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i think one of the most interesting things about the allure of intentionally gaining weight is how it means such different things to different people

like there are people for whom the fantasy of gaining is about relinquishing control - whether it means handing control to a trusted encourager, or simply accepting that their body and appetite are not things they want to be “under control”

and then there are people for whom the fantasy is all about taking control. taking control of our own bodies and reaching for what we want for ourselves rather than what we’ve been conditioned to view as attractive. taking back control from a fatphobic society, taking back control from mental or physical illnesses that have imposed limits on our bodies or our relationships with them, reshaping ourselves in our own image (can you tell which of these paragraphs is personal to me, lol)

anyways, gainers feel free to reblog this post and share what gaining means to you! (d/eath f/eedism not welcome here)

mortarandsquishle

Both of these are really appealing to me. I've never been comfortable in my body and I've always wished I could change it, grow into the image I want for myself. I'd feel afraid to admit that to anyone because I don't want it to be misconstrued as fetishising (yes, I'm very into these kinks, that's obvious on my blog) but like, it shouldn't be?? It's my body. If I prefer to be larger that's my right, and there's nothing wrong with that. But who is going to listen to that ideology in our fatphobic society? There's also the problem that it's difficult to gain weight consistently because my body keeps trying to stay slim despite what I want, and worse, being born in the wrong body comes with a ton of complications, envy, negative feelings and stigma that I often wish I could be without.

And then on top of that I take comfort in surrendering control, because it's exciting to just give in and not worry about anything. And having someone else take control makes me feel cared for, safe, and very sexy. And I could really use more of that kind of confidence, body positivity, and love bc tbh I've never really had those things.

#Personal feelings #Feedism #Great post btw I liked the prompt!

es-draws

Safe

cybernaiad

“i know, sweetheart, you ate so much. this pretty belly is so full, isn’t it?” your feeder says, their hands gently rubbing and prodding your swollen gut. your legs are spread to make room for your hanging lower belly as your feeder softly pats the tight, swollen dome of your upper belly. you nod between gulps of heavy breath and low, rumbling burps. it feels like there’s not enough space left in your body for all the air you need— it’s all been taken up by the ache in your stomach.

a low, loud burp leaves your lips, and your feeder smacks your gut lightly. “good girl, there you go.” you whine at them between heavy breaths, the heat between your legs just as strong as the ache in your belly. your feeder coos at you softly, back to rubbing the swell of your taut upper belly.

they place a kiss to a stray stretch mark. “poor thing, all worked up just from eating for me. you just lay back, baby. i’ll take care of you.”

peachy-ffa

Getting fat can be on accident, not on purpose at all, just life getting in the way or maybe being a bit too lenient with what you eat, nothing too special or spectacular. Even in the feedism space, gaining all on your own can be rewarding, sculpting your body with food and pleasure is gratifying and sometimes the speed in which you gain can be accidental.

But nothing can compare to being fattened up, to have an audience that desires to see you blow up as much as you desire it, or better yet, to have a sweet feeder that dotes on you and your growing body.

Someone to grab at your extra softness and admire the amazing work you've done at fattening yourself up, only to tell you how much they want to fatten you up some more, to leave new stretchmarks on you and make you carry new pounds on your already plush frame.

The sweetest of pleasures, having a feeder to push you and having a feedee that desires the exact same and even more. Wouldn't you like to have that? For me to mark you with my desire, to see you fatten up by my own hand, for you to grow plumper under my gentle care and loving praise, to shape you as my feeder heart desires, shower you in affection every time you get to milestone and celebrate it with a massive feast.

Isn't that the dream? 💖

#need #omg please

xxxsharpcheddar

I feel like the act of being fed by someone is so vulnerable. You know those calories are going to change your body. You’re allowing yourself to be fattened by someone. You’re trusting them. You’ve willingly put yourself in such a vulnerable position. Maybe it’s not that deep but it feels like such a deep connection to me idk

brokencassettetape

Actually it just might be that deep and you SHOULD say it ……

loverles

rb if you’re a dyke who loves tummy ‼️

alleycatboy

you're in her dm's

she made me into a sim so she could torture me

alleycatboy

aww she let me swim in the pool

alleycatboy

umm babygirl.. where did the ladder go?

biggestsoftestpuppy

fat rolls are sooo pretty 💓I love the way fat squishes into itself, creating soft little mountains of fat, I love how big tummies compress into rolls when sitting down, or how back fat folds over the fat of your lower back and love handles, and the way that when you move around the world and contort your body it creates little flabby rolls on your side, it's especially beautiful that if you get fat enough they're always there, as a reminder that there is so much plump flesh on your body that it squishes into itself to make room for everything, creating so many beautiful rolls of fat that are crafted perfectly for loving hands to squish and sink into 💓💓