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I think I'll take a nap instead

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Hope you'll not mind those on ur face ;)

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Hadn’t taken pics with the new one yet :)

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a squirt a day keeps the depression away or whatever the saying is.

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do you have any recommendations on how to stretch your hole? I feel like thats the biggest thing stopping me from meeting up with people...

first off, I totally understand how that stops you from exploring. the thought of not being able to take it can be daunting. it kept me from having anal sex for years after I had started having other kinds of sex

I don't stretch regularly or anything. and when I'm going out I personally prefer being warmed up rather than stretched necessarily. so, I usually do a few things:

first, I douche. I eat lots of fiber, try to stay hydrated, and I use a bidet, so this isn't strictly necessary most of the time but I can play better when I have zero worry that things might get a little messy. I keep it simple and just do a few rounds with a small bulb until it's all clear. this step does the initial job of waking up my asshole

next, I finger myself. I'm already lubed up with the vaseline from the douching. so I just lay back on the floor & put my legs up & get some fingers in there—usually 3. I make sure to get deep and also to get some speed to get things properly warm

and finally, I have a medium size "thumb" buttplug that I pop in (see pic below). I try to do this 30-60 minutes before I'm headed out, so I'll keep it in until I'm ready to leave. I just started this step recently and it's made a huge difference

I personally enjoy the pain at the beginning. I want to have the experience of trying to pull away a little and having them insist. and I want to be able to do all of that naturally, regardless of the size of the dick, so yeah that's all I do

I wish you many successful & enjoyable bottoming experiences!

also a friendly reminder to breathe. breathing is actually the most important part. you'd be surprised what kinds of feelings you can get through—and even get into—by focusing on some good deep & steady breaths