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Introduction

No DNI I don't care

We're a created system. Our system account is @prairiemountain

We are 23 bodily. This isn't an NSFW page but there will be adult stuff at times

If you want something trigger tagged ASK ME I don't bite I swear

INFP sx/so 5w6 513 (MBTI + Enneagram)

ADHD and Autism

Transsexual polyamorous queer. I have two partner systems I live with. HRT 02/2023 💉, Hysterectomy 10/2025 🏥

Housecat therian who just wants to nap in a sunbeam

system-error-404-who-are-you

she sonic on my the till I hedgehog

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victusinveritas

ctrl-shift-alt-9

I have the black box data. All of it.

After sifting through hundreds of photos... I have realized that every time Simon takes a photo in the SM-13, he's pulling up a frame to a stop motion animation.

And it can be played back as video.

So, I took each black box photo and compiled them together. You can now watch Simon's entire journey from the SM-13's camera like found footage.

You can also gain access to Simon's amazing photography portfolio from my master reference project, as well as the video for yourself.

Please, have a watch. It's terrifying. I feel like a C.O.I. lab tech delving into something I really shouldn't, and it's a blast!

misselaney

Natural Black Hair Tutorial! Usually Black hair is excluded in the hair tutorials which I have seen so I have gone through it in depth because it’s really not enough to tell someone simply, “Black hair is really curly, draw it really curly.”

The next part of Black Hair In Depth will feature styles and ideas for designing characters and I will release it around February. If you would like to see certain styles, please shoot me a message!

smallrevolutionary

YES! BOOSTINGGGG FOR MY FOLKS WHO WANNA/NEED TO KNOW HOW

coldestcaress

Fuckin Phantom of the Dive Bar here

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ornerycrab

Go Mewtwo! Psychic Womb Attack Now!

ros-sauce

(bravely) I think body parts should only hurt if something is wrong.

I threw out most of my socks and bought 30 pairs of the same white ankle sock and my god this is incredible

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im sure my dad and uncle appearing as villains in my dream means nothing

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star-mom-selkie

happy pride month

grungekitty-77

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

grungekitty-77

Fun fact, that was literally what inspired me to make this post!

shamebats

[image ID: TikTok comment by Spedubopy: I once had a german bouncer look at my pre transition-ID and then back at me and just go "ja das ist an improvement" /end ID]

abigailunderthemoon

After I came out as an adult to my childhood best friend, he went back to his family and told them and then when we next spoke he said, ‘we’ve decided this is a good move for you.’