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2xuboi

Please do 😉

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Fuck yea

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I want some used worn undies

puppinkkink

I wish I would get some musky chew toys

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People ask me for info about rope bondage and Shibari, here are a few basic starters…

Mistress Valiant 💋💋

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Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

cashmasterconnorkent

THIS deserves a reblog. FUCK. I can’t count how many times I’ve experienced Dom drop after using a boy and the boy goes silent

castrokinky

In two weeks, @thenerdysubmissive arrives for my birthday weekend. It will be his first visit as my owned boy. These pics are from his last visit, as I led him on leash through the streets and subways of San Francisco.