He aggressively told me he has been so busy and do I really think he’s out here having fun, going to bars, talking to girls…HE LITERALLY WENT ON A TRIP!!! And if I tell him I know, he will just call me crazy for finding that out and that he doesn’t need to report to me because I’m not his gf. If your only reason for breaking up for someone is due to being busy with work in another state…your feelings stop just like that for someone? How am I to believe that?
He told me he was disgusted in me, no longer loves me, or have the desire to be with me because I spam called him. I’m wrong but my behavior was a reaction.
Why do men lie so much? Even the things I did confront him about, he had excuses and said I’m nitpicking. He flipped it back on me being crazy and not believing him. I followed his IG on a friends spam account and he accepted and liked one of their photos. I called him within 10 mins of that and he yelled at me that he was finally able to fall asleep and I woke him up. Lol
No matter how much I try, I wasn’t the one for him. No matter how much cherished memories we made together, how in love together, it doesn’t matter to him. When a man is lacking this much, they don’t care. They only care when your behavior starts impacting them. I’m so vulnerably in love still and he saw that as creepy. He sees me as a psychopath because no matter how much he upsets me, seeing his face makes me smile.
But knowing all the truth, and someone still sit there in your face like you’re the stupid/crazy/delusional one and saying they no longer love you…is wild. I asked him to tell me he loves me.
Him acting like I was creepy because I’m still passionately in love with him when he lost feelings for me the second he left AND someone telling me that was all my fault for him falling out of love with me.. I am done.
