Don't Point That Thing at Me

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[uncledynamite]

When you see vast groups of people deluding themselves (or being deluded) in an election year, the song "Won't Get Fooled Again" is never far below the surface for men of a certain age who have seen something of the world. So it was today and I pulled it up on my phone and decided to just let the whole album play for the first time in decades. There's something about "Who's Next" that you just don't hear any more. There are far more tender, wistful songs than I remembered, for one thing, but the song above, "Bargain," jumped out of the mists. The lyrics are bluff and blustery and almost disposable until the moment Pete interrupts with his sensitive lines about finding himself through you. Because it's all about him, of course. BUT THE PLAYING! Take two Number Two pencils out of the cup and try to drum along. Good fucking luck! One of the chief regrets of my 70's concert-going youth is never having seen The Who live while Keith was at his prime. I saw them at their most improbable show ever, Shea Stadium in 1982 when the openers were David Johanssen and The Clash. Kenny Jones, the Faces drummer, sat in for the now-dead Moon, and though he was game and knows his trade as well as anyone, he didn't bother trying to compete with a ghost. Keith Moon wasn't a drummer's drummer, after all. The way he held his sticks is all wrong, the technicians say, his kit was missing essential elements, and - here's what drummers and musicians will never forgive him for - over time he refused to anchor the band's sound. He saw himself as being in a nightly competition for attention with Pete Townshend, the guitarist. Detractors found him too much of a show-off, a distraction. As a powerless boy treading water in a very uncertain world, I found the muscle and overconfidence coming out of the speakers irresistible. He left more and more of the anchoring of songs to John Entwistle, a very capable bassist who could also lay it down like the Blue Angels doing a fly-by over your house at 2am. Moon's playing was largely untaught, and is basically unteachable. In a band of almost unbelievable sonic power and rage, he provided wave after wave of cascading, stuttering rolls and fills. If you try to air-drum along to their songs, it takes a good deal of practice to figure out even the start when he drops his sticks, because it seems to defy logic. He catches up, though and invariably the beat is kept somehow, almost inadvertently. I imagine that the melodic part of his intellect was incredibly strong and - to offset his stick-holding - that his wrists must have been as alternately strong and as loose as a home-run hitter's. If you look at videos of him playing, you get the impression of a little boy at a music store banging away furiously on a showroom kit and, as his mother drags him away by the tail of his shirt, he keeps flailing away all the more frenetically. Partly out of naughtiness, partly out of the love of noise, and partly because who knows when he may be able to play again? He flamed out at 31 and left behind anecdotes beyond counting of things like grand pianos in swimming pools, tv's on hotel sidewalks, stalking Steve McQueen, Nazi uniforms in public, etc. The spirit of Chaos seemed to reside in his bosom. When I listen to him now, machine-gunning illogically but perfectly alongside Pete's almost pathological rage, and the menacing roar of Entwistle's bass under all, I have to smile. This was a band that could have used a conductor but had a perfection all its own. There's nothing like that on the radio any more, says my old gaffer wistfully. Shut up and listen harder to Taylor Swift, old man. Ryan Adams says she's Shakespeare.

[uncledynamite]

I used to religiously pore over album reviews. My music-loving friends had long since quit reading about, buying or talking about music. They were busy, they had "matured," they had little kids, they were penny-wise, whatever. There was no more room in their workaday lives for new music and the effort it took to spend money wisely. Don't worry: they still went to the sheds to see Buffett every summer and got hammered and swayed and swam in place and pretended - grown men! - that they were sharks. They dressed up like yahoos and made disgraces of themselves year after year. That was the extent of their music appreciation. I stayed away. In their cars and houses they played the same music over and over and over. I guess they were just waiting for the internet and all that free music. Anyway, I knew the preferences of scores of local music reviewers and when the right ones said the right things about an album, I clipped the column and stuck it in my wallet for the next time I went to the record store. I know this sounds like the build-up to the Civil War and Jo and her sisters collecting lint for the poor soldiers' musket wounds, but this was only 1999. A few different reviewers of the right sort had thought a lot of Will Owsley's first album, "Owsley" and I determined to track it down. The reward for finding an excellent album back then was that it could be the glorious soundtrack to a season or two in your life. I had found a few of these in the past and there was nothing to compare to it. Inspiration, instruction, meditation, exhiliration, all the best -ations would line up and shake your hand every time you played it. Fantastic! So I had high hopes for "Owsley." When I finally got to the record store - a record store! a "store" for "records!" can you imagine such a thing? - a single copy of the cd waited for me in the "O" bin. "What joy!" I remember thinking. The reviews had claimed that Owsley played all the instruments, sang all the vocals, produced, engineered and mixed the thing in his home studio somewhere in the rural South. That turns out to have been something of an overstatement, since he had help from former bandmates and his then girlfriend and others, but the album is obviously from Track 1 onward a stunning testament to one man's musical vision and talent burning to get out and show its stuff. How good is it? It's the album McCartney should have put out every two years since the Beatles broke up. Wistful na-na-na's, cellos, ripping radio-ready guitar solos, lush harmonies, crunching chords, sweet strumming, great singing. Unlike his follow-up album which came out five years later, this one coheres around wistful memories of growing up in Anniston, Alabama. Lost loves, music, family, old friends, haunted houses, farms, lazy Sundays, the even-now changing landscape of the streets. "Looking back on yesterday never was my favorite thing to do, But that's okay, it's just as well, it seems as though there's less to hold on to, There's a parking lot where the church used to be, And the old town drunk changed his ways, Still my mind goes wandering down Memory Lane, Well, I hope it's a passing phase, Looking back at the good old days..." - "Good Old Days" There were two potential singles. The first, "Oh No The Radio," the album's first song and a ripping introduction to Owsley's crazy talent failed because of music radio's horror of any song that references radio. I don't get it myself, but djs apparently are loath to play anything that says "radio." It's a shame, because it would very likely have been a hit. The second potential single, and the one the label, Giant, got behind was "Coming Up Roses." The problem with "Coming Up Roses" was that it's probably the most sombre song on the album. Pretty, yes, in a "She's Leaving Home" kind of way, but it has nothing of the exuberance and pop bounciness of 3/4th of the rest of the album. The story goes that Owsley sent his label dozens of roses to celebrate the single's release. Of all the anecdotes around his lost, perfect album, this story makes me the saddest. Spending money on your label, who will inevitably drop your spiral in the end zone. In the end, "I'm Alright," a crunchy guitar song garnered some airplay. The happiest anecdote revolving around "Owsley" was the bidding war it generated when it first arrived, fully formed, at record company offices. Owsley insisted upon one caveat: he wouldn't re-record the album, as he knew they'd all insist, but he would allow it to be re-mixed. It went on to garner a "Best Engineered Album" nomination from the Grammys. "Owsley" did indeed become the soundtrack for my winter and spring. It was a happy time as a result. That was the thing about lucky albums like that. If you didn't arm yourself with the right kind of talismanic music, the hard seasons would drag on and on. I couldn't get enough of it. It moved with me from the car to the office to the house. At night, compelling instrumental bits of songs and compressed melodies moved through my sleeping mind the way a gauzy curtain blows into a room with the wind. I probably accounted for 10% of the album's sales, buying copies for friends, which means the cd didn't do very well. Certainly not well enough for Owsley to focus solely on his own music. He became tour guitarist for Amy Grant and Shania Twain which, yes, paid the bills and allowed him to do the thing he loved, but it didn't allow him to become the musician he and I and many others know he should have become. Giant Records, in the meantime, spit the bit and delayed the release of his second solo album for two years. His second solo album "The Hard Way" isn't nearly as tight, though there are several good songs backloaded onto the second half, including a throwaway, unlisted & note perfect "Band on the Run" at the end. The themes are darker. Not-making-it, addiction, disillusionment, and sadness all creep in. There's also an incredibly touching appreciation of his late grandmother unlike anything in recorded pop history. A decade has gone by and there are Owsley songs littered across the playlists I've made over the years and whenever one comes on it shames the song that came before it and the one that plays after with its perfection. Will Owsley took his life a few years ago and though we never met, I often find myself mourning him. It's difficult to piece together how a mind that could produce such an ebullient and joyous masterpiece could find itself at the last ditch. You don't have to dwell on any of that, though. His songs remain. They will have to be enough. They are certainly amazing. The best you never heard of. http://www.amazon.com/Owsley/e/B000APLMT8/digital/ref=ntt_mp3_rdr?_encoding=UTF8&sn=d https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/owsley/id166174

[thebosha]

Here’s the thing about a $17,000.00 wristwatch: I’m in favor.

Not an outwardly politically correct sentiment, I know. Especially given my slightly-left-of-Che Guevara views on nearly everything else. Hypocritical? Maybe. But here’s the other thing: tough tits.

Immaculate, unerring mechanical masterpieces from revered craftsmen the likes of Patek Philippe [movement pictured above], Vacheron Constantin, Piaget, Breitling, Rolex (if you must), Chopard, Blancpain… Heck, even your currently humble scribe keeps–as souvenirs of his peak earning years–a Cartier and a Jaeger-LeCoultre (sensible models, mind you, purchased at a mere 7 and 10K, respectively).

These precision instruments are investments in art and the future. They are practical possessions that don’t need to be charged, are beyond the reach of fickle fashion trends, are not at the mercy of limited software updates and, while they may miss a beat fore or aft when in need of a cleaning, do not simply break. Ever.

Now if you smirked at the use of the word “practical” in the above paragraph, allow me to highlight the inconvenient truth that even the wimpiest of Armageddons would reduce your electricity dependent devices to dead weight in well under 48 hours. And the batteries that power Quartz watches last a long time, but not forever. Not even close. They last just long enough for you to be tired of that ultimately disposable bracelet anyway, so you’re more likely to buy a new watch (or rather watch-like object) than a new battery.

A fine timepiece, by contrast, is meant to be a family heirloom, a line item in ones will, if only to be auctioned off by some future ingrate for the downpayment on a home or perhaps the full cost of a college education. Because like the best paintings, wines, cheeses and certain Spanish hams, a good watch only increases in value over (you guessed it) time.

Years ago one of my sons, then barely a teen, sneakily engendered my undying respect by asking for a good mechanical watch for Christmas. For the record, there are many available from respected makers like Bulova and Hamilton that will set you back a couple hundred bucks instead several thousand. His reason? In the thick of reading The Walking Dead graphic novel series it occurred to him that the Hershel character, the aged veterinarian, owned the only mechanized thing that still worked and wasn’t a gun; and it was strapped, understatedly, to his left wrist.

They didn’t know if they’d live to see another hour, but thanks to Hershel, at least they knew when that hour had passed.

In his younger days my dad was a jeweler, specifically a “watchmaker.” He didn’t design and manufacture watches, hence the quotes. That was just the standard title for the local jeweler who specialized in the care and maintenance of timepieces, be they wrist, pocket or Black Forest Cuckoo.

He had a satchel of tools sourced at great expense from exotic places like Switzerland and Germany, tools of such tininess and delicacy they would shame many of our modern, robot-programming surgeons. By all accounts he loved his work, and some of my earliest memories are of solemn-faced neighbors bringing sick watches and clocks to our home, usually swaddled in cloth as though they were abandoned baby birds being left at the pet hospital.

I guess that’s two ways my dad was like Hershel.

You know what dad did when the Quartz movement came along and in short order became both cheap and ubiquitous? He quit. Oh he got another gig, thank goodness. But his was a career that died as much from a broken heart as from changing times.

So, if I have to lay it out for you, go ahead. Spend $17,000 on a watch. Spend more if you’ve got it. Just Do Not Spend It on a whizbang gizmo that offers no more than the phone you’re holding right now, and a whole lot less.

Because too soon, after my father’s last will and testament is read, his own treasured Wittnauer will be passed into my hands. And 100 years from now I have a reasonable expectation that one or more of my yet unborn grandchildren will be in stewardship of my watches (or at least benefiting from the proceeds of same).

In 100 years, where will your Apple Watch be? Yeah okay, by then the few surviving Gen Ones will be somewhat valuable if kitschy collectibles. But in 10 years? In 5? Even in 2, lousy years?

Most of it will be in a landfill. Perhaps its minuscule droplet of internal gold repurposed into the circuit board of some faraway stranger’s garage door remote.

You have lots of things that are Cool, I’m sure of it. But for the remotely foreseeable future nothing that comes with a charger will make it into a safe deposit box. So if you have the means, own one thing that is not only Cool, but Good.

Think of it as supporting an always tiny and rapidly diminishing community of artisans, and flipping the bird to the Geek Gentry for a change. If nothing else, imagine conjuring your best/worst Aussie accent and saying to that inevitable dick…

“That’s not a watch. THIS is a watch.”

[uncledynamite]

IN WHICH UNCLE DYNAMITE DESCRIBES A FRIGHTFUL ROW. You will by now have heard that the city of Boston has received more than seven feet of snow in the past few weeks. That much over a whole winter is rotten enough, but to get it all in such a small amount of time means that at some point there's no place to put the snow. The city has resorted to dumping it into the harbor. Your residential driveway shoveler has no such recourse. He will throw it up onto the existing piles of snow that run the length of both sides of his driveway and then watch it quickly roll back down. These things are sent to test us, he tells himself, and make us more spiritual. He says that later that night, actually. What he says at the time is likely to be something that would blister the soul of a strip club bouncer. It does make you more spiritual. It would make a philosopher out of a squirrel. I used to live in that place. In the city itself, where people who don't have driveways must park on the street, a kind of pantomime springs up in the neighborhoods during those long winters. In Act One, a man will shovel out a space in the street in front of his house because he, inexplicably, has no driveway. Be it three inches or three feet of snow, the shoveler sees himself as a kind of hero. In Act Two, he runs inside his dwelling and produces a bulky, ugly thing, like a rusty folding chair, though if you Google "parking spot saver" you'll find whole toilets and plaster busts of Elvis and whatnot, and he then puts it in the middle of the now-shoveled spot. When he moves his car from God-knows-where to this spot, he'll put the chair in his trunk. When he leaves, he takes it from his trunk and puts it in the shoveled spot to await his return. "I am the hero of this story," he says to himself. "I now own that space." These heroes used to maintain this charade as long as snow remained on the ground, days, weeks or months even, but the last Mayor had had about a jugful of these embarrassing confrontations and told them to knock if off after 48 hours. The locals balked at this. Snow shovelers are as conservative as cats and hate to see the old ways go. The old ways were perfectly good, they thought, and were there for a reason. In Act Three the shoveler and the harried parker meet. In his own story, the poacher is the hero. I pay taxes, he says. The streets belong to everybody. I have a very important appointment and don't wish to spend $40 at a parking garage to attend it. Who does this cretin think he is, hogging the common weal? High words are passed. There are wigs on the green, as they used to say. Accusations of low birth. Bloody noses. Scraped paint. Bent antennae. Recriminations. Sirens. Hard feelings. Community service. Lather, rinse, repeat. Since the outlawing of duelling in Boston, shoveled parking spot confrontations have had to suffice for the independent man of spirit. He yearns for these meetings. You see, he was not able to serve his country as a patriotic man like him could have wished because he was doing a two-year spell in chokey for de-pursing an elderly lady on the street and he unfortunately had water-on-the-knee during football tryouts each year at school. These absences leave their mark. I had one such of these experiences, I'm ashamed to say. I grew up in the area. My family on both sides are from the city itself and I know better than to poach, or thought I did. At the time of this story I was living in the city and I was not well off enough to rent a space in a parking lot, so I had to drive around the neighborhoods behind my apartment building every evening and always found a spot. Then came the storm. I dug myself out but, not living anywhere near my car felt I had no claim over it and so I left it for others when I drove to work. That night, a Friday, I caught up with old school friends and stayed out late, 2 a.m., then went home. The bad thing about parking anywhere near my building was that all the spots tended to get sewed up around one in the morning. By now everyone was in bed and their cars also slept up and down both sides of the curiously one-way streets. I drove up and down these streets with no luck. Then I tried them again, hoping to catch someone going to a staggered late shift at a hospital or factory. Nothing. I had been carousing for many hours with my friends and the word for what I was feeling was "tired." My liver was tired. My eyes were tired. My hair was tired. My chakras? I'm glad you asked. They were very tired. I thought of all these people in the houses I passed lying under their comforters with their arms crossed like Teutonic knights on marble-slabbed tombs and I longed to be among them. Yes, I had been passing lawn chairs holding spots in front of the two-family homes. They were there on every street. No, I had not been tempted. I tried one more two mile circuit of the streets. Not a single car had moved and now I knew none would until daylight. "I'll get up at six and move the car," I told myself, justifying poaching one of these spots. "The owner won't get back from wherever he works until eight anyway." No one will know. Necessity. Fatigue. All these things. Don't you judge me. I lifted a lawn chair from a spot on the street behind my building feeling only a slight pang of guilt, then folded it and set it gently and respectfully on the snowbank, eased the car in with my lights off so as not to trigger an alarm within the house, and tiptoed across the crunching snow to my building where I crawled into bed and slept with the intense rigor of a long-deceased Teutonic knight laying his weary Crusader frame down upon a marble slab, say. I forgot to set my alarm. I woke when the sun warmed my face, almost 11 am, and I immediately lept from the bed after reading the clock, jumped into my clothes from last night, hauled on my coat, boots, hat, etc. as I ran down the stairwell with but one thought: move that car now. MOVE. THAT. CAR. NOW. It was remorselessly sunny, as it always is after a long night out with friends, and it was the bluest of sky as it always is the day after a snowstorm. The purest optics. I jogged down the middle of the street and unlocked the driver's side door with the key, eased into the driver's seat, closed the door behind me and started the car. An instant later, the front door of the house I could see out the passenger side window burst open and something like a blue streak was coming my way. I don't remember if I screamed. I threw the car into reverse and launched it back, all the while staring in horror at a very large man in bib overalls covering the distance between us at an alarming rate. Bib overalls! The worst parts of "Deliverance" sprung to my racing mind. Then I slammed the car into drive and shot the car's nose into the street. That's when I first noticed what he'd done. In the hours of my repose, the bastard had soaked double sheets of newspaper under the tap and laid them on my windshield to freeze and adhere like demon's wallpaper. I couldn't see out, except around the edges. This particular street was just one lane wide (and one-way) and there were cars parked on both sides. I gunned the engine just as he tried the door handle. He howled in rage and pounded on the roof of my car like the angriest of ogres, then he brought his ham-like fist down on the trunk. Rather than stick around and chat, I felt that my best chance of survival lay in accelerating and trying to navigate the tiny street through the microscopic slit of window left to me. I pressed my face to the windshield and held my breath so as not to fog it up with the inhuman shrieks I was stifling while my pursuer hared after me roaring with rage like a demented hillbilly sodomite. He had also taken the time to paper the side mirrors, the pragmatical dog. After the longest fifteen seconds of my life, I ultimately outpaced him and his exclamations as he gave up the chase rent the clouds in twain, as I believe it is said, and laid an artic chill over my heart. How I didn't kill any hapless pedestrians or take out a row of cars is a testament to clean living and marvelous hand/eye coordination. You will say it was the merest luck. You are a jerk. Let me have this. Memory is funny thing. It tries to file this experience alongside Jack and the Beanstalk. His climb down the stalk whilst being pursued by the giant is a terror we all remember as children and one I would have been only too happy to have left as a hypothetical. I'll swear on a stack of Bibles that my giant did wear bib overalls that day, an odd choice for Boston, but now my memory tells me he was shirtless too which is very, very unlikely during a Boston winter. It also tells me he was bearded, but to this I cannot swear. I scraped the frozen newspaper off with all the zeal of the convert and drove to a minimum safe distance where I could breathe into a paper bag and praise my guardian angel to the skies. I never moved a lawn chair out of season again, for reasons which will doubtless ocur to you, and ever after I've given a wide berth to sleeping giants, which I think you will agree is a rather sound policy. They must have their bread, you see, and I'm determined that it shall never be made from me. The End. your affectionate uncle, Dynamite

[uncledynamite]

Recently @TedLeo and @AimeeMann were asked to name their early influences and Ted said he was definitely taken, coming up, with Graham Parker. That caught my eye. Full marks, young Leo! An excellent choice, meaning, rather, that I approve because it dovetails neatly with my own preferences. However the experienced eye will notice that the picture above is decidedly not Graham Parker. What gives? If you were a teenager in the late 70's and you had any pretentions as regards New Wave coolness, you were eventually drawn into the celestial orbits of Elvis Costello, Joe Jackson or Graham Parker. I honestly tried with Parker, but never could plug in all the way. I studied him but didn't have fun with him. With Costello it was a case of knowing you were supposed to love him but him leaving you a bit cold at times, at least until you found complete rapprochement with him for "Imperial Bedroom" (which on a personal note I can sing backwards and forwards depending upon proximity, at time of singing, to a passing black hole or other anomaly of time and space). But I lived in a city where the number one rock station had DJs that spun whatever they wanted whenever they wanted - think of that - and brought touring musicians into the studios all the time and they were all crazy for Joe Jackson. They played his music all the time. Whatever resistance you had was worn down over months and years. Yes it was commercial music, yes it was jumped-up, but it was good. Joe didn't seem to care if you danced to his music at the bars. It didn't bother him a bit. The other two...not so much. The station even played his "Friday" every single Friday at noon as a de facto kickoff to the weekend. If you were driving in your car with the windows down you felt the whole city sigh and let out a notch in its collective belts for the saturnalia yet to come. All three are regarded as peerless songwriters, even today, with wide and lengthy catalogs of albums. Go and explore this treasure trove. And check out this song, "Evil Empire" (play it here: http://grooveshark.com/#!/s/Evil+Empire/zSGLp?src=5) "There’s a country where no one knows What’s going on in the rest of the world There’s a country where minds are closed With just a few asking questions Like what do their leaders say In sessions behind closed doors And if this is the perfect way Why do we need these goddamn lies? This doesn’t go down too well: "We give you everything, you throw it back. Don’t like it here you can go to hell. You’re either with or against us." There’s a country that’s great and wide It’s got the biggest of everything Try to attack it and you can’t hide Don’t say that you haven’t been warned You can’t hide in a gunman’s mask Or kill innocent folks and run But if you’re good at it they might ask - Come on over to the other side There’s a country that’s tired of war There’s a country that’s scared inside But the bank is open and you can draw For guns to fight in their backyard I could go on but what’s the use? You can’t fight them with songs But think of this as just Another tiny blow against the empire Another blow against the evil empire Just another blow against the evil empire" Here's the mind-blower: "Evil Empire" was released in 1989. Twenty-five years ago. It should be sung in every country that has policies and leadership its population can't abide. The president's pet of every such country owes it to humanity to take the stage at official functions and sing it during live telecasts to the everlasting fury of the dearest leader. The song is everything "Won't Get Fooled Again" pretends it is. It's raising a single hand against a regime rather than retreating into self. And you can't dance to it.

[uncledynamite]

A Modest Treatise on #YesAllWomen for the men. Go to the timelines of your favorite people for May 24, 25 & 26 and read them. I mean really read them. Read all of them. Some of them will have been taken down upon reflection, but I personally hope they never are. Collectively they're a State of the Union for Women, and it's pretty grim. My stomach is in knots from what ALL WOMEN have experienced. If you are a real man - a real person, really - you will be heartsick and scorched. I KNOW people in other parts of the world throw acid in the faces of girls going to school and I KNOW religious sects cover women from head to toe and treat them as chattel. I know all these things. That's over THERE. I can't do anything about it besides showing my everlasting disapproval and heaping scorn on it from a great distance. But HERE? It's bad enough here, believe me. Let's get this all out in the open and make changes in our stupid heads and stupid hearts and then make them out in the world where this garbage is still, unbelievably, happening. These are your, my, our FRIENDS. We only want the best for them, always, wherever they are. We LOVE them. To think their safety, sanity, security, health, happiness, and so on could be at risk so often and in so many places is TERRIBLE. To think that the workplaces, transportation, police, friends, legal system would ever make value judgements about them in their worst moments of absolutely degrading victimhood is DISGUSTING. To know your friend (add "wife" or "mother" or "sister" or "daughter" or "valuable human being with feelings and dignity" whenever I say "friend" if that helps you process, though it shouldn't have to, really) is open to the grossest affronts and violations on the street, on public transportation, at work parties, in a parking lot or on a jogging trail, or even at home with a "loved one" boggles the mind. Strap-hangers getting rubbed up on the subway. Sexually explicit remarks. Appraisals of looks from strangers, male coworkers. Gropings. Getting stalked. Being followed in car garages, malls, parking lots after dark. Rapes. Beatings. Just because a woman is ALONE? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? I realize there's a "pursuit" imperative inherent in primates in order to push the species along. But humans are NOT ANIMALS. Not really. We've made ourselves, with all our amazing abilities and consciousness, impervious to evolution. Bad eyesight? You don't get passed over. Your genes don't get left behind. You get glasses. Legs blown off? Here's a wheelchair, curb cuts, an elevator, a modified van. You don't die in the dust. Cancer? Have a few chemo cocktails & live another thirty years. We don't have to live like the beasts of the field. We're better than that. To take the ideal of pursuit to the level of a shark with a dead whale is an affront to what makes us different, better, even great. We may not be celestial beings, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't be constantly trying. Attractive people know they're attractive. Stop talking about it in all but the most intimate contexts, and only when INVITED TO DO SO. Discussing people's looks aloud is awful and creepy. Speculating about people's sexual abilities aloud is beyond the pale. Remarking about parts of a stranger's physique is lower than scummy. Cut it out. Keep it to yourself. Ask yourself who you are and what you've become if you feel the need to shout something about some poor girl's ass in the street. I have yet to see an incident like this and hear anyone in the crowd say "SHUT UP, MORON." So say it. It needs saying. EVERYBODY SHOULD SAY IT. Because she's pretty...that makes her a target? Because she's wearing something form-fitting or skimpy or low-cut or something that just appeals to you personally...that means she forfeits her dignity and is ACTUALLY ASKING TO BECOME A VICTIM OF A VIOLENT CRIME? Are you actually high? How far did you get in school? Don't touch people unless invited to do so. Do not attempt carnality unless both parties are in their right minds, if there's no coercion of any kind, everything's legal, and both sides think it's a great idea. Don't follow people who haven't implicitly beckoned you to do so. This goes for phonecalls, texting, emailing, social media or hanging around outside people's homes, or stalking their known shopping or recreational haunts or places of employment. It's OKAY if someone doesn't take to you the way you take to them. It's NORMAL. Your job is to be excellent until someone else does, not force people against their wills to allow you into their space. A passed out or insensible person is TABOO. Do. Not. Touch. Have their friends get them home and lock them in. FIND their friends. Defend them from the predation of others. Get help. Violence between the sexes is also TABOO. The legal code also says this about violence between ANYBODY. Cut it out. When advances are floated out there and are either left to float away or are firmly refused, that part of the conversation is OVER, NEVER TO RETURN as far as the asker goes. LET IT GO. MOVE ON. MOVE AWAY. If no EVER becomes yes, you'll be informed only after being observed living excellently AT A GREAT DISTANCE. This, realistically, is very unlikely to occur and should never be expected. Work on the excellence part anyway, though. It will pay great dividends now and later. Treat a woman the way you'd like to be treated by an enormous bear, say, who suddenly carries you off and moves you to a cave a million miles from anywhere to Beartown. Tenderness, kind words, concern, sharing, caring - that's what you'd crave in the darkness and uncertainty of your cave with this enormous creature. This, after all, is what happens to women when they take up with us. THINK ABOUT IT. If you think getting off in someone, anyone is the Prime Directive, and that your DNA is some kind of gold filigree, GET OVER YOURSELF. Jerk it into a sock and go to bed. Nobody wants to hear it. We're ALL special, so that means nobody has to be the inverted chalice for your oh so precious fluids. If you see a guy circling around someone like she's prey, DO SOMETHING. Alert her, the bouncers, HR, your boss, the bartender, her friends, a cop. If the guy follows her to the bathroom, parking lot, etc., tail him. If he crosses a line, drop him and sit on his head until the authorities arrive. BE A MAN. THIS IS WHAT MEN DO. Is any of this coming back to you? Hello? If assaults keep happening in a certain garage or lot, DO SOMETHING. Insist the business install bright lights, and man security cameras. Start a noisy boycott. Paying for the basic safety of its customers should be thought of as a necessary cost of doing business. Period. If you see a man dragging a woman away from a gathering, or striking a woman DON'T PRETEND YOU DIDN'T SEE ANYTHING. Are you a worm? BE A MAN. Everybody should pursue him, call the cops, and fend him off. THAT'S THE MINIMUM. If he takes a stray elbow to the ear, so much the better. HE'S LETTING THE SPECIES DOWN. HE NEEDS TO KNOW THAT - HARD. Hear the guy in the next apartment getting rough with his partner? Pound on the door. CALL THE COPS. Subway gropers should be barked off the train by EVERYONE or be regaining consciousness just as the gyves are being slipped over their wrists. WHO STANDS BY AND LETS ANOTHER HUMAN BE DEGRADED? You saw a shifty guy in the stairwell of the parking garage when you left AND when you came back? TELL THE CASHIER. Bang on the manager's door. Don't be fobbed off with excuses. DEMAND RESULTS. This is OUR WORLD. WE say how it should be, NOT THEM. This isn't about politics or feminism or liberals or conservatives or the horseshit #NotAllMen. It's about making things NICE and SAFE everywhere. It's about being KIND. About ending the garbage. When half of us don't feel safe, none of us are really safe. That goes for your mother, your sister, your wife, your daughter and you, you prize dopes. Tell your sons. Tell your friends. Tell everybody. YOU let things get this bad. CLEAN IT UP. NOW. Go, thou, and sin no more. Your affectionate uncle, Dynamite

[uncledynamite]

I deleted this long ago.

Thanks to Lanyard for saving a copy of it! Somebody told me that it was a mistake to post when it first came out and I got spooked & pulled it. Big mistake. If you can’t trust yourself, who can you trust? So…without further ado:

This week I answer a few questions about how I tweet, and the secret is that I know surprisingly little. Excerpt from an email sent recently in response to a thoughtful query about anonymity, inspiration, tweet construction, quantity, the scientific approach, etc.: ————————————————————————————————————————————— I realize, starting in, that this will be something of a disappointment. You have a large, detail-oriented, reasoning mind and mine is a bit more mercurial and untidy. As to the question of anonymity, it probably hurts as much as it helps. It gives me writing freedom in many ways, but it also means I’m not an identifiable quantity. I’m not a total cipher, true, but it does put me in the Hey, You carriage of the train for a lot of established people. Not all, thankfully. Some people won’t reply to me in the timeline, thinking (I’m guessing), “He’s not real. It’d be like responding to Mickey Mouse, or a spambot.” Well…no. My avi may not be a picture of my face, and my Twitter name isn’t the one on my fishing license, but I’m flesh and blood just the same and I do have a track record. I’ve got other constraints too, because if something’s a complete departure from the “Uncle” personality, say, and reflects more the sentiments of the real me, then people are discomfited by it. They expect a certain whatchamacallit from Uncle Dynamite tweets and if they don’t get it, then they begin to cool as readers. I understand that. It’s fine, and it’s actually a nice problem to have. Now, as to how I keep tweeting? I am this way. In conversation I’m rarely the engine that drives things. My allotted role has always been to interject, or speak in asides, and I’ve been rewarded for it from childhood on. Just not at home. Here’s where this note gets really disappointing: the “how I get inspired” section. I tend to get little lightning strikes of inspiration. They are not wholly logical or break-down-able. Parts of a joke equation come to me, usually when prompted by something around me, or what I’m reading or seeing. I’ll think about it and say to myself, ye-es, that could be funny. If I rush to tweet it, it’s never very good, unless it’s short & sweet and there’s something musical in the wording that grabs people. So I’ll try to remember the gist of it but table it for a while and let it marinate. The ones that people like are 70 characters. The ones I like are exactly 140 characters. Quite often the original premise of one of these inspirations must be folded back on itself in some way, plus be made to tie to a prompt that the reader will hopefully understand and react to. Straightforward presentations of jokes are not what appeal to me as a writer, though I think they’re generally fine to read, if a bit untaxing. If they take two or more steps and test the pop-culture, comedy or straight-up intelligence quotient of people, then I feel I’m probably standing on the ledge of the cliff I’m supposed to be on. I only like formulaic tweeting when it works against itself ironically. I tend to avoid it, myself. I usually check Google to see if my tweet has been done before and if it has I’ll forget about it. But I also hold the opinion that if I go for the easy-pickings joke in order to strike in the moments after an event, say, then I won’t bother checking, trusting (and hoping) that my own particular style will be sufficient proof of authorship. I don’t often have people steal my jokes and part of the reason for this, I suspect (aside from their debatable merit), is that the prospective joke-thief knows beforehand he’ll have trouble fencing the goods because everyone realizes it could never have been his in the first place. I do consciously try to write jokes with an identifiable me-ness about them. I realize this is a luxury some people don’t have, but I have acquired it over time and have seen many others come to create their own only-them tweets, too. As for wording, I write at my level of thought, keeping in mind that some words are funnier than others and that other words, though possibly just out of the reach of the average reader, are self-explanatory if the reader will sleuth through prefixes and suffixes, or I’ll use words if they’re funny-arcane. I’ve heard a lot of very good Twitter writers say that their best tweet is the first inspiration and that messing around ruins it. This is almost never the way with me. I usually write tweets that clock in at 170 characters. That’s when you learn what’s really essential to the meaning of a 140-character joke. As an email joke, or a blog paragraph it may be gold but Twitter has no use for it. Then you carve out delicious phrases and substitute shorter, uglier words for longer, more elegant ones and decide that words like “that” are not required. And when you read the new tweet out loud after rearranging things you realize that nothing’s been materially lost in communicating the original premise and, even better, much of the pretense has been struck from it, too. I used to resent this kind of editing, feeling I was dumbing my writing down, but now find it rewarding. And educational. People who want to laugh don’t mind being put through their paces a bit but ultimately have no desire to sit in on a comedy webinar from William F. Buckley, Jr. I’m more prolific than I ought to be. It’s cost me some very cool followers, usually people who only follow a small pool of tight-lipped Twitter accounts and immediately (and sadly) come to the conclusion that, out of nowhere, I seem to have become their entire timeline and that I must therefore, as a defensive maneuver, be jettisoned. Almost everyone else realizes that comedy writers on Twitter write a hell of a lot of tweets and are subsequently more understanding, for which I’m very grateful. There’s a science of subtext in all writing, but also specifically on Twitter. I haven’t consciously spent much time aligning words and sounds so that they land extra-pleasurably in the mind or mouth of the reader, but I have noticed that I sometimes will do so at a subconscious level, probably because it’s what I like to read. When someone’s longer-form tweet really succeeds you’ll notice, if you examine it closely, that it often has an endoskeleton of sibilances, breath-pacing, repetition of specific sounds and a hidden lilt that kicks the tweet into another gear entirely. What’s funny is like asking “What’s a jellyfish?” We don’t know at the gut level what it is, really. We can’t or don’t want to hold it long enough to find out. Some of them sting, after all. It shouldn’t be overthought - it’s only a jellyfish, after all - and yet we don’t want to to under-think it - because, God Almighty, look at it, it’s a JELLYFISH! - but it does bear some watching. How much watching is entirely up to you. Hope this helped. Your affectionate uncle, Dynamite

[uncledynamite]

In her sit-down with NBC's Meredith Vieira after winning the silver medal for the skeleton event, U.S. Olympian Noelle Pikus Pace told why she'd returned to the sport after being away. She had been fine and fulfilled as a retired athlete, she said, and as a wife and a mom, but then had miscarried a baby and gone into a serious funk. Her husband nudged her back into sledding, suspecting that the exacting training would take her mind off her sorrows. It turns out that - in this instance at least - he was right. Not only did she flourish, but she returned to top competitive form and relished it. Probably a lot of people heard this and shrugged, or filed it away in the Can't Relate Folder, and a certain number - myself included - nodded knowingly and returned for a few minutes, or half a day, to that searing country with its oven-hot winds and no shade and no oases. Background: When I was a boy, my aunt lived with us and married late to a man older than she. There had been a lot of whispering about whether they would even attempt to start a family of their own and they soon did. Several weeks into each of her early pregnancies there was an "event" which was not confided to us children but involved tears, confinement to their room, long silences, meals taken back to their room, and weeks of isolation and sadness. Her husband looked hangdog and we took him to us and played cards with him. We kids couldn't fathom what had happened, exactly. When we pressed, we were told she had "lost" the baby. What does that even mean? Should we institute a search? Has anyone checked the bushes in front of the house? There's nothing peskier than a baby, we knew, and the damned things were as likely to crawl into traffic as not. I doubt we could have put her miscarriages into any emotional context, being so young, so we looked upon her with the chop-chop clear-eyed misunderstanding of the immature. We were quiet around her and gave her space. And were glad to see her come around when she finally did. But each one of these events seemed to take more out of her and her recovery time lengthened. She did eventually have a baby that survived and that baby went on to have more babies. The hard, hard story has a happy ending. Eventually I/we had the misfortune to have it happen to me/us. Possibly God, in his boundless wisdom, and after noticing how woefully I had absorbed the lessons of my aunt, saw this as an area where I needed a bit of a smartening-up. I don't think He thinks this way, however, though I'd never presume one way or the other. I will say that if you live long enough, the riches of the world will open before you like oysters one-by-one and so too will the Greatest Hits of all the tragedies. This was probably just my time. He had been a planned pregnancy. It had gone according to Hoyle and we were certain of his sex for some reason and had settled on a name for him almost immediately, which anyone who knows anything about these things will tell you is rare. We referred to him in conversation by his given name, spoke to the belly and addressed him as such and -hubris of hubris - had the existential temerity to think of him as a done deal. He passed after one of those viability thresholds doctors seem to know so much about but don't bother to tell you unless your kid goes face-first into one. Seventeen weeks? I forget now. During one checkup the midwife smeared clear jelly on the belly and listened to the heartbeat and it was triphammer strong and during the next there was nothing. Nothing. The machine is listening into Deep Space and there is only Void. There are three of you in the tiny examining room and the only one who knows anything goes totally silent. Free fall. Urgent questions. Her hand slips into mine and squeezes with the force of a python. It's grim. All joy is sucked up into the air conditioning vent and goes who knows where and stays away for a season. Specialists. Confirmations. The Drive Home. Terrible. Terrible, terrible, terrible. This was years ago and I write these words today blinking through tears. If I say my boy's name even now I have to leave the room to get it together again. His name is a kind of talisman to me now, a word made out of lightning, a thing of fearsome power. This past year one of my friends referenced an acquaintance of his who just so happens to have my lost boy's name. I felt as thought I'd been punched in the throat. "What?" I said after a few moments. "Who was this?" But the conversation had moved on and it was then I realized just how badly I'd been put back together. It couldn't be him, of course, but how could that name have been given to another?. She blamed herself. She had a second cup of coffee one day, she confessed. I thought of my parents, smoking four packs a day and drinking Old Fashioneds through our gestations. I blamed no one. She didn't believe me. She said I must hate her. She hated herself. I was aghast. Just when you think things are at rock bottom, that's when your anchor knot begins to untie itself. The boy is gone. The ten million smiles he would have provoked in his lifetime - with me, with others - will never happen. His Little League games, his report cards, his graduations, his wedding(s), his own kids, the things he would have done to help others, his ideas. Wiped off the slate. Feeding him, feeling his litttle power-plant-warm head nestled into my neck as he sleeps off his bottle, smiling broadly as I enter the nursery first thing, crawling, high chairs, da-da. Gone. All gone. Go ahead and tell me this is a vast overreaction to a clump of cells fizzing out. Tell me it happens to X% of all pregnancies. I get all that. I do. But this one was mine. My boy. Mine. The way to stay together through something like this is to stay together. Hold, love, assure, reassure, listen, be quiet. Take the whipping together. Do not flinch. Do not hide from your fate; it has already found you. Because next on the agenda, if her body doesn't naturally push out the lost one, is what is essentially the aborting of your dead baby. This is so laughably grim I won't bother to revisit it here, but when you leave that place it's inconceivable you could be any sadder. You have not been able to lose with your dignity intact. You drive home in smithereens, in shards. Throughout those days and weeks I prayed for strength for his mother - who had to host this terrible event in her body, of course, and who was really the one this all happened to, and had to feel all that I felt plus irrational guilt and overwhelming unearned failure - but what I asked for myself was that he be the first to meet me when I get to the other side. Don't ask how I could possibly recognize him. I would know him anywhere.

[uncledynamite]

Throw a Rock at My Head His memories are painful. They come to him when he sits in the tub, cross-legged like a repentant yogi, the shower’s water coursing down his hairy skull into his face which hangs suspended over his knees. The water gets hotter and hotter, as per his fiddling with the spigots. His memories are like wounds and wounds always want to be washed out. The first incident in the string of incidents, in the inextricably linked chain of events, took place many years ago a few hundred yards behind his family’s home, back in the woods and up a sunny hill. The sun came through the trees in carefully marked spots. All the children from the street found themselves drawn to the place, and they made their delicate way through the path, making sure not to make contact with the leaves and vines that leaned and tried to touch above a sock or under the hems of short pants. They contorted themselves cheerfully like modern dancers, twisting, existing in the wood, but never really touching it. Gordon was with them; he later became the man in the tub. They came to the water tower, which sat in its own bath of rough gravel. A drive led off to the street where the maintenance trucks could come through. There was a chain across the street entrance with a padlock that the children would sometimes swing on. The water tank was squat but big. It was the biggest thing the children could imagine. One by one they came through the woods, and took their places, fanning out. Then they picked up chunks of gravel and threw them at the water tower. Smaller children had to stand closer than the older ones in order to reach the tank. It was made of metal, painted green, probably in order to blend in the woods. When the rocks hit, they made a lovely metallic liquid noise. The children, four little boys and two little girls, couldn't get enough of this noise. They continually hoisted the sharp, powdery rocks and flung them, mostly haphazardly, at the tank and the tank rewarded them with its marvelous noises. The sound went on as long as their fat little arms could throw. The two oldest boys left together. Then the two little girls left when they heard one of their mothers call shrilly into the woods. That left the two youngest boys, Simon and Gordon. Simon wandered close to the tank and looked in the gravel for gold or, failing that, pennies. Simon and Gordon were quite young. They were nearly four. They were best friends, Simon and Gordon, even if their parents couldn’t stand each other. Rather, Gordon's parents couldn't stand Simon's parents. Gordon's mother was a chippy and his father was a wage ape with his name on his shirt who thought he was the first to think of night school. Simon's parents were identical to Gordon's but without the ambitions and pretensions. Perhaps in twenty years, with raises all along, they would fall across some prosperity, by way of a will or a real estate valuation. But for now it was peanut butter sandwiches and kool-aid and cans of beer and spaghetti in that little house with the four kids. It was the same menu at little Gordon's house, but his parents chewed without pleasure. Little Simon rooted around in the piles of stones. Gordon wandered out to the track of green between the stones and the woods and looked out into the woods, away from the tank. He could only look at the water tank so long. It defied thinking. Gordon couldn't imagine how it came to be and inhabit his woods. It was so big it wasn't true. Once, they'd tried to run around it and became winded and so never tried it again. Gordon's stomach growled as one cloud after another passed overhead in the blue meaningful sky. He had found a break in the trees through which to look up. He wasn't hungry. It's just that his mother had given him a sweet cereal with milk over it and then a glass of chocolate milk besides. It was staying down but not without a fight. Simon shouted, just as Gordon spied a jay flitting on the limbs of a tree. The jay flew as soon as Simon called. Gordon turned to look, out of habit. Simon held a penny over his head. A penny was a piece of gum; everybody knew that. Simon was always lucky. Gordon walked into the woods, but not too far, not without Simon. He found the right bush and took off a leaf and chewed it and tasted the mint. "Watch out for Indians!" Simon called after him. Reflexively, Gordon looked around his feet for arrowheads. To Gordon, Indians represented nothing but triangular flints. So far he'd never found one. His father had some in a box, but he had none of his own. The boys felt the earth turn. The light shifted in its journey through the tree tops to the ground, and the boys felt it and knew what it was. They wandered, not arm-in-arm but close by each other, discovering nests, spider webs, natural forts and overhangs. They pulled on exposed roots and chased squirrels. They heard the squeal of tires far off, and then the banging of a screen door pulled back hydraulically. Simon wandered back to the water tower. Gordon followed at his leisure. "Throw a rock at my head!" Simon yelled when he got there, leaning back against the tower. He felt as though it might fall over on him. It felt cool and like powdery dried paint on his neck. He turned his little head and looked up at the top of it. "Ooh," he said. Gordon ignored him. Gordon was looking for his own penny, his own piece of gum. "See if you can hit me, Gordie!" "No." "Come on!" "Mum said not to throw rocks." "What about the water tower?" "Not even the tower." "But you just did! Come on." "No. You'll get hurt and my mum will spank me." "No! Come on! Throw a rock at my head and then I'll do it to you!" "No." "Just me, then. Gordie, stand where you are and throw one." "What if it hits you?" "You throw like a girl." Gordie picked up a stone by his feet and chunked it at Simon. It sailed, foot after foot, end over end, until it fetched up and made a bloody diamond on Simon's forehead. Simon reached up and covered his head with his hands and tore home through the woods, screaming. The sound was loud at first, then moved on, the way ambulance or fire truck sirens will do. Gordie stood where he was, arms at his side, and wondered how it would come this time. It is some time later, now. A season or two it seems, and in the intervening time Gordie has been subject to many a lecture about the throwing of objects: in the house, at the baby, at people, at glass, at mirrors. He seems to recall at least as many heated soliloquies about spitting, which is the more rewarding of the two by far, and a pursuit where Gordie may have rightly claimed his place among the savants. Lately, he has been hanging spit over the baby on the floor or in the playpen and, then, just when it is about to let go and splash his little eager face, sucking it back up again. There is quite a lot of discipline required that his parents don't seem to appreciate, but also quite a lot of failure, too. When it goes right and there’s no harm done, his parents still go crazy, which is beyond Gordon’s understanding of fairness. Simon's brother Mike has been doing it to Gordon and Simon for years. Mike calls them Elevators. The family is now on vacation for a weekend on Cape Cod and has survived a dreadful drive. Someone crossed the center line from the other direction and Dad in his existential agitation yelled 'Donkey!' It woke everyone up and they thought how this - all this! - could have been taken away just like that. But they finally found the place without further incidence. Dad has the trunk open in front of the cottage and he's trundling bags into the house like a determined ant. The beach is more than ten miles away, which is further away than their home by the water tank. The baby sits strapped into his avocado chair and drools. Gordie kicks his restlessness into the gravel street, his Buster Browns having put in a whole school year. A few more months, and he will go back to the store for more feet pinching and another pair of Buster Browns. Buster had a dog, but none of the kids could remember his name. Julie, a little girl who lived three doors down and had a dog of her own insisted comically that Buster's dog's name was "Potato". The man under the shower blubs happily at the memory. Dad came out and hoisted more on his head and staggered into the cottage, regular as a second hand on a watch. Gordie looked the house over from the outside. The screens looked a lot dirtier than the ones at home. He'd already been inside and felt at the foot of his bed for sand. There wasn't any. He was disappointed. There was a crushed can in the road, flat from the top down as though driven by a mallet, the style of which is used at carnivals for driving a steel puck up through slanderous descriptions. Gordie went into the road and picked it up. From inside the cottage his mother's voice shrieked, "Did you look both ways?!" Gordie turned to the house in surprise and saw his mother's face in the window behind a screen so dark her face looked, he reminisced later in the bathtub, like it had been wrapped in a winding shroud. Then she mysteriously backed away from the screen and became a shadow. Cabinet doors slammed shut inside the cottage, and bureau drawers that stank of mothballs squealed open. It was a deathly quiet residential road paved with gravel. Gordie returned to watch his father untie more bags from the top of the car. The car had wings and Gordie's dad could make it fly when he was sure Gordie's eyes were closed. The car jolted to the ground when his eyes opened. He held the crushed can in both hands. It was still warm from the sun and dusty. "Put that down!" his father barked, turning away from loosening a knot. "People spit in those." Gordie dropped it where he stood. His dad walked over dangerously. Gordie put his hands behind his back shyly. The hands were the first to get slapped. Instead Gordie's dad kicked the can back into the street. "We'll get Chinese food if you behave." "Ucch." "Ice cream, then." Gordie straightened up exaggeratedly. He looked the lawn over. He perused the quiet neighboring houses. Everyone seemed to be at the beach. There were no signs of life: no pets, no children, no cars, no sounds. Across the street a stockade fence hid a house. A little head peeped over it. "Hi!" "Hi," Gordie returned shyly. Gordie's dad turned to look and didn't answer. He brought some more things in the house. "My name's Tony,” the boy shouted. “What's yours?" "Gordie." "How old are you?" Gordie can't think what his age must have been, exactly, so he doesn't remember what his answer was or what Tony's age was. Tony said that he was restricted to his yard for doing something bad. If it was okay with his mother, could Gordie come over and play? Gordie called into the window. It was not okay with his mother. And Gordie's mother forbad him to leave the little lawn and driveway of their own cottage. The conversation between the two boys, having exhausted their poor beginners’ memories of conventional chit-chat, degenerated thusly: "Throw a rock at my head and see if you can hit it." This was Tony. Little Gordie looked at his hand and couldn't think where he'd heard that said before. Repetition was nothing new to him though. His mother and father used the same fifteen sentences with him every day. Only when Gordie shifted up into his "Why?" gear were their answers unpredictable, nervous, dumb. But try leaving a demolished plateful of food on the table, try peeing without washing hands, try stepping off the curb without permission, try asking for a toy in a store, try pitching a fit, and his parents reacted with the easy grace of automatons. "Come on, throw a rock at my head!" "I'm not supposed to throw anything. Mum said." "What?" Little Tony missed what Gordie said when the car went past, followed by a hurricane of solid grey dust. The pebbles ground against the rubber tires and made a delightful growl. Gordie repeated himself louder and finished embarrassed. His father came out from the last load and listened. "See if you can hit me!" "No!" "Come on! Don't be a baby!" "I'm not a baby!" "Just throw a rock at my head." Tony's talons could be heard scrabbling on the other side of the fence for purchase. All Gordie could see was a shock of black hair and three quarters of a face. "It's too far!" But Gordie's father took pity on him. Since the boys couldn't play together, and there was only the weekend in the cottage they'd be losing this day. Gordie's dad, Ernie, suspected Gordie's mom, Clarisse, of turning Gordie into a sissy. Ernie wanted a future with Gordie wearing a letter jacket with a cheerleader on his arm, his class ring on a chain around her neck. He was not going to get it with the current regime. "Go ahead, Gordie. One rock. It's really a long way," Ernie said. "I don't want to. I'm not supposed to throw rocks." "Oh, just one. You'll never hit him." Gordie sighed wearily and shrugged his tiny shoulders like a miniature Frenchman. He dipped and came up with a good-sized rock. "Come on, hurry!" Tony. "Yeah, just one," said Ernie. Gordie pulled his arm back and let loose. The rock took off like a jet across the street and seemed to train itself on Tony's face. It hit and Tony fell off his perch unseen and landed with a seismic thud that seemed to come under the street. "Oh, no!" Ernie said, aghast. He looked down in horror at Gordie who, in turn, recoiled, expecting punishment. On the other side of the street Tony in his yard let out a demonic wail that everyone would rather forget and made a beeline for his house, the door slamming cheaply and ominously behind him. Gordie and Ernie spent one second wondering what was going to happen. Then Ernie picked Gordie up and ran into their own cottage and bolted the door. He peeked out the window and looked down at Gordie who appeared to be slackening with shock. "Chinese food!" Ernie announced, looking as though he might fall onto his knees. "Pick up the baby, honey. If we go now there’ll be no lines!" He picked up Gordie and raced for the car. There was no sign of life from Tony's fence. It was as ominous as a fortress. Clarisse came slowly out with the baby. Before she could close her door Ernie had screeched back out into the street. Gordie looked out the back window until the cloud chased them down the street. He didn't want to ever go back there again. He wanted to fly away in the car. Deliberately, he closed his eyes and they flew away. When they were in the sky, no one could catch them. Gordon's head hangs in the shower, now, water coursing over his head and down his shoulders. His eyes are closed. This, of course, was only one small piece of the puzzle. Uncle Dynamite [email protected] All rights of authorship are reserved and claimed.

[uncledynamite]

Sam Cooke would have been delighted to have left this among the songs he's remembered for. Hits all the reward centers of the brain.

[uncledynamite]

There's still time to get books for friends, family or even yourself for after the holidays. These delightful & talented people I follow on Twitter have books available for sale online as books, e-books or recorded books. Memoirs, young adult fiction, sports, novels, travel, reportage, humor, biographies, poetry - you name it. Solve all your shopping dilemmas in one session, no traffic, no parking. Yes, I have most of their books and yes, they are WELL WORTH IT. Plug their names into the search box of your favorite book site and click away. In no particular order: Rob Delaney Kelly Oxford Patricia Lockwood Caissie St. Onge Matt Debenham Rosanne Cash Susan Orlean Tim Siedell Patton Oswalt Jim Gaffigan Michelle Gagnon Seth Grahame-Smith Edward Carey Marina Endicott Heather Armstrong Marty Beckerman Elizabeth Gilbert Dave Hill J. Robert Lennon A. J. Jacobs Augusten Burroughs Gerrard G. Gerrard Aaron Belz Margaret Cho Henry Alford Liz Smith Dan Wilbur Paul Myers Sixth Form Poet Dara Grumdahl Wayne Gladstone Gesine Bullock Prado Gillian Telling Conor Lastowka Peter Serafinowicz Elizabeth McCracken Paul Provenza Amy Dickenson Dave Ihlenfeld Daniel Kibblesmith Frank Lesser Merrill Markoe Umberto Eco Nick Gillespie Matt Welch Kennedy Michael Kupperman Cintra Wilson Ann Leary Matt Zoller Seitz Julia Segal Leslie McCollom Tony Horwitz Rick Reilly Jason Roeder Sarah Thyre Ted Travelstead Rain Pryor Suzy Soro Nathan Rabin Al Yankovic Sara Benincasa Fred Stoller Jeff MacGregor Johnny McNulty Jill Morris Rachel Dratch D.C. Pierson Colson Whitehead Andrea Seigel Mandy Stadtmiller Scott Bateman Sean Tejaratchi Linda Leaming Jael McHenry Chris Regan Edwin Heaven Alice Bradley Greg Crites Matt Suddain Jennie Ketcham Caprice Crane Justine Kilkerr

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"The sweetest sound in all the world is the music of what happens." Finn Mac Cool

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I read this a few years ago and looked it up so now you can read it, too: "A New Light" (a true story) Joe Fitzgerald The Markovitz Family was one of just a few Jewish families in a quiet suburban neighborhood in Pennsylvania where Christmas decorations lit up the street. In their home, however, an illuminated menorah in the window reminded everyone it was also Chanukah. Around five o’clock one morning, Judy Markovitz was awakened by the shattering of glass. “My husband and I ran downstairs and saw our window had been broken and the menorah was on the floor. The frame was shattered. They must have used a bat. Whoever did it had to squeeze behind bushes to reach it.” For the Markovitz family, it was an assault compounded by personal history. “Both of my parents were in the camps at Auschwitz; my husband’s mother was there also,” explained Judy, who came to America from Ukraine in 1974. “All of my mother’s family died. There are things we don’t talk about, but I know older people like her have a need to feel safe, so I didn’t tell her much about this. And I tried to isolate my children from it too.” “We were home much of that day because my husband had to get the window replaced,” she recalled. “Neighbors kept approaching us to say how sorry they were.” One of those neighbors, Lisa Keeling, now living in North Carolina, explained their thinking. “I know that a menorah represents a miracle by our God before our faith was known as Christianity. I know of the king who told the Jews they couldn’t practice their religion. When they reclaimed Jerusalem and saw the Temple had been desecrated, they wanted to re-consecrate it, but found only a tiny bit of oil, enough for one night. They decided to use it anyway and it burned eight nights. “That was a miracle from the same God we worship, and why anyone would take a symbol of his love and use it for hatred, I don’t understand.” There were things the Markovitzes did not understand as well. After workmen repaired their shattered window, the family went to Judy’s brother’s home, unaware that their neighbors were working determinedly to repair something else. That evening, when the Markovitzes came home from their visit and turned onto their street, they were met by an extraordinary sight: Nearly every home on the block was adorned by an illuminated menorah. Vicky Markovitz, Judy’s daughter, now 18, remembers those glowing windows as an affirmation of compassion and community. “It was as if they said, “If you break their windows, you will have to break ours.” And the light spread.

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So...it's official: I've got tinnitus. It's probably no wonder, really. I began life in the pre-hearing protection era. I mowed lawns, saw the Who and Mission of Burma, and even for a short spell drove heavy equipment with never a thing pinning down my gorgeous, golden locks. I still play music loud in the car, in the shower. I will give myself this, though: I was never much of a headphones guy. None of that may have even played a part, though, before you find yourself flinching in anticipation. This summer I took a terrific blow to the head which gave me as near an approximation of whiplash as makes no difference and to top it off, had an ear infection early this fall. Either one could be the culprit and if I had to bet, would put my money on the ear infection. Don't blame Mission of Burma. Never blame Mission of Burma. The Magical Thinking part of my brain says, "You should never have told God all the things you're afraid of." For this, indeed, was a Top Twenty Dread. And God, in his continuing quest to toughen me up, to season me, if you will, before our great Reunion in the Sky, has duly been handing me these things from a silver platter one by one. I told you these things in confidence, God! Tinnitus, you will be unhappy to learn, affects an amazingly high percentage of the population. It can come on with age, infection, injury, ear damage or even gradual hearing loss. Sometimes the brain, recognizing the inability of the ear to catch a certain frequency any more, will simply mirror the lost sound from the inside. What a chap, that brain! I had laid in psychological stores before this latest, however. First, I had survived a jarring accident, one that had me vowing in the instant before impact that I'd take whatever kind of life survival would leave me with. Second, I have friends, young and old, who have tinnitus and I knew them at the outset of their tinnitus careers and have watched them bloom despite rocky starts. At first they looked haggard, worn, wan. Dark circles under the eyes. Weight loss. In a word, they looked put-upon. But then they learned to co-exist with it. I would solicitously ask how they did whenever we'd meet and their faces would switch from genial pleasure to looks of concern. "Don't say its name," they seemed to be implying. "Don't wake the sleeping dragon. Did it hear us??" Because that's what you do. You defend yourself. You repack your attic, to coin a phrase. You stack the boxes in your mind up against the noise. You don't studiously ignore it, because that's not really ignoring, but you focus on other stimuli and your brain, you come gradually to realize, has the power to "lower the volume" on sounds it deems unimportant or too-regular. It's not anywhere near as difficult as reading a book while the television's on, in the long run. I have to take a step back and make a few disclaimers before I go on, because I'm likely to offend certain other tinnitus sufferers, i.e. those who have it worse than me. The pitch of my own tinnitus is only fairly high and not very insistent in volume. Someone who reads this and has something like a steam whistle going off in his ears all the time may find this column a bit cavalier and a mite too Let's-put-on-a-show! To those people I take off my cap and bow reverently. You are the true Supermen and I am only a boy in these matters. But...I may be able to help some, so let me get back to it. Had I contracted this in another era, the impact of tinnitus would be far greater. Were it the seventeenth century, having what is essentially a tiny pitch-pipe breaking the silence all day would have been maddening in the extreme. As it is, there has never been a better time to come down with this malady (or any other, I suppose). All around us are leaf blowers, servers, refrigerators with compressors and icemakers, air conditioners, laptop fans, furnaces, fire alarms, sirens, highway noise, bathroom fans and so on. These approximate the sounds of tinnitus around us all throughout the day anyway. If you can co-exist with them, then you already have a pretty good set of coping tools in place to help you co-exist with tinnitus. These different pitches and hums and whines don't seem to bother us unless we're the types who damn and blast this modern age and the resulting loss of the sounds of nature-only. I have been that man in the past. I will not be him in the future, because this fine, modern age has taken up what looks like permanent residence in my head. Some people who first get tinnitus walk around their houses in the night with flashlights to try to determine the origin of the sound. They'll put their ears against everything with a motor, plugged in or not. Eventually it dawns on them. Because nighttime is the quietest time, we notice it more then, especially at first. I woke with mine the very first time, too. "What woke me?" I wondered, for I'm lucky to be a heavy sleeper. I could detect no movement around me, nothing outside the window. I pushed out my chin and the pitch changed. "Oh," I thought. "Another gift from the silver tray." In the day, one hardly notices it. There's too much going on, too much activity, too much talking and driving and background music, ringing phones and elevator bells. The loss of sleep is what you have to fight against. Insomniacs are probably the unhappiest of all the -iacs, so try to remember what I tell you next. I knew from my friends that your brain will minimize the attention it pays to the sound over time. I don't know exactly how it does this, but it eventually leaves it to simmer and puts it at Priority Item #10,876 on the list of things it wants to think about. At my level of whine and volume, this is do-able. I refer you again to the rather neat metaphor of the attic packed against the problem. The brain can pile endless layers of silt and gravel and sand and whatnot (again: metaphors) over against it so as to almost totally bury it. Remember when I'd ask after my friends' tinnitus and they'd practically wince? That's because whenever you THINK about it, the layers peel away to reveal the One True Sound. "Yep," you say to yourself. "Still there." YOU HAVE TO GO LOOKING FOR IT. That's a great thing. I do this sometimes in the night, in the hopes that with the healing of the ear infection, the tinnitus will eventually depart, too. I can hear the fridge and icemaker downstairs, the furnace beavering away in the basement, the sounds of the wind in the trees outside and the odd car passing one street over. Then I can isolate it. I give it about three seconds of attention. Then I bury it again. It never fails. Think about it and the rest of the onion lifts off to show the still constant noise at the center (again with the metaphors). Forget about it, or let the mind re-pack and re-prioritize it, and it's almost as if it isn't there. Some of you will have this visited upon you. Many of you, actually, if the numbers are to be believed. I want you all to do well. I hope this little chat will help you to do just that.

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I SING OF BUTTHURT AND THE NEWBIE. Jason Phillips (@gorillasushi) once wrote that "internet jealousy is measured in precise units, called butthertz". What I write now is for the benefit of the relative newcomers to Twitter so they don't go off half-cocked and write essays that have people scratching their heads in embarrassment, pity and confusion. That's my job. Yesterday someone published an essay about Weird Twitter which, if not the actual definition of butthurt, could still be framed in gilt & prominently hung in the Museum of Modern Butthurt. No, I'm not going to link to it. I think the author has suffered enough. (In the booty-butt area or what my governess used to call 'The Bad Place.') That's not to make light of it. Hurt feelings, or butts, are very real. We acknowledge the pain and the sadness that accompanies it. We give it credence. Also, we want to go back to being "I" so badly I/we can almost taste it. I didn't see any of the interactions the author had with others, some of whom he had the bad judgement to name. They may have been brusque, or they may not. I don't know. But I do know how some of this could come about in the normal course of business and would like to address that here, hopefully losing most of my funny doing so. Someone who comes on here and writes jokes nonstop is, like me, a showboat or "pony" if you will. We live in applause junkie barns and eat lumps of clap-sugar, one possible side effect of which is syphilis.. There are some who are not interested in anything but the applause and have no interest in applauding others. They are at one end of the spectrum of interaction to be found on Twitter. They follow few, they don't respond, they don't favorite tweets and claim to be above it all. Jeremiah Johnson would fit into this category. He would write his tweets on the side of his horse with a stick dipped in eagle blood, then rub them out after allowing himself a private, bearded squint-grimace. The other end is the person who replies to everything, favorites a ton and is bubbly and gregarious. Most of us are somewhere in between, and most of us, or "the ponies" if you prefer, have a hard time fathoming people even one rung of the ladder above or below us, so myopic are we. The truth is that almost nobody does Twitter the way you do it. I can only speak for my own case, and do so lovingly, gladly and tiresomely. If you look at my stats, you can see that I've put in the time, year after year. I have also gotten the attention of several people, some of whom still follow me despite the noticeable decline into toilet humor. I am now at a place, after years of echoing silence from a non-audience, where it's the rare joke I write that doesn't attract an @ reply of some kind. I think it's great. I think it's better than yelling my jokes down a well, which was the feeling I had before, and I'm to a great extent humbled that anything I do would engender a response better than torches and rage-filled townspeople in Canadian tuxedos. If I was doing this on the street, I'd be compelled by the conventions of politeness to respond to each comment. Here the culture is different and the demarcation line moves around according to time of day, diffidence, offline life or business demands and/or the shifting emotional needs of the individual joke-teller. I wasn't the first one here, so I had to watch and infer how to proceed. And the culture was that you didn't have to reply to anyone if you didn't want to. You could pick and choose depending upon if you were intrigued by a particular @ reply, or you had already been introduced to the person, or you were bored and/or energetic and feeling expansive. Sometimes people stand on their heads to get your attention and you're either sympathetic to them or put off. In either case, you are allowed to keep to yourself. The person standing on his head may feel butthurt, and that's unfortunate, but ultimately those feelings are his to own and work through, and are not the responsibility of the addressee. Trying to make them so is what yesterday's post seemed intended at bottom to do. Did you see what I did there? Yesterday's blog post came off as a relative newbie who wasn't cracking the chat of more established guys who know each other. That may not be entirely accurate, but it wouldn't surprise me if it was. Hey, we all want to fit in, and we want to do it from the start, but Twitter doesn't work that way. You have to put in the time, you have to have skills, you have to be consistent and it helps to show a human side sometimes. Even then it's no guarantee. That's frustrating for a newcomer or for anyone in this attention-deficit culture, really, but that's how it is. So that's the way here. I didn't make the rules. Do I like the culture? Overall, I believe I do. If I tweet a joke and then have to run out the door for meetings or appointments, I like knowing that I'm not breaking the rules of social interaction by not responding. When I send someone an @ reply it's nice to get a response but I recognize that it's not owed me and may never come. I don't grab my fanny and fall out of my chair. If I was required to respond in words to every reply, I'd probably leave. If I'm pleased by someone's reply, I'll typically, if I have the time, favorite it. It's a way of saying "I see you" or "Thank you" or "Nice one." My betters did it before me on Twitter and it's good enough for me. Again: not owed, but sometimes given. What drives Twitter for me, besides the scintillating talent, is the niceness. Plenty of people have reached out to me, done me favors, showed me kindness and respect and, whenever possible, I've tried to return it and do it for others. The brilliant people who flame out here sometimes missed the wonderfully human part of Twitter. So do your own thing, marvelous young people. The friendships will come to you in time. There's no need for butthurt.

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I’ve been thinking about closed groups and hazing, because of the news about the Miami Dolphins and a lineman terrorizing a second-year lineman. The Miami Dolphins, while a select group, and closed off from the rest of us, are not a fraternity. It’s a collection of players of a game, people making a paycheck. What happened in Miami wasn’t hazing. It was terrorizing.

I have a friend who’s a big city firefighter. He told me similar tales of what he’d had to undergo as a probationary firefighter, when you can still be let go for any reason, i.e. when you can’t fight back. The vile things said to him, the less-than-human status he was assigned, the humiliations and degrading tasks. Never being allowed to sleep. Pails of water heaved onto him as he catnapped. Being made to work while others slept, to do all the cleanup after meals and to have his wife’s looks critiqued, his honor questioned, and the worst names in the world snarled in his ear. He was disgusted and thoroughly disillusioned. Again, not a fraternity. But a place that now had entrenched bad behavior that would not let it go because THEY’D had to undergo it and they’d be damned if the people coming after didn’t have to undergo it too. Hazing is a virus.

A fraternity isn’t a paycheck, though. It’s extraneous. You can decide to pledge or not, It’s no skin off anyone’s nose if you don’t.

I think I know why people join fraternities. You see the composite portraits going back a hundred years of serious-faced young men staring back at you in suits. The mounted deer with the necktie and mortarboard lends a certain gravity to a paneled room. The brothers trot out the names of famous alumni: astronauts, presidents, Supreme court justices, governors, entrepreneurs, war heroes. If I join this group, you think to yourself, I have only to show my fraternity ring to the right guy at NASA and I’m on the next shuttle, or I’ll get to clerk for a justice while the rest of my cronies play Grand Theft Auto. It never really does play out that way. Years from now one of your fraternity brothers will own a trash-hauling company and you - now chief procurement officer at XYZ Corp. will give him the nod over cheaper, hungrier less-well connected and better companies, screwing your company and yourself in the bargain. That’s as glamorous as it gets. Oh, and the awkward life-insurance sales pitch lunches. I must admit those are amazing.

You wouldn’t think it to look at me, but I was once a member of an august fraternity. Many of my friends, when reaching man’s estate, were given bids by a chapter of a national fraternity during our freshman year, as was I, but they accepted and I didn’t.

I had the idea that college was an unknown quantity and was determined not to flunk out. I still had to work a certain number of hours per week to make ends meet and I had no idea how much time I could give away. I told the nice fraternity boys this, and they praised me and accepted my explanation without rancor. But there was about me now a bit of “the one that got away” at a time of shrinking fraternity memberships.

Once my friends got in, I was always invited to fraternity functions and it might be said that I enjoyed all the benefits of membership without any dues or pledging. I got a bid every semester and every semester I asked myself why I’d ever want to pay for the cow. By junior year I relented. The sales talk had become more refined. We look on you as a brother. Don’t you want to be our brother? You’re not a freeloader, we know that. Etc., etc.

Here, I told myself, were ideal conditions. I was a social peer with all the brothers, was practically a pet of the fraternity, and I was older and less in awe of things. I could handle this. Privately, people told me they’d grease the skids for me and it’d be a doddle. I signed my bid and passed it in. The One That Got Away had been landed.

You will not be surprised to learn that it was not a doddle. Certain brothers, some younger than me, took a perverse delight in provoking discomfort or hardship in someone they never could have got the upper hand with otherwise. The worst ones were those who had themselves been picked on during their pledging. Outside the fraternity they were all fun & friendship, but within they took on a Captain Bly sort of ruthlessness. Their aspects changed. I lost friends, meaning that I tossed friendships over the side because who does these things to a friend?

I won’t go into detail about what kind of hazing took place, firstly because this isn’t a sob story, secondly because I knew, to a degree, what I was getting into beforehand, and thirdly, because things had been much worse in the past. But yes, we were made to drink to excess, we were kidnapped and dropped off in the middle of nowhere in the middle of the night with empty pockets in the time before cell phones, and we were sent out on outrageous, unlawful or degrading errands, all with the rallying cry of “weeding out the weak” and “brotherly bonding.” What absolute bilge!

My own response in the inferno was to overdo things. When we were sent out to steal signs in the middle of the night, we stole the college’s sign and dropped it in the middle of the fraternity house to looks of terror and astonishment. Had the police instituted inquiries, the fraternity could easily have been shut down. If I am at risk, I wanted them to know, so are you.

Not all of pledging was like that. For the most part, a pledge is buried in detail and minutiae. His appearance had to be just so. He had to carry about ten things on him at all times. He had to be able to break a dollar morning, noon and night. If a brother asked him to break a dollar, another brother stood behind him to make the same request and then issued demerits to the hapless pledge who only started the day with four quarters. Every week you had to have a tete a tete with every brother and ask him to sign your pledge book. He would, if he were so disposed, ask you to do something bigger for him. It was like standing in a cloud of mosquitoes all semester long.

There were only a few times that I felt things had collectively crossed the line - the human dignity line - and when people wring their hands about NFL hazing or other groups doing it, and ask aloud “Where is the line?” - like there’s no way to tell these things - I will tell you: when you affect the dignity of another person and hold him up to ridicule or scorn or expose him to danger. Reasons for doing so are invalid, whatever they are, if all he wanted in the first place was to be was part of a group.

I will say this: probably half the brotherhood regretted every aspect of overseeing pledging except the ritual fun nights that were pure socializing. But they kept their mouths shut and only offered private sympathy.

Early in the pledging process, the fraternity assigned every pledge a “big brother.” Mine had been a high school chum of mine. He was a benign force during pledging, usually absent because of his newfound interest in evangelical Christianity. He was always off meeting with likeminded people and rarely came to parties or fraternity rituals. He did attend initiation night, however, the one with the paddling. I looked on aghast as the pledge whacked the big brother (with the handmade and decorated paddle) and then the big brother returned the favor. Some of these whacks looked like they might destroy the pants. My big brother drew me aside. “I’m not into this crap,” he said, quietly. “But most of the brothers are. I’ll make you a deal. If you give me a light one - you have to do a big windup to fool the brothers - I’ll do the same for you.” Then this man of God, whom I’d known man and boy, this Child of Peace, I say, held out his hand. I shook it eagerly. When it was our turn, I took a few practice swings, eliciting oohs and ahhs from the brothers. The sound of the air bending around the paddle as I windmilled it was impressive. I backed up a few steps as my big brother held his ankles and took a flying run, pulling back with my wrist at the end and landing an ineffectual tap on his fanny. He lurched forward, complicit in the shadow play. As you may be able to guess from this buildup, when I handed him the paddle he knocked me into next week. When I asked him about it after, he shrugged, grinned, and said his big brother had tricked him in the same manner.

Sometimes, when I look back, I’m ashamed of myself for not having quit the pledge process. Other times I clap myself on the back for trudging through and getting to the other side. When I did get in I provoked the ire of the hidebound elements in the brotherhood by not making the pledges do a damned thing in my name. If they were supposed to get my signature, I gave them permission to sign on my behalf. When the weekly horsetrading took place, I’d suggest we meet for coffee at the pledge’s leisure and when there gave advice, asked after his people, told him something of myself, then shook hands warmly at cup’s end.

You can never be someone’s brother if you treat him with contempt. Later, when he gets in, you might forgive him his earlier second-class status, but he’ll never quite forgive you for making him endure it.

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Yesterday was the anniversary of P. G. Wodehouse's birthday. I've tried, privately, to tell people what this man's writing means to me, and the miracle is that some of them have gotten past the excited gibbering to actually give him a try. They are always well-rewarded. It never ceases to amaze me that Wodehouse isn't taught in schools. He never was and probably never will be. He's subversive, you see. I would definitely send a son to a school where the headmaster announced in advance that only Wodehouse will be taught in English classes. I wanted to be a serious writer when I was a young man. I wanted to sit in cafes with a marble notebook and a wooden pencil and a pen knife and an itchy woolen turtleneck and a martyr's haircut and grind out carbon-hard stories about human sadness and the ravages of fate and all that nonsense. "Frightful bilge," is what one of Wodehouse's characters would have called it and he would have been right. These fiction johnnies in my pantheon didn't laugh very much when they pushed their typewriters aside for the day and bit the top off a whiskey bottle. So I read and I read and I read and I "honed my craft" and "worked my metier" and I "whittled my pencil" as the saying goes and a fat lot of good it did me. I did come to see words through a prism when in this trance-like state and could categorize them like grades of diamonds and if I was hard pressed could write like that again. But I don't want to. Because one hard summer, hard weather-wise, hard life-wise, hard everything-else-wise, I picked up one of Wodehouse's "Jeeves" books and nothing has been the same since. During that summer - the kind of season I've seen buckle stronger men than myself - I skipped the weeks away laughing, reading almost all the "Jeeves" books in one go. I faced the days with a light heart. People medicate themselves all the time. They take prescription drugs, they take non-prescription drugs, they drink, they get high. They over-do. The mood must be altered. I agree. In reading these "Jeeves" books and, later, the "Blandings Castle" books, I placed my mood squarely in the care of Wodehouse, turned it over to him entirely, and his dosage was perfect. For in these books are savage aunts, prescient valets, lady novelists, inappropriate marriage material in the form of barmaids and chorus girls and women who want to "mold" men, country houses, milk trains, telegrams, rugby-playing vicars, cement-headed police constables, aggressive dogs, swans, fat pig competitions, silver collectors, French chefs, idle friends, and plots that read like double helixes and finish as neatly as stage musicals (something Wodehouse also wrote for). The calendar is fixed in time, somewhere around 1907, and that means the mores, slang and codes of conduct are fixed too. It's pre-World War I, A Time Before Sadness, when there were still feudal relationships between people and their servants, where golf was played, cars were a new development, and high tea was served on the lawn and cocktails were served in the drawing room before formal dinner. A forest primeval compared to the England we know today. Okay, I hear you saying. So what? It's got nothing to do with me. Well...as a lifelong student of comedy I can tell you the jokes haven't aged a bit, regardless of the by-gone setting. The mix-ups are hilarious. The characters are bumptious, quick to heap abuse, and to become mistakenly affianced to the worst possible candidates. Schemes are constantly made to put hearts back together, to break them up, to steal priceless objects. None of them go as planned. Throughout are light-handed references to classical literature. In every one of these books there's someone who operates outside the scheme of things, a ringer, either morally, as in Uncle Fred (aka Uncle Dynamite) or Galahad (Gally) Threepwood, or because of a superior intelligence, a la Jeeves, Bertie Wooster's valet. They push the plot along. They fix things and they break them. They make the books go. I altered my mood that summer. Did I ever. I came through what might have been seen as an ordeal-filled time with a bright smile and laughter was heard in the house all the hot summer long. I had no need of a rope to be thrown over the rafters, nor a pill, nor a pipe nor a bottle. I was in a haze of continual delight, of thrilling to the language. I rely on these books, year in and year out, to ward off what pre-psychiatrists called "the black dog." They really do work. I've since decided that I'd like to write like that. And in the years after, I've abandoned the gravel-chewing writing of yore and really thrown myself into what I now feel is certainly its equal. P. G. Wodehouse didn't win any Nobel Prizes, but in my opinion he should have won them all, for in making the world happier and more endurable, he was a true master.