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dueseaworthiness

earhartsease

derinthescarletpescatarian

verymarykate

Overheard at Erewhon

#i understand about 50% of this #had to look up what an Eerewhon is #looks like a rich people scam

assignedmale

bamfspock

Happy Fucking Moon Day

punkedupfae

Alright ive seen enough

Someone put a blanket over my cage.

spatulahat

The Riker Maneuver in Technicolor

#this is already weird enough with this showing this dude in a 1970s outfit in what's supposedly 1960s set design #but doing something from TNG filde din the 80s & 90s

sg1

Stargate SG-1, 08.10 Endgame

hometoursandotherstuff

Maybe b/c it would scare the children? (I was taken aback.)

liberalsarecool

Attn Democrats: more of this energy.

vaspider

Yes but ... start with Supreme Court reform.

None of this matters if the same six chuckledicks can say "the law doesn't mean that, actually."

byjove

it’s really interesting how the guys that fight against paying child support the hardest are the ones that could afford to do it. these dudes will quit their well paying salaried job with benefits just to avoid their pay getting docked and potentially going to reimburse the mother of their child for buying their kid new shoes. they’ll leave their child without health insurance and work under the table jobs because they really hate their child and former S/O that much.

earhartsease

men who have been conditioned to believe that having kids and caring for them is somehow emasculating

byjove

they swear it is a man’s role to provide and protect but they’re going out of their way to deprive and endanger

derinthescarletpescatarian

They believe that their role is to provide and protect the ones they choose to; it's not a responsibility (though they'll frame it like it is to sound better), but a power that they hold over others. Child support is emasculating because they see it as being forced to provide for someone who isn't "theirs" any more. They don't see it as supporting a child that they have ongoing responsibility for because they believe that they should have the right to withdraw that responsibility at any time, that unconditional responsibility for a child is the woman's role. They see it as being financially cucked.

derinthescarletpescatarian

#these men like the power that being a provider gives#they like the idea that you are dependent on them and that they could take it away from you at any moment#but mandatory child support doesn't really give you that choice or any power over the child/ex#you can't leverage it the same way to get what you want

cal-is-a-cuddlefish

My friend's coworker has a boyfriend who literally does not have a bank account and keeps his money in CASHAPP to avoid child support.

He used to make good money. He quit his job to avoid child support.

The coworker is pregnant.

vaspider

When I worked in branch banking, there was more than one man who would come in and ask to have his checking account closed and a new one opened bc of "fraudulent ACH charges." I knew it was actually his child support each time but was told I couldn't refuse the customer request.

Until...

One of them eventually had a giant note placed on his profile by legal saying we were not able to close any of his accounts or open new ones without clearance from legal, bc he kept cycling through account after account every time the state found the new one and submitted the garnishment paperwork.

IIRC he eventually got banned from the branch bc he threatened me & others when we told him no.

hyperlexichypatia

IDK I think if cis men are being told that being fat will lower their testosterone and make them Insufficiently Masculine, and cis women are being told that being fat will raise their testosterone and make them Excessively Masculine, and fat trans people are being denied the right to medically transition if they're fat, and thin trans people are warned against HRT because it will make them fat (and this is said about both testosterone and estrogen HRT), and androgynous-presenting people are told that only thin people count as androgynous...

Then maybe...

Maybe...

Maybe the weight loss industry is just using Gender to enforce fatphobia.