luke

I'm 15, a trans guy, truscum/transmed. This is a discourse blog.

[gentle-reminder]

gentle reminder

you’re allowed to take it easy, you’re allowed to just put things down, step away and give yourself room to breathe – it’s going to be okay

[pandalazim]

Mood:

[taako-against-negativity]

“it/it’s” pronouns are dehumanising and transphobic

thank you and goodnight

[pbuserboxes]

This user is a transmedicalist

[splatoonus]

Splatfest gets rolling this Friday, 4/6, at 9:00pm PT! Can Team Baseball put some mustard on it? Or will Team Soccer kick it up a notch?

[stillasvnbeam]

[trumedical-blog]

hey im trying to be more positive and stay out of the discourse but i dont wanna unfollow you.. do you have a non-transmed blog?

Yep! Follow me at @kidpirate

[ithelpstodream]

[iirememberthinking]

Dear whoever is reading this: I wish you a life full of warmth and happiness and love. I hope you’re okay. And if you aren’t now, you will be.

[glitterz]

[diskhorses]

why is it that tucutes and tumblr in general constantly talk about how having a mental illness isnt bad, but the minute transmeds say dysphoria(which you need to be trans) is an illness, its suddenly the worst fucking insult to ever be uttered on this hellsite

[loud-alien-kid]

truscum care about you. sometimes it seems like we would rather a tucute fall off the earth than keep doing what they’re doing, but really, when we get into those arguements it’s out of fear and care for you. AND for other trans people.

We aren’t wanting to ruin your life or your self esteem. We aren’t wanting you to leave a conversation with us, wishing you were dead. We may not all be the best at keeping the right tone 24/7, but all we want is for you to walk away thinking. And that’s what ALL groups should do, regardless.

We want you to be safe, and be able to look back at yourself and be proud. Carrying around the burden of 15 labels all surrounding your emotions for each day of the week is exhausting, regardless of how well those labels fit you.

We want to show you cis = amazing just as much as you believe trans = amazing. That trans people have real struggles, and YOU have real struggles, but just because we both struggle does not mean we are in the same boat.

If a transmed/truscum is making you feel like garbage, you are allowed to walk away. You are allowed to walk away and never look back, and you are allowed to come back wanting another chance at a calm discussion. Some of us hold grudges, but we dont all. And you deserve to have a discussion about trans beliefs just as much as us.

[nb-positivity-images]

@ that anon: nice use of the r slur. Sincerely, an autistic person who identifies as nonbinary in part because of the problems they have understanding social cues and concepts like the gender binary

[tootruscum]

‘I identify as non binary because I don’t understand what gender is’

WHOOP THERE IT IS

[truscumpositivity]

Dysphoria is the disconnect between a person’s gender and sex. Gender is determined by one’s neurosex. When the neurosex doesn’t match up with a person’s biological sex, it causes distress and discomfort. This is known as dysphoria, and it’s the single requirement to being trans, whether it’s minor or severe.

A trans person doesn’t have to go on hormones, have surgery, or conform to gender roles to be trans. This isn’t what transmeds stand for. We simply want cis people to stop latching onto the trans label when they’re not actually trans. They’re hurting both themselves and the trans community.

It’s okay to be cisgender, just like how it’s okay to be transgender. Being cisgender doesn’t make your struggles less valid just because you’re “privileged,” according to Tumblr.

[tanknaka]

hey

hey friend

dont kill yourself tonight ok

you have a really pretty smile and i know its not always easy to manage one but itd be a bummer if we never had the chance to see it ever again

youre really important and you matter a lot so stay safe and try and have a nice sleep

[the-grace-of-fallen-angels]

I would like a moment to thank the people who reblog post like this so that it eventually shows on my dash.

It is keeping me alive

[lavendertears]

I actually really needed this tonight, thank you

[thefutureisdyke-deactivated2018]

me three years ago: the lgbtqia*+ community, me now: don’t talk to me if you put anything after lgbt

[c-the-transman]

Y'all ever just sit there and think about how fucking incredible it’ll feel when you’re older and have transitioned to the point you want to transition to. How free and happy and normal you’ll feel. It makes me feel a little melancholy to know that I’m not there yet but one day I will be.