GRAY!

bobsb0ners.carrd.co .

[vampire-fluids]

I made a Spotify playlist that gives me ASPD vibes in my own experiences as someone with it, but it isn’t villianizing or evil or just really weirdly edgy

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/58a8tpNfLM0f6cNKci3Z36?si=i_0NFl0tQhCAGbC-wHjXOg

[vampire-fluids]

Guess who updated it

[marmakar]

Memes again.

[incorrect-gta]

which gta character do you simp over but feel like you shouldn't

i'll go first: martin madrazo

[vampire-fluids]

ryder, toreno, and rosenberg. that’s all 🧍🏻

[stevehaines]

mr intellegent man

[stevehaines]

ryder page!

[stevehaines]

[tropotropotropo]

Love how the last episode confirmed that chucky was bi and trans and it's 100% canon it is 100% canon that chucky, charles lee ray, is trans and also bisexual (and trans)

[variousqueerthings]

diversity win, this serial killing puppet is bisexual and some flavour of genderqueer, his serial killer wife is also bisexual and their puppet child is gendahflooid, and these two teenagers tormented by him are gay… also this actress is dressing in drag like her dad to portray the serial killing puppet pre-puppet having sex with his serial killing future wife and is also playing the serial killer possessed woman having sex with said serial killer’s serial killing now wife, and the whole franchise is a slasher trans fever dream by a gay creator

[friendofthecrows]

The ASPD and ADHD mental ecosystem of simultaneously

Not caring about other people and what they think

I will collapse in a puddle of tears if I feel rejected. help. need validation.

[friendofthecrows]

This also means

No fearing consequences

When I face the consequences i will emotionally Die TM

Immediately followed by step 1

I know this makes for a not very good person but like. Oh well lol. I'll figure it out.

[friendofthecrows]

The ASPD and ADHD mental ecosystem of simultaneously

Not caring about other people and what they think

I will collapse in a puddle of tears if I feel rejected. help. need validation.

[selfindulgentsaccharine]

Psych literature on Cluster B: "...overly emotional, emotional dysregulation, intensely emotional responses, difficulties regulating their emotions, emotional symptoms, emotional behavior, volatile emotionality, find it difficult to control emotions, emotional and dramatic..."

You all: SoCiOpAtHs and NarCiSsIsTs are STONE COLD and have NO REAL EMOTIONS! They feel NOTHING! This is why they're so EVIL, you see.

[nemevex]

whenever i see people with BPD who demonise NPD/ASPD it makes me extremely sad to be honest.

do you really think everyone with NPD/ASPD is abusive, or are you so afraid of stigma that you're willing to put other members of your cluster down because you want to look good in the eyes of ableists?

it makes me sad because that mentality is rooted in believing you will only be valid if you suck up to ableism.

it's literally "look at me, please don't demonise me, i'm not like THOSE evil cluster b narcopaths!"

there is a reason they're all in the same cluster. if NPD and ASPD are all abusive, then so is BPD. not saying any of them are, of course, but pointing out the hypocrisy.

[chronicallylav3nd3r]

supporting mental health issues means that you can’t exclude the illnesses you think are bad

stigmatised disorders will always be included in mental health discussions and if you won’t support them as well you’re not an ally.

this includes:

• calling people with bpd manipulative

• calling people with hpd attention seekers

• using the term ‘narc abuse’

• calling people with aspd psychopaths

• calling people with did evil

• calling people with schizophrenia dangerous

etcetc. (there are many stigmatised disorders and these are just a few examples)

[egopathic]

i get upset when i start to think about how similar people with ASPD and NPD are to the “normal” survivors of childhood trauma.

like we all hurt ourselves, get numb, rage, lash out, it goes on. and yet because our brains went in a slightly different direction during that trauma, we get shoved to the side, tossed out of recovery spaces and made to feel like the perpetrators of our own abuse.

and kids who have aspd/npd traits especially get dragged through the mud. no one sees a desperately hurt child in them, they just see some bad entity to be dealt with.

we’re just people, man. we’re just people.

[many-but-one]

Narcissistic ≠ Abusive

I might get cancelled or whatever for this, but can we banish the idea that narcissists are always abusive? Like yeah, I know someone irl who is diagnosed NPD and yeah she's pretty abusive, but I also know someone else diagnosed NPD who is quite pleasant to be around.

These sorts of stigmas exist for many disorders, it seems like. People with BPD are known to be emotionally manipulative. Some people with BPD are super toxic. But a lot of them aren't.

It's almost as if everyone in the world follows this model. Some people are abusive and some people aren't. Neurotypicals can be just as toxic and abusive as someone who isn't. Especially if the person they are abusing happens to be neurodivergent.

Stigmas exist for many disorders.

NPD ≠ Abusive

BPD ≠ Manipulative

DID ≠ Murderer

ASPD ≠ Sociopath

Etc etc etc. The really sad part is that oftentimes it's people with these disorders that stigmatize each other. People with DID and BPD will talk about narcissistic abuse. They'll completely demonize people with ASPD. Someone with NPD might call someone who is schizophrenic "crazy." Everyone with DID has likely been asked if they have an "evil alter." I feel like we really all need to work together to end stigma. Because your abuser being neurodivergent does not mean ALL people with that disorder are like that. Not to mention not all abusive people have a disorder. Some people are just bad people and to use an already demonized disorder to try to describe them is just shitty as hell. Stop demonizing already stigmatized disorders. It's abusive and ableist.

-Jules

[psychopathicnarc]

Guess what?

Your abuser wasn’t a “narcissist”, and you didn’t experience “narcissistic abuse”. Your abuser was an abuser and you experienced emotional abuse.

Mentally ill people aren’t your scapegoats.

[cum-villain]

Genuinely don't understand people who think someone saying "hey um don't armchair diagnose your abuser with having an already stigmatized disorder that primarily results from trauma to make yourself feel better about your trauma" is saying their trauma isn't real. Nobody is saying you don't have trauma we're just saying don't shit on other traumatized people.