(18+ ONLY) MDNI!!!
Call me Ms. V or Ma'am Owner of 2 very good boys.
20s, she/he/they/any - genderfluid (afab), bi, switch but this is my dom blog
Spoil me: https://throne.com/fangbangers
THIS BLOG IS 18+ ONLY, MDNI YOU WILL BE BLOCKED
This is a NSFW/NSFT blog. Minors and Ageless Blogs DNI. If you do, you will be immediately blocked! Bigots, minors, and MAGA DNI, you'll be blocked with extreme prejudice.
You may call me V, Miss, or Ma'am. Ask to address me as "Mistress", or "Mommy" before doing so right away when directly messaging with me. Doing so in anon messages is fine.
Asks: Open. Feel free to reach out as I love to chat with people. But be respectful or I will not hesitate to block you.
DMs: Mutuals only. Send an ask if you want to be mutuals.
I am a switch but this blog is my Dom blog, bisexual, and genderfluid (AFAB) she/he/they/any pronouns are fine to address me with but I prefer feminine terms and pronouns to be used unless otherwise stated.
LIKES: praise, worship, possessiveness, bondage, light degradation, light impact play, edging, orgasm control, overstim, sensory play, role play, nipple/clit/cock play, training, strapping, anal, pet play, free use, contained exhibitionism, dumbification, hypnosis (More to be added)
HARD LIMITS: sending pictures and videos of myself, self harm & eating disorders, feederism, body shaming, gender / sexuality / religion / disability based degradation, race play, scat, vomit, blood, cutting, burning or branding, heavy impact play that will break skin or cause great bodily harm, bone breaking, gun/knife/weapons play, diapers, age play, vomit, or bile. Absolutely no "sex under 18" fantasies, animal related fantasies, and rape fantasies.
I have said it SO MANY TIMES and I will SAY IT AGAIN.
AS A DOM. YOU DESERVE CARE TOO.
aftercare is often times sub-focused, and while that’s always great, it’s often seen as “only subs need aftercare because they’re the ones that took the brunt of the acts.” and as a disabled dom, that’s absolutely not true.
dom drop is very real. I often experience it as guilt for hurting someone, or being “too aggressive,” as trans women are often seen. especially for doms that take care of subs, pretty please take the time to take care of yourself too!!
and for all the subs out there, if you’re able, please please please go get your dom some water or a snack. even if neither of you can walk, it’s imperative that you *talk to each other.* in my past, even the smallest things made me feel so much better. I’m going to list off some great things to say to your dropped dom here (feel free to add in reblogs!!)
“I’m okay. You didn’t hurt me too much.”
“Thank you for doing (self care act) for me, do you need anything?”
“I liked everything you did.”
“everything was within my boundaries.”
“you did great, (name/nickname).”
“do you need anything?”
“would you like (self care act)?”
“can I help (task: clean up, get water, etc.)”
just doing something like talking, showing physical affection, kisses, comfort, etc, is so so so important, and everyone deserves it!
and to all my fellow doms out there, don’t feel guilty for asking for help! if you need it, ask for it! your partner is there to show you love and care too!
who are your subs and are you open to taking in anymore ?
I’m not going to give out their information, especially to an anon. As for taking on another sub it would truly depend since I need to be able to dedicate time to each of them.
i hate it when boys don’t let out pathetic desperate whines n whimpers and just do that deep grunting n huffing shit bc they wanna appear “cool” or “dominant”… like NO woman wants that shit, we wanna hear you sound pathetic and feral