Trataono speaks

textual sideblog to trataono.tumblr.com

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Bye-bye Tumblr

Well it appears my main Tumblr is going to go the way of the dodo. I guess I’ll have to find my porn somewhere else, maybe on reddit : https://www.reddit.com/user/Trataono

Anyway, thanks to all of you for following me over the years.

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Gay hookups

I’ve had my share of hookups with other guys, some that went well, some less well.

Ever since I became a top rather than a bottom (which I’d tried to be at first), they’ve been on the whole much more satisfying, but one thing which I’m puzzled by is how obvious it seems to the guy who blows me that once I’ve cummed, it’s over.

Some of them jack off and cum too, others seem content with merely giving me blowjobs.

But the assumption is that once we cum, it’s over. Nothing to do afterwards except get our clothes back on, exchange some awkward chitchat, and that’s it, see you next time, maybe (usually not).

Now, to be sure, this is partly because of the way I hook up with people. I tend to do it at the last minute, I tend to focus on the sex itself. Also, I’m very shy and quiet, I don’t open up easily, even to someone who has spent a dozen minutes with his tongue in my asshole. 

So I realize I have a biased view of gay guys’ habits

But it really does seem that there’s a tendency among some gay and bisexual guys to want to make sex into a very impersonal thing, anonymous, devoid of tenderness or exchange.

When someone wants to blow me through a gloryhole that they have at home, or wants to have sex only in the dark, I can’t help but feel that they just dislike having sex with a human and want it to be mechanical.

And I mean, I’m not here to judge, people do what they want.

But it’s disquieting to me and I don’t want that. I like to see the person I’m having sex with.

I may ask people to come over for a short period of sex, where we select each other based mostly on our bodies and with no expectation that it will be anything other than a one time thing, but, I would like to meet guys who are more relaxed, who feel like they could spend some time, just enjoying the eroticism of being in the nude together, of stroking each other. Who would have the patience to make me cum twice, and I would not mind making them cum several times either.

Maybe all I have to do is ask ? Maybe if I try to be less shy I’ll get what I want ?

But I’m afraid that it’s not so easy, short of being in an actual relationship, which is a whole other bunch of problems.

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Well, now that I'm in a relationship (with a girl), this text has lost some of its relevance to my current situation but nonetheless it still rings true and not just for gay hookups either.

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The male body turns me on so damn much help I’m so gay

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Can relate. Also deep baritone male voices.

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true or false: you think oral sex is boring

False. Used to be true, but a) I did not know the extent to which receiving blowjobs could go, b) I dunno why, but eating girls was always fun, and c) if you’ve followed me for a while you probably know how god damn much I like rimming. Not always, but oh my god, can I just say, when it’s right it’s right.

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Oh my god yes. I love it so much when a dude starts licking my balls and then goes lower and lower with his mouth until he's finally eating my ass out. It's one of the most erotic things that was ever done to me.

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So lately, I've been reading about unexplained mysteries, which more often than not involve murder or creepy suspicious disappearances, which more often than not involve serial killers. And tonight, I've hooked up with a guy who invited me to his hotel. So, even though I've literally never had any problems during any of my hookups ever, tonight I felt a little nervous. So I left my wallet at my appartment as I wouldn't be needing it (i'm always afraid to get robbed when I go to strange places for shady reasons). And instead, because I'm a scaredy cat, I brought the first knife I could think of, all the while thinking I was ridiculous. It was a steak knife and I don't know how to fight anyway. I put it in the interior pocket of my coat. So I arrive at the hotel, I go up in the elevator (which reminded me unpleasantly of the Elisa Lam footage), and go to the room door. He opens, we chitchat as I get undressed, I put my coat and he starts blowing me. But I gotta pee ! So I get up from the bed, go pee in the bathroom and wash my dick. And I suddenly think that I've left my coat on the chair's seat and the blade can be seen hanging from one pocket. What if he sees it and thinks *I'm* the serial killer ? OH SNAP ! Anyway, I came back in the room, and he gave me a mediocre blowjob with too much teeth. He didn't commment on the knife, I doubt he even noticed it. I really felt like an idiot.

[trataono]

This blog turns 3

Tumblr reminded me that today, Bisexual Musings is 3 years old.

In those 3 years, I’ve posted 4334 times and have, as of now, 267 followers.

That’s quite a number, since basically I’ve mostly used this blog as way to bookmark pictures I myself like.

However, for a variety of reasons I only rarely visit tumblr these days (mostly I don’t really like the user interface of the site, navigation is a pain, bulk editing ditto), which means this blog is more than ever on autopilot and it’s a bit sad.

Nevertheless, tne thing I quite like about my own blog is that I’ve kept posting both straight and gay porn. In spite of the fact that it probably turned off quite a few readers, I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Usually I don’t really like to talk about that sort of thing.

Elsewhere I just let people assume whatever they want, I’m pathologically shy and more or less in the closet.

On this blog, as you know, I mostly just let the picture speak for themselves.

However, for once, I’m speaking and I’m telling you this :

This is the porn blog of a bisexual man. This is my blog, there are many like it, but this one is mine and I want to keep on posting and reblogging pictures of both sexy girls and sexy boys I want to fuck.

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Now that I've become more active, I've gained quite a bit of followers. Again, I'm probably losing some over the contet, you can't please everyone. I don't know yet what I'll make of this auxiliary blog. I got things to say, that's for sure !

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Chatting With Me

I’ve always prefered keeping my DMs open to everyone because I like to hear from all of you and I like to give you all the opportunity to talk with me if you want. However, please don’t assume that just because I post porn, that I like to lewdchat with strangers online. I post what I do for a number of personal reasons, one of which is not to rp with people I know nothing about.

If, by chance, you read the previous sentence and thought “Oh, I’ll introduce myself and send a picture, THEN he’ll know something about me and want to rp”, you are sorely mistaken. To put it frankly: the odds of me becoming friends with someone through DM’s is really low. I form friendships through your typical bonding situations - doing things together, longer more indepth conversations, similar interests and world views.

Also, it’s completely my right to not be interested in you, even without exchanging a lot of messages. A lot can be infered from how someone talks and what they talk about. I have plenty of other messages to respond to (big part due to me going offline for a while and my inbox fills up) and not a ton of time to spend on someone who doesn’t give off a good first impression.

This all being said - this is directed at a small minority of people. Most of you are really sweet and kind and truely courteous and I appreciate everything you all have done for me, this was just some thoughts I had to get out of my head while I go through the pile of messages you all left for me last few weeks :) Thank you all and have a wonderful New Year!

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Gay hookups

I've had my share of hookups with other guys, some that went well, some less well.

Ever since I became a top rather than a bottom (which I’d tried to be at first), they’ve been on the whole much more satisfying, but one thing which I’m puzzled by is how obvious it seems to the guy who blows me that once I’ve cummed, it’s over.

Some of them jack off and cum too, others seem content with merely giving me blowjobs.

But the assumption is that once we cum, it’s over. Nothing to do afterwards except get our clothes back on, exchange some awkward chitchat, and that’s it, see you next time, maybe (usually not).

Now, to be sure, this is partly because of the way I hook up with people. I tend to do it at the last minute, I tend to focus on the sex itself. Also, I’m very shy and quiet, I don’t open up easily, even to someone who has spent a dozen minutes with his tongue in my asshole. 

So I realize I have a biased view of gay guys’ habits

But it really does seem that there’s a tendency among some gay and bisexual guys to want to make sex into a very impersonal thing, anonymous, devoid of tenderness or exchange.

When someone wants to blow me through a gloryhole that they have at home, or wants to have sex only in the dark, I can’t help but feel that they just dislike having sex with a human and want it to be mechanical.

And I mean, I’m not here to judge, people do what they want.

But it’s disquieting to me and I don’t want that. I like to see the person I’m having sex with.

I may ask people to come over for a short period of sex, where we select each other based mostly on our bodies and with no expectation that it will be anything other than a one time thing, but, I would like to meet guys who are more relaxed, who feel like they could spend some time, just enjoying the eroticism of being in the nude together, of stroking each other. Who would have the patience to make me cum twice, and I would not mind making them cum several times either.

Maybe all I have to do is ask ? Maybe if I try to be less shy I’ll get what I want ?

But I’m afraid that it’s not so easy, short of being in an actual relationship, which is a whole other bunch of problems.

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Female perspective

@hersideofthehills was no ordinary porn blog. The focus, as can be guessed from the title, was erotic pictures taken from the girl’s perspective, during sex, or masturbation (it has some successors, such as @from-her-eyes )

What I find interesting and erotic here is a different perspective, a different kind of intimacy. It’s a way of seeing the world, of seeing sex, which is attractive because it’s different.

I have searched some female POV porn videos and they’re not hard to find but nonetheless seem rarer than the male counterpart. Predictably, they attract some bicurious men, and some trans women unaware.

I think that they not only provide a valuable perspective on sex but also are very erotic to watch, whether it’s straight sex or lesbian sex.

And though I don’t feel confortable giving out feminism lessons, I might point out that it’s a good thing to learn to see things from the perspective of the other. As a man, a woman’s body is something I admire from the outside. It seems the most common way of thinking about it, to the point where even most lesbian pornography is geared toward an (implicit, hidden) male observer (I mean, obviously porn is always staged in any case, but there are different levels of fakeness, and a glimmer of sincerity makes things better in my opinion

So I think female POV porn provides a valuable shift in perspective.

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Here are a few other porn blogs with this perspective :

@hqfemalepov, @fuckedfromherside, @point-of-vagina, @female-pov-masturbation2.

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Female perspective

@hersideofthehills was no ordinary porn blog. The focus, as can be guessed from the title, was erotic pictures taken from the girl’s perspective, during sex, or masturbation (it has some successors, such as @from-her-eyes )

What I find interesting and erotic here is a different perspective, a different kind of intimacy. It’s a way of seeing the world, of seeing sex, which is attractive because it’s different.

I have searched some female POV porn videos and they’re not hard to find but nonetheless seem rarer than the male counterpart. Predictably, they attract some bicurious men, and some trans women unaware.

I think that they not only provide a valuable perspective on sex but also are very erotic to watch, whether it’s straight sex or lesbian sex.

And though I don’t feel confortable giving out feminism lessons, I might point out that it’s a good thing to learn to see things from the perspective of the other. As a man, a woman’s body is something I admire from the outside. It seems the most common way of thinking about it, to the point where even most lesbian pornography is geared toward an (implicit, hidden) male observer (I mean, obviously porn is always staged in any case, but there are different levels of fakeness, and a glimmer of sincerity makes things better in my opinion

So I think female POV porn provides a valuable shift in perspective.

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Just did a coming-out in the most roundabout way possible, to the point where I wonder whether the person I made it to will even pick up on it.

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When women complain on the internet that men don't know how to please them, often there will be someone who will point out that you don't hear the same kind of complaint from lesbians. Now maybe it's true that lesbians either know magically everything there is to know, or (more realistically), learn more quickly than men. I have absolutely no way to know. What I do know on the other hand is that just because you have a cock doesn't mean you know how to give a good blowjob. So it's certainly not true of same-sex relationships in general. Having the same type of genitalia as your partner is clearly not enough to be proficient. Listen to your partner, speak to them, communicate. It's ok not to be good at first. It's ok to be nervous. Practice makes perfect (but only if you enjoy it).

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I can’t abide cameramen in porn who just can’t shut up. Unless it’s POV, and often even then. Who cares about their inane blabber, seriously ? Has there been a time when a cameraman’s chitchat enhanced a scene in anyway whatsoever ? If so, send me examples, because it seems like all the time it’s an epic mood killer.