Lifes A Learning Experience. Just Doing My Best.

Morgan. 27. Queer. This is a mostly private side blog for a lot of things, especially things that I have trouble saying out loud. 18+ nsfw blog I don’t tag anything, reliably at least.

[prince-stardom]

i love free use/group sex fantasies, where you’re nothing but a communal toy with no owner for anyone to use, but can we talk about how much hotter it is to practically be on loan by your partner?

your dom handing you out to whoever they choose, watching as you eagerly take cock after cock just because they let others use you. not letting anyone else call you “their pet,” “their toy,” “their slut.” you are a toy, but you only belong to them.

praise being sent to your dom instead of you, saying how they trained you well and that they should be proud of how good you are at taking cock. your dom setting rules for those who use you — like no cumming inside, no marks, etc. just to remind everyone that no one else will get to own you like they do.

and at the end of the day, no matter how many people you have inside you, how many people get off on you, you’ll go home with them and know you’ll always be their toy, their plaything, only theirs to give away.

[subspaceemo]

I want a dom to tie my hands behind my back and bend me over their lap while they watch TV. I want them to tease my ass, just lightly rubbing their finger over my hole, making me so sensitive I'm dizzy but never pushing inside. I'll whine and moan and buck my hips but they'll just keep going until I'm dripping. They aren't paying attention to me though. My cock so hard against their thighs, maybe they'll let me grind against them. Maybe I'll be punished. Maybe they'll play with me all night. Maybe they'll fuck me stupid. I can't wait to find out.

[of-mutts-and-men]

What if you gave me a good ass massage while I’m stupid high and you can put it in if you want

[hyenagirlpenis]

Kink 101 establishes as a foundation that this is sexual improv, and if that makes you feel cringe or whatever then get over it. Essentially these are agreed upon bits with certain understood risks that we all take on together because we want to. "The Heel is pretending to be a bad guy, but it's for show, see?" is ultimately true.

But Kink 202 recognizes that most people often feel as if the actor's sorrow and joy are real, even if we cognitively know we're watching a play. That's why drama and theater remain compelling since the invention of language. So, when you play-pretend the heel or slaughtered lamb or naughty child or whatever, you are borrowing the story's psyche. Not totally, not forever, not because you agree, but because the performance serves us. Often it gets us off, but it also might provide catharsis, validation, closure, etc. In that way it is "real" the way tears and laughter in response to a story are real.

Critical thinking checkpoint: how real do you think "tears and laughter in response to a story" actually are? In your experience, do you get totally absorbed in stories or is that rather difficult for you? How does that compare to your peers? How might the variation in this "realness" inform someone's risks and benefits in partaking in sexual drama?

This is all to say that at the 202 level, I don't have a prescribed answer or rule to recommend. You have to identify what works for you, what is or isn't good or safe for you, what level of damage is actually okay. Humans have the right to do things that aren't great for them! But more than that, sexual drama can be transformative and "real" if you want to make that a part of it for you.

[hyenagirlpenis]

Thank you, perverts in my notes, for reminding me of my own post. Kink can be just fucking! But also, c'mon, lemme stick my fingers in your psyche and wiggle them around in there, pleeeease please let me help reprogram you. Also Kink 303 branches into two specialization tracks: Medical Degree and Clown College. The latter is obviously more highly respected.

[genderfluidbde]

Fucking you hard in a mating press while you're wearing thigh to wrist cuffs, your cage, and my handprints all over your ass 🥰

[throbbingwithheat]

There are few better sensations than cold lube dripping onto your asshole. His hands spreading it over, his fingers pushing it into that tight little hole. Your muscles ripple around him greedily, your face presses into the sheets, gasping. Any second now he'll press his warm cockhead against you, into you.

[tasmanianpossum]

(flirtatiously) yeah, you can get me as high as you want.

[ppups]

[cinemafag]

need someone to get me tipsy for the purpose of making me suck their cock when i'm easy n needy <3

[frenchvelvetkisses]

i love soft acts of dominance like grabbing your hand to lead u through a room full of strangers, holding ur waist so no one gets too close, or brushing a strand of hair behind ur ear & holding ur chin up so u meet my eyes guiding u, claiming u, making u mine. or my hand sliding over ur thigh under the table, pressing harder when u try to pull away, watching u squirm. or leaning behind u in the kitchen, holding you down while i tease ur neck & chest until ur back arches. or gripping ur hips so tight u can’t move, whispering in ur ear how good my fingers feel inside u, making u beg until ur trembling & gasping. oh wait oops…those don’t sound soft anymore. sorry i got carried away. well soft & rough dominance? they’re both mine. and u? u get to deal with both.

[em--pulsive]

love the idea of soothing someone into submission. you've had a long day, sweetheart, why don't you let me do the thinking for a bit? i know you like to be in control, but it can be exhausting. surely you've earned a little relaxation after all your hard work. don't you want to rest a bit? unclench your jaw, relax your muscles, let your legs fall open. i want the only thought in that lovely head to be how good you feel.

[hysteric-boy]

Mmm thinking of getting a boy so high he can’t think straight. And then treating him like a puppy. Pretty boy, take another puff. Good boy! Who’s a good boy? You are! Deep inhale, so good for me!! Puppies don’t have to think it’s okay.

[bunnycocaine]

i actually love being touched i love being manhandled and groped and tugged on i love feeling hands roam up and down my body i love being pushed and pulled into whatever position they want me in you could do whatever you want to me as long as you keep me in your arms forever

[cnc-pet]

just thinking about having a sleazy more experienced woman invade my personal space when I'm a little tipsy and shy at a club or party or something

and she keeps handing me drinks and telling me to relax and just have oooone more sip she promises, even though I think she said that the last ummm 4? 5? sips? it's so hard to keep track

and heyyy when did these other people come overrr and when did my top get pulled down? waaaait can... can everyone see my tits right now? is someone touching me?? and ohhh,.. she's tilting m- my head back and pouring anotherrr shot,. ,. into., my mouthhhh....ehehehe.,,.

[angel-in-your-basement]

“Down bad” is so accurate because when I’m obsessed with someone, I want to fulfill their every fantasy SO BAD. You wanna do anal? I’m spreading my holes. You want a puppy slut? Already barking. You wanna breed me? I’m begging for it. You want to do cnc? I’ll be such a good victim. Like holy fuck, please just let me please you.

[angel-in-your-basement]

I’m so obsessed with the idea of someone deliberately trying to make sex painful & uncomfortable for me. Not letting me touch myself. Putting me in positions that cause the most discomfort. Reminding me that it’s supposed to hurt, that it makes them feel good to hurt me, and don’t I want to make them feel good? I want to thank them through my tears for letting me suffer for them, thank them for hurting me, and watch them cum inside my broken, bruised body.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Most people take a gag as permission to be loud. Either because they take it as a challenge "try to silence me, I'll show you" or because they think it's going to muffle noise so they're free to be noisy. They'll be unintelligible of course but they will make all types of pretty noises.

On the other hand a blindfold makes most people quiet. They still want to have situational awareness, they still want to track your movements, so they focus on their hearing and stop making sounds that would make it harder to hear you.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Most people use breathing to regulate emotions and manage pain. Deep consistent breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. You can take advantage of this by either blocking their nose or mouth or by interrupting their breathing with will timed stimuli. Suddenly your high pain tolerance sub becomes a wimp, your composed and mature sub becomes a panicky baby

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Like in horror movies tension is important in scenes. You might think that to make your scene really intense you have to be serious the entire time but what you'll find actually happens is you wind the tension up to a certain point and then can't get it any higher and the scene becomes stale. But if you let yourself relax, loosen up, and make a few well timed jokes breaking the tension a little you can then wind it up again and make it more tense than you could previously.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Expectation is an incredibly powerful tool you can make use of. People like patterns, people like predictability, they like knowing what's going to happen. So make rules and follow them, make patterns and keep to them, be predictable and your sub will feel safe and comfortable with you, they will trust you more if they know what you're going to do and how you're going to react.

And if you know what someone is expecting you can functionally read their mind, better than that you can control their mind, you don't just know the thoughts they're having you put them their. Plus now you have all of these opportunities to create wonderfully strong emotions and reactions by going against their expectation. Don't do this too frequently or you'll ruin both their feeling of safety and the effect this has but keep it in your back pocket and use it with precision.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Your sub wants to impress you, they want you to be proud of them. So when they're approaching their limit if you point that out to them ("OK darling I think that's just about all you can take") they will try to convince you they're not ("no please I can take more for you please") and if you give them an opening to do so ("are you sure?") they will jump at the chance to impress you. Follow this up with praise so they know they did a good job. This will leave them feeling satisfied and proud of themselves in a way that reaching their limit and having to tell you they've had enough won't. If you're careful you can use this to gently push their limits and comfort zone so you can both experience more intense sessions in the future

[innumerable-voices]

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