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bladealvis

#kuzupeko #danganronpa

tripledecker

weedmemes42069

I miss sleeping next to someone

iamoutofideas

fucking idiot doesn’t even know the clone jutsu lol

weedmemes42069

I hate how fucking funny this is

the-jackals

30-minute-memes

littledeludeddupes

those snakes are not fighting they are fucking. im very sorry

itwashotwestayedinthewater

while two snakes FUCK to the death

eruditionanimaladoration

That dog looking at the snakes like why you gotta do that while I’m eating

gelana78

Metal as snakes fucking.

thedurvin

a-hedgehog-s-dilemma

ssoxos-deactivated20200930

Komaeda: [Unbuttoning shirt] Man it's really hot in here

Hinata: Yeah...I know that...but why are you unbuttoning my shirt

goldmage

do yugioh characters even need their cards to fight because really they can just stab each other with their hair

badinfluencer-deactivated201708

they absolutely need their cards to fight.

trailerparkhardcore

this is the rawest thing ive ever seen

breastforce

“Particularly prone to serious procrastination problems are children who grew up with unusually high expectations placed on them…or else they exhibited exceptional talents early on, and thereafter “average” performances were met with concern and suspicion from parents and teachers.”

Holy SHIT

t-ycho

WELL THEN

appropriately-inappropriate

Yep.

They actually tested me for a learning disability in high school because I was consistently failing math.

They discovered that I actually scored in the 80th percentile in that sort of learning.

Problem was, in every other subject, I was in the 99.8th percentile.

I had never learned how to study because I never needed to—and then, when something proved to be even the slightest bit challenging, my brain went

“LOL nope this is impossible abort”

Meanwhile, this entire time I’m scraping by in subjects like English. The assignments I did turn in, I’d score top marks—but I’d avoid turning in projects I didn’t think were “good” enough.

Essentially, my brain had two settings: “100%” or “0%”.

This sort of Baby Genius shit makes kids and adolescents neurotic and self-destructive.

cassiebones

We learned about this in Child Development. And we learned to reward hard work and not good job. Like don’t say to a child, “oh you are so smart.” Say “Oh did worked so hard.” Be proud of the child, not the achievement.

beyondthetemples-ooc

Be proud of the child, not the achievement.

thalassarche

Decades of research have been done on this by Dr. Carol Dweck. When the emphasis is placed on effort (a factor people can control) rather than talent (an innate skill), it’s a lot easier to see mistakes as a learning opportunity rather than something you just won’t ever be good at. And kids who were encouraged by effort were also more willing to take on more challenging work and considered it a lot more fun, while the kids who were praised for their intelligence were reluctant to put themselves in a situation where they might lose that identifier as a “smart kid” by making mistakes, so they preferred to do work they were confident they could master. Also, the kids praised for effort wanted to compare their results to kids who got higher scores, to see where they made their mistakes, while those praised for intelligence wanted to compare their results to kids who scored lower, to reassure themselves.

Not only does this set up “smart” students for a lot of trouble when they enter college and start being regularly challenged, the effects last long beyond that. It can be very hard for the “you’re so smart!” kids to unlearn as they become adults and struggle with even common adult things, and are afraid to ask for help because of that lesson they learned from misguided praise that they are supposed to be smart and supposed to know the answers.

kyanve

…Honestly +1 here. It’s very well researched and documented and yeah. Making the emphasis on “You succeed and we are proud of you b/c you are SMART as an intrinsic quality!” makes failure/setbacks/difficulty -TERRIFYING- b/c if you’re “smart” it doesn’t happen and if you fail that means you’re not smart and that’s what everyone’s drilled into you as your main point of worth.

And the rates of anxiety disorders among “gifted student” kids are kinda horrifying.

swampgallows

This is why “you’re so smart” means absolutely nothing to me any more. It’s used as punishment as often as it’s used as praise.

#wish I knew that back when I was a kid

trenchgun

danganronpa sprite artist: hey what do you do with your hands when you’re happy

random employee: (trying desperately to open a jar of pickles) what did you say

danganronpa sprite artist: ok got it

tamemaki

- five years earlier, that same sprite artist seeing someone using a guitar -

#danganronpa #hajime hinata #saihara shuichi

lilientrish

(๑꒪▿꒪)*

#he's hot #dmc5 #v

junesjunk-deactivated20220522

I drew trans Hajime Hinata (and cis because no matter what gender he is I still love him) for trans visibility day (also to make myself feel a bit better since dysphoria is being a bitch rn)

#hajime hinata #transgender #trans hajime #danganronpa