[vanillaemeralds]

Look, if you come across my old fandom posts, know that I've deleted most of them and no longer hold a lot of the opinions that I had. This isn't a fandom blog anymore.

[memewhore]

[bananahomo]

I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said “might as well see if it works.” I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if you’re a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.

dude.

$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.

[minakittengaming]

This is huge. Sharing for my US friendos.

[zillyblog]

Hospitals like to hide these policies under a lot of successive links in obscure places, so if you don't see anything right away, keep looking! Get friends to help! Make it a scavenger hunt. A game where you're assassins sent to slit capitalism's throat

[artemis-fowl-incident-report]

Artemis Fowl: The American Incident chapters 7-8 are out!

https://archiveofourown.org/works/65348848/chapters/219849076

Hey @vanillaemeralds and @a-usernamelol. Remember that AF fan fic you encouraged... Well, its still going. Hope you enjoy!

[vanillaemeralds]

Haha, really? It's been a year since then, so much has happened, but I'm glad this is still going!

[vanillaemeralds]

Item: A Half-blank Notebook Rarity: ⏶ Common

What video game do you most regret not finishing?

Feed your dashboard by answering my question, blogger.

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[charmedatlaw]

IF YOU ARE UNMARRIED, DON'T HAVE KIDS, AND HATE YOUR PARENTS PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HAVE A FUCKING WILL

this has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighborhood probate lawyer

[charmedatlaw]

Again:

1. The law doesn't care how long your parents and family have been out of your life

2. The law doesn't care about your long term friends or "found family"

If you don't have legal documents that say otherwise, your biological family calls all the shots.

This goes especially for LGBTQ+. Please do not get deadnamed in your obituary.

[the-final-sif]

How to make a will.

How to make a living will (Advance Healthcare Directive) so you don’t get fucked over by biological family if you end up in a situation where you cannot make your own healthcare choices.

[pyroinfusedtiger]

If youre trans, this video is a good ref to start with and she provides links and organizations that can help

[transhumanisticpanspermia]

also have a designated medical power of attorney. even worse than your shitty parents getting control of your estate is your shitty parents getting control of your still-living but incapacitated body.

no, having a chill adult sibling isn't enough, it still defaults to parents for some dumbass reason even if your parents are old as balls. if you want your chill adult sibling to be your emergency decisionmaker, get it in writing.

[musicalhell]

Talk to someone about life insurance. I don't care how young and healthy you are, you are one beer truck away from lifetime disability or funeral expenses. Do what you can within your means to avoid saddling your loved ones with the bill.

[briannyssey]

everything surrounding the id laws that just passed in Kansas is fucking horrible

[briannyssey]

[terramythos]

Hey Bri I hope you don't mind me sharing this on your post but in case anyone reading this is in Kansas or knows trans people in Kansas, Colorado is nearby and considered one of the safest states for trans & queer people. I know relocating is logistically expensive and challenging for many reasons, especially for people in a vulnerable situation, but if it is an option anyone is considering, there is a nonprofit here that may be able to help.

Steps These steps are intended to be a linear process to get you out of there and resettled here. But we get it, you’re a big kid and can do

[vanillaemeralds]

So apparently one of my erstwhile fandom mutuals is a conservative anti abortion anti lgbt Christian and blocked me a while ago for reasons that I don't know about? Wild.

[vanillaemeralds]

Someone sent me some message in my inbox but they've blocked me so I can't see it

[apolladay]

Pick a chore to eliminate for the rest of your life. Assume it’s automatically done for you each time it’s needed to be done.

Washing dishes

Unloading dishwasher

Washing laundry

Folding laundry

Wiping counters/kitchen surfaces

Cleaning bathroom

Sweeping/Vacuuming

Mopping

Taking trash out

Dusting

Washing windows

Another one I didn’t mention (comment?)

Pick a chore to eliminate for the rest of your life. Assume it’s automatically done for you each time it’s needed to be done.

Washing dishes

Unloading dishwasher

Washing laundry

Folding laundry

Wiping counters/kitchen surfaces

Cleaning bathroom

Sweeping/Vacuuming

Mopping

Taking trash out

Dusting

Washing windows

Another one I didn’t mention (comment?)

Voting ended onFeb 20

[vanillaemeralds]

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[huariqueje]

Kitchen window - Veronika Danielsson. , 2021.

Swedish , b. 1980s

Oil , 60 x 60 cm.

[huariqueje]

After Breakfast - Simeon Nijenhuis , 2026.

Dutch, b. 1969 -

Oil on panel , 39 x 51 cm.

[virtualcremefem]

"As of 2021, the estimated global number of child brides was 650 million" -WHO

and barely a peep from anyone

less people died in the world wars

but no countries will come together to stop this

[feral--bog--witch]

To put that into context, that is a little over 8% of the world's population. 8% of 8 billion is MASSIVE. And that number is for people raping children. 8% of the entire population of earth were children that were sold off and raped.

[theangryman]

Wisconsin currently has a bill to ban marriage for under 18’s, if anyone in the US wants to write a letter or make a phone in support

2026 could see end of child marriage in another state

Since 2018, 16 states and Washington, D.C., have ended child marriage by raising the legal age for marriage to 18.

the US has several states with effectively no bottom limit on marriage ages - just need approval from a judge usually. anti child marriage bills tend to get proposed almost every year in these states, they just tend to die in committee

Unchained At Last - Unchained At Last

helping women leave arranged/forced marriages

for the international fight, you might check out GirlsNotBrides

Girls Not Brides

A partnership of over 1400 civil society organisations in 100+ countries working together to end child marriage so that girls can fulfil the

[vanillaemeralds]

No posts for days on the end and yet I still have 118 followers.........you must all love me very much