vanilla @vanillaandproud - Tumblr Blog

men really out here believing to the very core of their being that a woman’s vagina is mainly for sex. Everything else it does is minor and coincidental.

vanillaandproud

I’m really shocked at the amount of women reblogging this like “my vagina is to be used by men for sex!!! FEMINISM”

I love when i reblog a post and someone replies to it on anon in my ask box as if i were the op lol

wow interesting 🤔 how a bunch of white trans women 🤔 are winning elections rn 🤔 as the most oppressed 🤔 group in the world 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

#terfs please interact #terfs please touch #its not like black women are winning elections!!!!!#how about that #i guess as a society we just beat oppression lmao #radical feminist #radfem #gender critical

tehmoftheday

Bert and Ernie

Today’s TEHMs of the day are Bert and Ernie from Sesame Street! They’re both proud members of the LGB community.

calebwittebane

okay this is REALLY funny actually

calebwittebane

Chess Is For Men. Women Wouldn't Get It.

kendallroy-deactivated20210425

i’m glad that we’re just being openly misogynistic now. mask off. woque!!!

eerieplanted

9 times out of 10 an mlm blog on this site is ran by a ftm who's ~not like the other gorls~. Pretty much every gay or bi man on this site avoids them like the plague or is chill enough with genderism to uncritically engage with their content. Lots of big blogs like stimman4000 are in this same category if not by url name but content. If I had money I'd bet it that you could search "trans mlm" "trans" or "ftm" on any mlm blog and find results. It's not my place to say what is or isn't misogyny, but this may be a case of internalized misogyny or just runaway autoandrophilia. Lots of them find boyfriends, being the young women they are and not truly appreciating how easy it is to attract male attention for them, and play "gay" online for funsies. Because these mlm blogs are run by women with gender identities, the things they find attractive about men resonate with what straight/bi women without gender identities find attractive about men, and that makes mlm blog-havers insecure in their identity.

Please forgive the quality of these screenshots, my phone has a dark mode that affects screenshots. But here is the blog in question reblogging THIS dumbass post.

And here is the blog in question sincerely using the word 'Achillean' as a self-descriptor which is a very ftm thing to do. No gay man on tumblr calls himself mlm or achillean, I can't explain why.

Here is the blog in question reblogging trans resources, which many nontrans blogs do but in combination with the other evidence builds the case.

And here is the blog in question weighing in on a trans issue! As a trans person! Ergo corvid.mlm is ftm. This is not a "boy saying no girls allowed in the treehouse" thing this is loony tunes "duck season, rabbit season, duck season, rabbit season!" Between people born and raised female but with either binary ftm or nonbinary gender identities coopting gay culture and larping like the theater nerd kids they are. The nblm and mlm blogs are pecking at each other like bloodthirsty hens for some reason and it'd be funny to watch if it wasn't informing the way tumblr thinks of gay men, or affecting the way society conceptualizes lgbt issues as a whole (-.-)

nansheonearth

At some point we need to address the self sabotage of the community. We constantly lose cafes, bars, festivals, communities, websites. There’s nothing for lesbians anymore. Until a couple of years ago I didn’t even know lesbian communities were even a thing. Lesbians (women in general) always have to be accommodating. We have to include bi women. We have to include transwomen. We have to include men. We have to include asexuals. And now we have nothing. There are so few bars even left open for women. I’ve never been to a lesbian bookstore or cafe in my life. I’ve only been to a full time women’s community once. Some lesbians are speaking up and trying to show you what’s going on and it’s met with accusations of bigotry. White women telling Black women we’re not intersectional enough (oh the irony). Yet what we’re telling you is true. These communities that women put their entire lives into are being destroyed, bought out, rebranded. Lexington is a hipster bro bar now. Afterellen is just an archive. Where’s the lesbian cafe in your city? When will y'all wake up to your own erasure and stop accommodating everyone else?

annoyedradfem

"terf receipts" consists of terfs making arguably questionable takes but "tra receipts" consists of intense language wishing and encouraging violence against the women they don't agree with. hmmmm......

buffdyke

my father and i once watched the episode of queer eye, and he said that he read a study where people regretted transitioning. but did he talk to actual trans people? no he didn’t. he felt that it was enough to read a study that was poorly conducted instead of listening to actual trans voices. if you are cis please, listen to us, don’t listen to studies ask trans people. please!! a study is no substitute for real trans voices! listen to us!!! i’m BEGGING you!!!!

cybrkendoll

Those people ‘were trans’ (for lack of a better word) and regretted it so they detransitioned. I don’t think it’s fair to attempt to silence or muffle the voices of detransitioners because they are still part of the trans community and still require the support and spaces they deserve.

drenren

I will never understand how one day men decided they were women and had the right to tell women to stfu about their bodies, experiences, oppression, etc and the left just ate that shit up.

drenren

Every single nb woman I’ve seen has had debilitating self image issues and a deep hatred / fear / rejection of how women are treated in society. Every single one I’ve met has repeated something along the lines of:

I’m not like other girls

I don’t relate with other girls

I’m not girly (aka feminine) and I don’t like girly things (aka gendered stereotypes like makeup and dresses and heels)

Being seen as a girl upsets me

Meanwhile, every nb man I’ve seen or met has repeated something along the lines of:

I like dresses and makeup and nail polish

I appreciate women’s fashion and feel it suits me best

I’m not aggressive or rude or dangerous like men are

I don’t like sports or rough housing or other masculine things

I have a feminine energy and like to express it.

While obviously both are basically just railing against gender stereotypes, women are escaping the claustrophobic and terrifying pressure of sexism whereas men are playing with gender expression. They’re not the same and should not be seen the same way

toxururira

cisbians r ugly

cocksmasher69

Did a real woman reject you again?

phalloid-destroyer-deactivated2

When the cute lesbian turned you down

depsidase

femkilljoy

“I slapped my girlfriend so hard I gave her a concussion, but it’s ok because it’s a kink 🥰 4.6k upvotes!”

vanillaandproud

the police should have come

trans-activists-are-mras

chronic-yonic

👆This Never Happens™👆

blackswallowtailbutterfly

Do we know what name this freak goes by in real life? Because holy shit.

loinsofdoom

“anything else you wanna get off your chest before you shave it?” made me laugh out loud. who is this girl i wanna be her friend

vanillaandproud

WAS THAT REALLY A DICK PIC BC OMG THEY RLY OUT HERE

weavemama

ya’ll this cool new site lets you know if a certain movie or TV show has any affiliation with anyone who was accused of sexual assault. this is important for those of us who are passionate about not supporting work that associates itself with sexual abusers, for the sake of the victims.