Here Queer Gender Nonconforming And Sincere

Mad ramblings of a history, culture, and theory enthused transsexual

[transexual-menace]

An intro:

33 year old genderqueer transexual

Queer politically/lesbian sexually/butch romantically

I’ll repost and ramble about queer history, culture, politics, and theory.

I’ve identified as many things throughout my journey and I empathize with many different groups and will write and post about all of them.

Pronouns Ze/Hir

Disclaimer: I might use language to describe myself that others might not find comfortable and I will never push it off on you to describe yourself but respect my right to identify with those words.

I’m not an expert or a professional scholar so take my own thoughts with a grain of salt.

Please talk to me about anything. Im here for community and learning.

There may be an occasional piece of nsfw content but I am not a strictly nsfw blog. Im here for everyone.

Follow along and maybe we can learn from one another.

All original writings will be tagged as #personal musings

[gentlemosses]

what if we cut each other’s hair in the kitchen…….. and we were both butches

11x16in acrylic on canvas

[deathtokillian]

Ideas are cooking for my pride outfit.

[misshera-misshera]

this is so obviously fat femme x tbutch dyke dreamland, right?

(i’ve been seeing this dreamland for weeks and we drink the water straight from the stream in our meadow in the back, orange cat black cat sweet warm snuggles, sun warmed tiles in the kitchen bare feet, perfectly oil painted easel in the studio, hooks and needles dancing with yarn and thread in the living room, creation life pleasure heat honey on the tips of our tongues always, always forever)

[wolfertinger666]

because I like it

[wolfertinger666]

before anyone thinks I'm making a strawman, no. ive seen people even other trans people show their whole asses to me with their transphobia.

[wolfertinger666]

sigh

btw you have the reblog pass...don't misuse it

(this is a joke because I said the n word but seriously don't be afraid to boost black voices)

[transfemme-shelterdog]

The real male loneliness epidemic is trans men and transmascs losing all sort of community and support systems that they had prior to transitioning, and being treated like a predator from those who should be by their sides, purely because they dared to be themselves.

[arodabi]

Sometimes i feel like younger queer kids are getting a bit to bold with openly talking to people they don’t know In The Context Of:

More than once i have had a younger/same age queer person come up to me in public settings and say something about “finding other gays” or clearly clocking me as nonbinary and I’m like :)))))))) hey buddy I’m here with my conservative parents can you fucking not out me :))))))))

Just say you like my outfit or hair and move on, fuck even tell me you like my shoelaces. Don’t call me gay and limp your wrist at me when you don’t even know me? Especially when there’s a bunch of ppl around?

[the-gayest-tuba]

i was out with my ex once when three *very* young queer kids, like thirteen years old, came up to us and asked us “are you guys, you know…” and did the limp wrist thing at us. one of them loudly exclaimed that it was so cool to meet other queer people in real life. this was in public in an unbelievably conservative area - we didn’t even feel safe holding hands because we were surrounded by Mormons. we got lucky that day, but I’m begging y’all to remember that the world doesn’t work like the internet. other queers are real fuckin people. don’t do this shit. OP is right; tell me you like my jacket, or my patches, or the rainbow spokes on my wheelchair, but don’t out either of us!

[life-on-the-spectrum]

This used to be standard operating procedure not even ten years ago: NEVER OUT OTHER QUEERS, even if they’re supposedly already out. Never assume that it’s okay to let third parties know that so-and-so is queer. Ever. You never know when you’ve found the one uncle with the heart condition that they can’t bear to risk telling, or the one neighbor who’s just threatening enough that they don’t mention it around, or even the grandma that they haven’t gotten around to mentioning it to yet. You might have just ruined a very important milestone for someone, or you could have put them at actual risk of harm.

Also… stop freaking assuming. If you don’t see a pride flag on them, please don’t just assume. You can’t tell ANYTHING about a person’s gender or partner preferences by what they’re wearing on any given day, what their hair looks like, or whether or not they’re using makeup. You legit cannot, and you look like a jerk when you try.

[astra-the-dragon]

this is even more important now that Trump is in power.

some people will be choosing to live in the closet and it is not your job to pressure them one way or the other.

protect your lgbtq siblings - honor their choices - and never talk to cops, collaborators, and snitches.

[stele3]

Younger queer people have grown up in a better world, but we’re in a time of backsliding right now. Do NOT out other queer people. Also, I’m not gonna tell you how to present yourselves in public………..but please, I am begging you to re-evaluate HOW safe you are in the current climate.

[babushkahobbies]

word of the year is dyke in all its forms. dyke4dyke dyke4femme dyke4butch femme dykes butch dykes trans dykes dykefags dykefailures beautiful dykes evil dykes stone dykes. dykes are the sun and i am photosynthesizing

[bunny-sapphic-deactivated202503]

as a femme i think it’s so important that we see and perceive butches not only as complimentary or opposite part of our identity, potential gf/bf, sex partners or lovers, but also as friends.

make butch friends without any intention beyond genuine friendship. hang out with butches, laugh with butches, talk with butches, take care of butches and let them take care of you.

we need to stop centring both our identity and butch identity around sex and love only. they’re our friends, family and the strangers in the street that brighten up our days.

make friends with butches!

[butchdykebf]

butch wallpaper i made :) - feel free to use!!!

i made this for my lock screen and put a picture of me and my femme from new years on my home screen <3

[stardewfemme]

if you get mad at lesbians for calling their partners their boyfriend you need to have some reflection time and really process why it bothers you so much, lesbians that use he/him pronouns or like to be called boyfriend are not “uprooting the sanctity of lesbianism” or “disgracing the identity” or any of the terfy rhetoric y’all are coming up with and id argue that there’s nothing more lesbian than having or being a butch/masc lesbian boyfriend, y’all are just stuck on societies definition/view of lesbians, there is no one way to be a lesbian and im so sick of it

[pieklo]

Reblog daily for health and prosperity

[thunderstruck9]

Liu Xiaodong (Chinese, b. 1963), Three Transsexuals, 2001. Oil on canvas, 200 x 200 cm.

[inkandcrackers]

Pull her in by the carabiner 😎

[hotnvrybothered]

Rosa & Daria, by Jessica Tanzer around 1990.

[butchqueersapphic]

Paris lesbian club, 1934

[twixnmix]

Marsha P. Johnson Polaroids by Andy Warhol, 1974.