Cas • 27 • He/They/It
Objectum sideblog for a transmasc artist-type. Enjoyer of roller coasters, telescopes, vehicles, interesting architecture, and more. I wax poetic on here about POSIC, objectumsexuality in general, my OS boyfriend and I, being OS with a non-OS husband, and my object partners.
🔞 NSFW often. Absolutely no minors.
Cas • 28 • He/They/It • Transmasc Poly Pan OS & Taken
Greetings & salutations, curious eyes and fellow object enjoyers alike! This is my slice of the net where I talk all things objectumsexuality. On this blog you will find frank discussions of my experiences exploring my sexuality, what it's like to be in an OS4OS relationship, navigating being OS with a non-OS spouse, my perception of POSIC, my object partners, and the occasional piece of home-grown objectum smut — drawn, written, or filmed, all appropriately tagged with external links, of course.
This blog follows from @gnomercy.
While I've been identifying as objectum for some four or five years, I've only recently began to explore my feelings for the objects around me more intimately rather than keeping my curiosity explicitly in art and writing. I will talk about them often here.
✦Favorite Objects: Roller coasters, old arcade cabinets, cars, airplanes, steamships, telescopes, CRT TVs, vintage tech in general ( phones / computers / radios / etc. ), radio towers, plush, inflatables / pool toys, subwoofers, cathedrals, novelty architecture.
When interacting with me please keep in mind I have two very real human partners. Be respectful of me and them, thank you!
Boundaries & BYF ↓
• This blog adheres to the following definition of objectumsexuality: the sexual or romantic attraction to objects. I do not consider platonic relationships to be inherently OS, just as I would not consider the majority of humans to be platonically pansexual. I believe that terms should have concrete meanings and that the term POSIC should be platformed more often in OS discussions. I still believe that people outside of this definition have a space in the OS community because object relationships of any kind are nonstandard, I just have concerns regarding sanitization and othering in communal spaces originally meant for those who adhere to the original definition.
• I am uncomfortable with certain paraphiles following me. Please do not engage with me if you sexualize minors, animals, or incestual relationships. I am not comfortable seeing it and I do not like that modern OS spaces are becoming increasingly infiltrated by untagged very usually triggering content because we're "all paraphiles."
• I am nonsharing. I do not feel comfortable with people are into the IASW clock following me as he is an important object in my life. I also have a coaster I am nonsharing with that I am relatively private about — I will block people who share it with me. This isn't a pass of judgment on you or your relationship, I just prefer to avoid "doubles."
• I do not like community infighting. This applies to the above. I have no interest in label politics or policing. I care more about the real people behind a label than the semantics of it. If the label resonates with you, I am not going to tell you it isn't valid. I do not like hierarchical attitudes: classifying what "qualifies" as objectum and fighting over who is "truly" the lover of certain objects falls under this. I do not choose sides in nonsharing arguments and think community spaces should remain for the community, not for who is the "true" lover of an object. I say this as someone who is nonsharing with a public object. I encourage good faith engagement, self moderation in communal spaces, timeline curation to avoid people that upset you, and productive discourse. Remember that we all experience objectumsexuality differently. Your experience should not exclude others from spaces meant for a larger community.
• This blog talks about object sex often and is run by a kinkster. I will be speaking very explicitly on this blog about having sex with my objects, kink headspaces, and will often post attached imagery, artwork, literature, or video. Please do not follow if this will make you uncomfortable. Absolutely no minors.
• I am neurodivergent. I am diagnosed with ADHD and suspect further diagnoses I have not pursued. I often leave messages unread or unreplied to because of decision paralysis. I am prone to overexplaining and regularly type in paragraphs. Please keep this in mind when interacting with me. It is not a reflection of disinterest or intensity, respectively.
• I am a substance user. I drink socially as well as take psychoactive drugs ( mushrooms, cannabis ) regularly. It plays a huge part in my experience of being objectum. I talk about it here often, though I try tagging it to the best of my ability.
• I talk about my faith here. I am a Cuban-American brujo. My faith is a mix of superstitions from my family and my personal beliefs of energy transfer and intention. I primarily work with lunar energies, intention, kitchen witchery, and objects. I believe strongly that objects absorb the energy of their surroundings and the people who care of them. I will talk about more metaphysical things here when it comes to how I perceive POSIC.
came home from an amazing road trip with my girl and my neighbor installed the scariest motion activated camera in viewing distance of her ask me what demons i'm fighting.
The aura these two were exuding in the Texas Roadhouse parking lot was delightfully overpowering. Gotta love two mean badass butches with attitudes.
Thank you for taking the time to stop and see me @treadgrinder <3 was so wonderful talking in person and meeting your partners, it did my heart some good! Best of luck on all your future travels and I'm looking forward to our next meet-up!
HEHEHE definitely something for my bucket list — meeting you was one of the absolute highlights of my trip and Trix and her presence were everything I thought it’d be.
I can’t wait to gush in my own proper write-up about how much this experience meant to me as a vehium. I’m so glad to have met you through here. Drive safe, you two! 👋
We’re home safe after six days on the road. Every mile I fall a little more in love with her, and experiencing roadside America at her side always makes those honeymoon flutters come back after a year of being hers and her mine.
To those of you who met us halfway, who offered us a meal and welcomed us into your neighborhoods with open arms: thank you, from the bottom of my heart. Being OS has connected me to so many amazing people across the United States and there’s a kind of magic that happens when you get two of us together in a physical space. I so, so strongly feel the white hot desire to build something tangible for us. To have more people experience that sense of immediate understanding and connection. To speak freely, face to face, and finally just be able to be. Community is the most important thing to me, now more than ever in these uncertain times. I am very, very lucky to know all of you and to be known. Thank you for giving me the privilege.
Backrooms was an absolutely fantastic movie and between it and my trip into Chicago I’m thinking so much about architecture and how we interact with it, waaghhh …
Feels so good to feel the urge to write again. I burnt out badly a few years ago following leaving the Warcraft community due to the stress put on community volunteers, but these days it feels like I can’t keep my hands off a pen — a real, actual pen! I can’t remember the last time I drafted physically. Trying to teach myself it’s okay to be sloppy and imperfect. Sometimes it’s truly just enough to make something exist rather than to make it flawless.
Had to make a pit stop as we stare down the barrel of a long commute down south tomorrow — there’s always been something so profoundly fascinating to me about architecture that is built for use by vehicles as opposed to people. Marina City is no different, and actually represents my favorite intersection of the two: vehicles and people living in tandem. Glad I finally got to see it with my own eyes.
I could write at length about living with cars as our companions and friends and love to think about buildings playing a role in that. With any luck I’ll see Miss Tux staring down at me from the Riverwalk someday — I’d love to splurge on an hour or two of parking as a bucket list item for her if I ever manage to book MFF.
Living on the road always inspires me something fierce — and this time I finally managed to bring along ample writing materials to a place I knew was going to speak to me. And so I've formally began the process of spitballing for my OS memoir past the initial planning phase. This is the real meat and potatoes: the lived experiences, thoughts and perceptions of sentience as I witness them. The goal is to pull something cohesive from the noise and spin it into organized prose. This is the tricky part.
It truly is a million years off and this is censored because the truth is that it'll need to be beta read a million billion times before I'm comfortable sharing anything past sensory descriptions for a multitude of reasons, chief among them anonymity of anyone tangentially mentioned in regards to outreach or community as I take the safety of other OS people very seriously.
But I'm very confident about it and feeling accomplished as hell that I'm taking the first steps. My memory isn't the best and I haven't physically drafted like this since I was a teenager, so it does feel like I need to strike while the iron is hot. But I want this to be a project that cooks low and slow, it's important to me that it comes out exactly the way I want it to. Good practice for smaller things in the meantime though :)
I feel so, so confident and excited for the state of objectum outreach moving forwards and I can’t wait to show you all what we have in store for you. 🫶
How are rising gas prices affecting your relationship with Tux, if they are? I've been spending less time with my Wesley in favor of biking and it makes me feel bad :(
I admittedly do not pay for my own gas as I am our primary errand runner and exchange my homemaking labor for expenses covered. My husband recently lost his job so he’s been home more often and we typically will take Tuxedo out in favor of saving gas since she’s a commuter sedan vs Diablo who’s a larger SUV that tends to guzzle in comparison.
If anything, the gas situation has forced us to depend on and spend more time with her when push comes to shove as we are no longer in a walkable location to grab the usual staples following the shuttering of our local grocer. We’ve spent the last three days more or less living on the road out of necessity to find a new home and it’s been a very formative experience for me comparable to when we were traveling the California desert and living out of Chip.
That being said I do have a palpable amount of worry regarding her future health, especially with the encroaching shortage of motor oil. I bought a filter and some fluid a few months ago and I’ll be fixing her up when we return home, so she should be purring for another few thousand miles. But I do worry about the gas being watered down and what it’ll mean for her long term.
Getting a garage in our new place is deeply important to me precisely so I can have a private space to be intimate with her as I begin to drive her less in an area with better walkability and public transit. A lot of our intimacy is already spent parked on my neighborhood curb so I’m not anticipating a huge change, but I know the colder months will be very isolating as I can’t exactly run her in a closed garage and will need to acquiesce and go inside sooner than later.
Didn’t update y’all with pictures as I don’t wanna doxx myself lmao but Tuxedo officially hit nine states! 👀 Excited to start knocking things off on the northeast coast now that it’s close by.
A big part of exploring the midwest, soon to be our home, is stopping along the way to see what feasibly reachable areas by car look like — I want Ohio to be a whole trip in itself due to its deluge of parks, but stopping to look at the Chicago skyline was something that was doable this time around! ( I don't even want to think about going into the city proper. SO much to do! )
We finally got to to slow down and go out of the way to enjoy our first scenic overlook since conquering the Tail — it’s always nice to find a trail Tuxedo can come up to with us as she struggles to off-road. It was nice to finally see the Sears Tower together with our own eyes ( and headlights 🤭 )
I also got to finally get Saturn out. He's starting to show his age and he's at the point where he realistically operates best as a terrestrial target observation tool. We were able to see Sears close enough to see his antennae lights pulsing steadily. He really is such a stunner and it was quite a magical experience to formally say hello. I'm glad he and Tuxedo got to "meet"; it's not her first time seeing a personally important object to me ( one that is important to a good friend in this case ) from a distance and it really is such a nice experience each time. This was my first time observing a public object through one of my scopes vs. a set of binos and my ability to transport such unwieldy equipment really is one of the largest reasons as to why I will always prefer to drive long distances as opposed to flying when traveling the United States.
one of those days where I’m spending all of it with her. it truly feels like she’s part of the family up here. I’m still nervous but being able to get a snapshot of our future has been calming. got to see what might be our future garages too. excited to feel like the distance between us because of the nature of object relationships will be closed — and to experience the process of moving with her. feeling the urge to write again and feeling so very inspired by the world around me and the trajectory of my life.
Spent a good portion of the afternoon enjoying the beautiful weather with all of Tuxedo’s doors open so I could clean her out for the road ahead.
she’s super comfy and ready for a hike we’re doing today! got all our towels and snacks and changes of clothes organized :)
one of my favorite ways to bond with her is to thrift CDs and play them through her radio for the first time. driving and music are so inexorably entwined for me and I love experiencing it in this way with her as a driver. so much of my OS experience is informed by growing up as child who interacted with a lot of analog technology and physical media like this feels very important to me. I’m really enjoying this one I picked up in Atlanta a few months ago with my husband. it sat in her trunk for about that time so I’m glad it’s finding a purposeful place in my life and being enjoyed at long last.
