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warning for discord users

If you're on the app, immediately go to your dms and then "add friends". After the latest update they allow your contacts to find you and have that option turned on by default, so make sure it's unchecked!

This is very obviously not great for a multitude of reasons, but especially for people in vulnerable positions who do not want people in their contacts to see who they are on discord and/or know they have discord in the first place. I've also tried finding out if this is a thing on desktop but haven't been able to find any mention of it, so either it's not a "feature" (yet) or they've hidden it. Either way, stay safe, and turn off finding friends via contacts!

[ID: three screenshots from the discord app with circles around the buttons to press to get to this "feature". 1: the messages/DM button, 2: the "add friends button", 3: in the add friends page, the "allow contacts to add me" checkbox. /END ID]

pathologising

And just talking on healing I think forgiving yourself is so good and everyone should do it!!!! Forgive yourself for the little embarrassing things that keep u up at night. Sometimes we as people make mistakes or have flaws that we need to work on, nobody can be all good all the time! We mess up or we do something stupid and by dwelling on it you cant really grow from it I think. Forgiving yourself and following it up with "how can I do better? What could I do to change for the positive?" etc is how we grow!!!! And even for stuff that's just like embarrassing little mistakes, forgiving myself for my blunders has helped me learn to move past and not live in and dwell in embarrassment! Nobody really cares that I stumbled or dropped my phone in public, I forgive myself for it now let's get on with life! We can't dwell on these feelings because they'll do nothing to help us! We must grow!

haven’t logged into tumblr in forever . i dont recognize most of you

#my post #makes sense though i was gone for so long lol . not coming back either i just felt the urge to log in

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#sent to me #saw #blood

multapohja966

Lil Nas X had an interview with Anthony Fantano and it is over all a very nice and interesting listen but his words about getting into the mindset of making Montero and over all being more visibly himself / visibly queer really touched me. “Because when I first came out I was like okay let me make sure I, like okay I’m out there but let me make sure I keep this in this box right here. And then I realised that, it didn’t matter. No body was going to respect me more, nobody was going to hate me any less. So I might as well do whatever the fuck I want to do.” I think every healthy queer person goes through this realisation at some point but it’s so powerful and important every time.

spiderworries

Emoji rating: Mermaid emoji

I actually really like her! Apple’s love of shading really makes her look 3D. The skin tone is very yellow, but there are other skin tone variations and the yellow makes the other colors pop. Her anatomy isn’t horribly botched, and I like that I can see individual scales. I love her hair. 10/10 a beautiful mermaid

One of her arms is way too long. There’s no way that seashell bra could ever stay up. Her tale has a border, but she doesn’t. Google’s simplistic style isn’t working. 5/10 I know you can do better

What happened to her? Very very angular. Not the smooth, sleek mermaid I wanted. Black border looks Bad. Boring color scheme. 2/10 very bland

Looks kind of like they traced apple’s emoji and made it more boring. Still, a good pose. That seashell bra still defies physics and looks hella uncomfortable. 7/10 mermaids need back support too

She’s very cute! Traditional color scheme, but not horrible! Could use more personality. Give her a better bra. 7/10

This is truly disgusting. Too simplistic. Tail looks limp and algae-covered. Is she okay? 3/10 bra design is ok and it’s still better tham Microsoft.

Now this is a MERMAID. I love the hair. She’s very dynamic. The end of the tail actually looks to be the right size, which I appreciate. There’s no horrible seashell bra! The only thing that’s a little bit weird is her eyes, which make her look very manevolent, but I am HERE for it. 11/10

This is an even worse bra offender. This mermaid looks like she’s trying to seduce an entire cruise ship. I appreciate the fact that she’s doing the traditional job, but did you have to make her sit like that? It bothers me. Mermaids don’t have asses. 5/10 decent design I guess

There’s a such thing as too much gradient. I feel like I’m in 2010. I like the pointy ears and the fact that she’s on a rock. 5/10.