extent

it’s okay to want to make out with a girl for hours on end (seriously, it’s totally an okay thing to think about)

it’s okay to fantasize about girls, even in a sexual way. you are not dirty for doing this.

you can absolutely wear clothes that are stereotypically lesbian, such as flannels. in the same note, you can totally cut your hair short if you want. you aren’t perpetuating a stereotype, you’re embracing who you are

you can also completely stay away from any clothing that would signify you might be a wlw (especially if you’re in a situation where the suspicion that you’re a wlw could cause you harm)- it’s completely your choice, just don’t shame anybody that does decide to take on that style.

it’s okay to not immediately date a girl once you come out. take some time to figure out your feelings, it’s okay. you’ll find somebody that you want to date in your own time, or you can just decide you don’t want to ever date anybody. that’s also perfectly okay.

it’s okay to dream about a future with a wife

it’s okay to hold your girlfriend’s hand in public and be affectionate in public. it’s not gross or icky, it’s good and cute, i promise.

it’s okay to come out to everybody you speak to (there’s nothing wrong with you, and if people judge you, they’re the ones who are wrong), but it’s also valid to only come out to a small select group of people. both approaches are fine.

it’s okay to masturbate while thinking about girls. it’s okay, you’re not weird for doing this. it’s a common thing.

it’s okay to watch movies or tv shows with wlw, even the ones that are cliche and really cheesy. if they make you feel validated and happy, continue doing so.

being a wlw is not shameful

you are not broken

you aren’t somebody that needs to be “fixed”

your thoughts and feelings are valid

you are not alone

you are loved

[fatwlws]

say it with me: chub is cute. chub is good. girls with chub are cute and good.