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I’m unhappier now with my life than I have been in a long time. I’m not sure if this is the unhappiest I’ve been, but it’s up there. I moved in with someone who I used to love romantically, but those feelings have dissipated and I don’t know if I can get them back. Any time her tries to initiate anything intimate it makes my tummy turn. The thought of Any intimacy with ANYONE makes my tummy turn though.. I think I have discovered I am for certain asexual. I want companionship but nothing more. I also hate the other person I’m living with, she is insufferable- she has no common sense, is messy and dirty and doesn’t know how to clean, and her voice grates on my last nerve. Needless to say my home life is miserable, I don’t want to be here most days, but I moved across the country to be here so it’s not like I have anywhere to go.. my job is misery. I work for a horribly morally corrupt man who steals from his employees, forces us to work with gas leaks in the building and treats us like dog water. He works us 8-12 hour shifts and gives us zero breaks, does not feed us, yells at us for take a 2 minute breather. I go home from work body battered and broken where all I can do is sit in a puddle until I fall asleep because my feet and back hurt so bad. I have no escape. Work was my escape but the longer I’m there to worse it has become. I have no safe space at home, and no safe space at work. I am completely miserable and depressed. I have never felt so trapped in my life. I don’t make enough money at the miserable job to afford moving away, and I can’t come clean to my partner and leave because I can’t get kicked out.. I don’t make enough money and I have no where I can go… for the time being my only course of action is to stay in misery, maybe if I’m lucky my feelings will flip flop again. And continue to slowly save money so that eventually it’ll add up to be enough to move. I never thought I would want to move back home before- but with my family becoming older and me being the only child.. I keep feeling massive guilt. I need to be there to help them.. and I want to spend time with them. The passage of time continues and I don’t want any regrets if something were to happen.. I don’t think I could live with myself. I’m rambling here because I know it will likely not get seen by anyone, I just desperately needed to get these words and thoughts out of my head. I want to cry.

Thanks

It hurts so much. It hurts.. it’s so painful.. please make it stop. Please. Just trust me. Just love me the way you did before. Please.. god please… I need you.

I am pained to my core. The absolute center of my heart has been pierced and shattered.

I’m in so much pain. I want to sleep..

You basically told me you don’t want me anymore. You wanted to get ‘randy’ but when you asked what I wanted to do and I said I wanted to have a romantic time with you instead of indulging a random link you said ‘pass, not interested’ how the fuck is that supposed to make me feel?? You told me to go watch porn cos it’s the same thing… seriously?? Because of a stupid fucking tweet that you twisted to fit your own mental narrative.. and you tel me you aren’t interested in me.. I … I… I seriously … I cannot even find words on how wounded I am. I am despairing. I have never been so hurt by you

You’ve finally broken me. This is toxic and harmful.

I feel so sick.

How can I go on like this? You have absolutely broken my heart. You tell me you don’t care about me, and treat me like horrible dog shit because I tweeted out my feelings- my feelings that had nothing to do with you and everything to do with my own anxiety and depression and you twisted it to make it all about you. Tell me how hurt you are and that you don’t care about me or believe what I have to say about it. How could you hurt me so badly? It was never about you. You I care so much about. You who gives me the strength to go on every single day. But then you do this to me.. my heart is shattered. I don’t want to talk to you. You tell me you don’t trust me anymore.. because what? Because I tweeted saying that my life feels MOSTLY empty and without meaning.. it’s cos it does. I have nothing going on in my life. My family who supposedly loves me never calls me to check in on me, I don’t have a good job or anything going for me. I said MOSTLY because the part of my life that is good is YOU. But you took that and interpreted it to mean that YOU mean nothing.. which is not the case at all. You are everything to me.. nearly all I have. But you’ve taken my heart and stomped all over it like trash. You no longer trust me and say you don’t care about me because of something so fucking stupid. I actually do want to die- because the person I care most about in the world doesn’t actually love me. If you did.. then how could you treat me so callous and cold? How could you not believe me or hear me out? I feel absolutely miserable and it’s because of you. How am I ever to trust YOU again? I’m scared that you’ll hurt me over something petty and stupid again.. I am very sensitive. I’m need help. I need professional help. I want to cry in a ball and never move again. To love someone so deeply only to be treated with no love this way…

golden-aaurora

“we had a good relationship, this kind of impression. one word comes to my mind when i see you sitting in front of me. the attention that the coffee cup took is quiet, like it’s dead.”✧ NO MANNERS — SuperM: we are the future.

#kai #jongin #exo #exosnet #SuperM #because there is no like.. good fancam?!#nabi gif

golden-aaurora

#kai #jongin #exo #exosnet #SuperM #because there is no like.. good fancam?!#nabi gif

exohd

3000 x 2155

exohd

3000 x 4097

sakimichan

My take on Adult version of Miraculous Ladybug <3 to go with my Older ver of Chat noir <3 sfw/nsfw psd,hd jpg, video process etc-https://www.patreon.com/posts/19355711

tenshieffect

Uta no Prince-sama Shining Live is getting an English release.

Japanese Trailer

englishotomegames

Yesterday, Aksys Games announced four new otome games they will be localizing in 2018 for the PS Vita & PS4!

The games are: Code: Realize ~Bouquet of Rainbow~ (PS4)

A PS4 release of the original Code: Realize game as well as the upcoming fandisk, Future Blessings.

7′scarlet (PS Vita)

“The summer holidays. A town caged by nature, Okunezato. One year ago in this town, her older brother suddenly disappeared without a trace. The protagonist and university student Hanamaki Ichiko is invited by Kagutsuchi Hino - her childhood friend in the same university year level as her - to go to Okunezato in order to look for her disappeared older brother together. Hino had found the “Forbidden Okunezato Club”, a website in which its visitors discuss the mysteries and legends of Okunezato. The “other face” of Okunezato comes to light as rumours regarding the “Legend of the Dead” are treated as though they were fact. Everytime they follow the footsteps of her disappeared brother, mysterious events spark. The true existence of the forbidden grounds, and the legendary flower that only blooms in Okunezato…”

Psychedelica of the Black Butterfly (PS Vita)

“As she fell deeper and deeper into the darkness, she could hear the sound of rainfall. Also, she heard an animalistic cry. When she woke up, the young girl found herself in a Western-style mansion. An unknown, terrible monster rushes to attack the confused girl. As the young girl ran away from the monster, she thought: Having lost pretty much all of her memories, she eventually met and joined up with some men in the same circumstances as her. They all held weapons that were strange handguns. From there on out, with their lives at stake, they must participate in the Black Butterfly Hunt, and collect Kaleidoscope Shards"possessed by those monsters. Inside the Western-style mansion in which despair and betrayal swirls, will they be able to find hope in their futures?”

Psychedelica of the Ashen Hawk (PS Vita) The sequel to Psychedelica of the Black Butterfly. ______________________________________________

Aksys also announced that Bad Apple Wars will be released on September 29th, 2017 and will be available for pre-order soon (including a limited edition). Collar x Malice will be available on July 28th, 2017 and can be pre-ordered here for USD$39.99!

artistsaurio

Heads up PayPal is changing ToS again

And they are getting even more strict when it comes to not using invoices for charging for Digital Goods.

Whatever Invoices make you uncomfortable or not, you gotta start using them if you want to keep your PayPal and your money. Changes starting this October 19th.

Honestly I don’t get why so many artists are so overwhelmed by invoices, takes just a few clicks to set up.

And is not only “oh you have to use invoices because PayPal says so” if you don’t use invoices you’re putting yourself at risk of being scammed by an user abusing the buyer’s protection.

Since PayPal ain’t got no idea of what those $50 you received were for, but the buyer is saying they didn’t got anything for the money, PayPal will just side with the buyer.

I’m seriously begging ppl, start using invoices. I’m tired of seeing ppl complain their paypal was banned, or is under investigation, or worse, the $100 they got for a very complicated commission, 3 months later get a refund issue.

just

start

using

invoices

for your own sake.

Here is how you use invoices because I can’t keep playing devil’d advocate, yes I would love to help you get your PayPal restored but just this last month I had to help three persons, and they were MORE than aware of this issues.

Just protect yourself.

Step 1. You login and click here

Step 2. You click create new Invoice. YOU NEVER CLICK REQUEST MONEY, unless you want to risk yourself to get scamer by buyer’s protection exploit and not only lose your money but your paypal account, and any future paypal linked to your irl name.

Step 3 You follow this steps

1. Invoice for amount only

2. Ask your client for their PayPal email and put in that field

3. Add a vague description of what you’re doing, something like “Character Coloured with Background” is good enough, and if you need more than 1 character you can type in “2″ where it says amount, or just say “2 characters”.

Warning: don’t type in “Naruto rawing Sasuke”. That will get you banned.

4. Click send.

Optional steps. Create a template, doesn’t take more than 10 minutes and it will save you a lot of time for future invoices, you can even click on “items” right next to “create invoice” and add a list of services you offer such as “character sketch” “character flats” along with a price, so next time you invoice you just add to the invoice from your list of items and you saved yourself some more time.

More importantly, you protect yourself from buyer’s protection exploit because if PayPal knows you’re doing digital goods, then you will be allowed that you did in fact created a digital good.

Keep PayPal happy, as for right now there are no alternatives to this service, and this is the only source of income for many freelancers.

Stay safe.

awkwardtimezone

Heads up, all commissioning artists

bloriblomi

I’ll be doing this from now on!

bloriblomi

ADDING THIS BC I HATE PAYPALLLL OK so when you send/make invoices…it doesnt let you choose ‘digital good’ or differentiate between “goods (as in physical)” and “services” (as in doesnt need address) which is what you could do with micropayments…. SO WHEN U SEND INVOICE the buyer will be asked for their shipping address. ( I even had the options turned off for shipping?? I was pretty sure there USED TO be an option that you turned off and then it wouldn’t ask for shipping, but that doesnt seem to work anymore? I went to where the setting was and still had the boxes unchecked, and yet my buyer was still getting asked to put in shipping address, and when invoice was paid, i was being asked to provide shipping label by X date or Consequences.) SO APPARENTLY YOU HAVE TO DO THIS as the SELLER

SO go to the invoice (i think this can be done BEFORE the buyer pays?? Didnt try myself tho, i did it after it was paid), and click on VIEW DETAILS in that first box

Scroll to the bottom of the page and click ADD TRACKING INFO (YES COUNTER-INTUITIVE AS BALLLLLS.)

of course HERE IS WHERE YOU'RE GIVEN INSTRUCTIONS ON PROCESSING DIGITAL GOODS. HIDDEN BEHIND A BUTTON YOU WOULDNT PRESS IF YOU WERE, SAY, TRYING TO SELL DIGITAL GOODS. Select Order Processed/Service Rendered

YAY this stuff fills itself out and you can save and not have to worry about shipping your Digital Intangible Product to a very confused seller. I am so salt about this. excuse me while i go cry angrily.