I hope you are well and fine
I used to ask you questions in the past and thought of dropping by again
Can I seek for your advice, today is the the 2nd time my husband punch me on my arm. His reason was because I push my son head away. I told him I didn't realize that I only remember pushing him away bcs he was biting me out of anger.amd it hurt.so.im reflex I push him. I did apologize to my son but when it happen he just.punched my arm .
Before this things excalated, when my husband tend to point out my fault or correct me , my eldest would start calling me names. Saying Im like shit . I guess I had enough bcs my husband called me no brain for a mistake I made. Then followed up by son comment . I told my son I didn't like that, it's not nice.to.call ppl that.i guess I was upset with my husband also for not correcting him to tell him he shouldn't talk to his mum like that. He wanted to play game on my phone and I told him he called me that so I'm.not allowing that he cried and then resort to biting me.. that's when I push him.off me to get punched by husband.
I'm not sure how to feel I reacted straight away by crying. He said how old am I to cry. I'm not sure what to feel. Both the children were crying clinging on bcs they were sleepy , I was too. And in all honesty, my mind went blank.numb. is this normal?
My husband always said that if anything happen to my children , I would pay for it.
Wa ‘alaykumusalaam sister, I apologize for my delay in responding but I really don’t use tumblr anymore. I hope that you have found help, may Allāh protect you and guide you and keep you safe. If you haven’t already done so, you need to tell someone what’s going on. This is absolutely not normal. Make du’aa to Allāh, and please, please reach out to someone. Maybe your father or mother, or if you have a sibling or close friend. Or even your husband’s siblings. Don’t let anyone tell you it’s normal and that you have to deal with it or something absurd like that. I hope you are able to find help Inshaa’ Allāh.
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