call me rowan/teddy. 22, chubby + fuzzy autistic bear therian. dms open to mutuals. more about me under the readmore. my pics (#teddy.img).
i encourage reading my kinks/limits list before following. everything i post about is depicting either consenting, risk-aware adults or fictional characters.
i block: under 18, blogs full of reposted porn, “radqueer”/“pro-contact”, zionists.
gender, sexuality & preferences are always in flux (dissociative reasons). broadly;
genderfluid; usually androgyne with a lean in either direction, tme, transmasc, sometimes FTM, sometimes FTMTF
bi; sometimes straight (M or F), sometimes lesbian
switch vers with a service sub lean
polyamorous/open/platonic sexuality enjoyer - i have a girlfriend 🦉, a mama 🐶, a daddy 🥮 & many sexy friends
my mother* has known i’m non-monogamous for 2 years now (since i was kinda forced to tell her my ex and i were open) and tonight when she found out my hickies weren’t from my girlfriend she became weirded out and basically revealed that she “doesn’t agree with” a consensual open relationship (what i explained to her that we were in) and thinks that it’s a bad thing. even though we’re both extremely happy with the situation. it’s wrong because “we can’t be happy with just one person”
makes me feel some kinda way that as a tme-sometimes-presumably-cis-woman i can get 4 months worth of hormones (progesterone in this case) for birth control purposes by simply asking my doctor for it. like yeah it’s all-around a good thing that i have such ease of access to birth control where i live but it’s a bit unsettling when i know how underdosed trans women are by their doctors