You ever just. You ever just come out as not-cis (I was unlabeled at the time, I’ve now found genderqueer the closest to what I feel) and say “hey! I go by all pronouns now! You can still keep using she/her for me but please also use they/them and even throw in a he/him when you’re feeling crazy! I don’t have a preference, I like them all” and everyone just liked the message and only ever use she/her for you?
Even when you don’t have a chest and your hair is long but in the loser teenage dirtbag boy kinda way and your big tshirt hides your fem hips and you look as much like a boy as you possibly can and still it’s always just she/her?
No? Haha yeah me either /s
My friends and I were discussing what our ship discourse would be if we were popular streamers and my lesbian friend said that there would be discourse for her and my ftm trans friend because he’s a boy and she’s a lesbian but said there wouldn’t be any discourse for the ship with me other than she has a gf right now. Like?? I’m not a girl either… it was my first time getting misgendered since coming out (and since realizing I wasn’t cis, really-) and it shell shocked me










