The fear of falling apart.

But grief isn't a competition. It is not an identical pain that we all meet one day when death finds us. It's a monster, personalised by our love and memories to devour us just so. Grief is suffering, tailored.

[brokensou197]

Sometimes I imagine myself alone in my bedroom with no one around, completely dark, laying in bed and overdosing on sleeping pills, then gently falling asleep forever. My body going limp and cold as my heart slows down and eventually stops, and just feeling at peace.

[uh-what-uh-dfuck]

Grief

It's in the quiet, when you're alone and nobody can hear you or see you. That is when it hits the hardest. It washes over you and throws you head first into a pit of despair and longing. Wishing you had one last chance to talk to them, say I love you and hold on. I miss you and nothing will ever alleviate this feeling.

[freak-bob67]

feeling like my pain isn’t valid because no one is witnessing it, but not allowing myself to appear anything less than perfectly okay is the worst feeling

[uh-what-uh-dfuck]

I feel that on every level

[virginiewoolf]

Fortesa Latifi, from The Truth About Grief.

[dankmemeuniversity]

[up-chucked]

@toothsheeran *becomes you* fuck you I'm your therapist now

[uh-what-uh-dfuck]

The Shitty Friend Becomes Shittier

Honestly I'll never understand what I did that was so wrong for you to turn so quickly after everything we went through. The rose glasses have finally fallen and you have shown your true colours. Your bad mental health is not an excuse to be a shitty person or friend. Remember you used to say that all the time and yet look where we've ended up. Take accountability for your words and actions, bad mental health or not. You have shown you are a shitty person through and through with your tiktok full of lies and slander. And I thought you couldn't get worse.

[dionysian-mystery]

[zippyzstuff]

[virginiewoolf]

Fortesa Latifi, from The Truth About Grief.

[remanence-of-love]

[punkrock-bottom]

Home could be anywhere When I am holding you

[uh-what-uh-dfuck]

I cherish my loss A gentle reminder that life is unkind At the best of times..

[uh-what-uh-dfuck]

Missing a toxic person is confusing as hell. I've never had such conflicted feelings about a situation.

[uh-what-uh-dfuck]

Loss

I feel buried alive with the amount of loss i have experienced in recent years. Somethings are better to be lost but others really cut deep. In all honesty I'm struggling to cope.

[remanence-of-love]

[iambrillyant]

“forgive all the versions of yourself that operated out of fear instead of growth, the ones that viewed comfort zones as safe havens and abandoned boundaries to keep other people happy, forgive all the versions of yourself that didn’t know that love begins with how you treat you.”

— iambrillyant

[what-iz-life]

Be so fucking proud of yourself for passing the hardest moments alone while everyone believed you were fine.

[brok3np4radise-deactivated20250]

Never stop being a good person because of bad people.

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