for all women

33 F Febfem / 4Ever Hermit / Disabled / Autistic and Mentally Ill

[moonshineshrew]

[xenosagaepisodeone]

right wing handwringing over birth rates has always unsubtly been a combination of wanting more white babies/wanting control over women, so it's bothersome that the popular response to that is just pointing out the cost of living. "we Would be having more kids if you guys made some positive changes to society" and such. pronatalist sentiment is becoming so much more explicit that I don't think many self-styled progressives are ready to reconcile with the fact that many women simply do not want to have children. we already see how women are demonized for refusing to undertake the thankless burdens of their mother and grandmother's generations lol, I can't imagine how full abdication from child rearing will come across to some people.

I can't even see "we Would be having kids" as a strategic approach to get conservatives to consider advocating for a higher quality of life considering that they truly could not care less if you, specifically, are poor. it's true that more couples would have kids if it was cheaper, but that will not be enough for these types until women's subservience is codified. even now, they consider the lack of child rearing in today's insane society to be a matter of selfishness. they view themselves as completely different animals than you. they have and will continue to advocate for more advantages for people of their specific backgrounds and income brackets to reinforce this lol.

[loserdogma]

They’re literally pondering the 19th Amendment like it’s negotiable and for this exact reason, officially-stated or not. I really don’t think this “issue” is gonna die quietly

[stamprequestie]

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[oggeminivenus]

[vznx-deactivated20200215]

men: “how dare women accuse us of what we are and what we do”

[virtualcremefem]

I am grateful for everything I have in my life

If things had gone differently, or if I was born elsewhere, I could be forcibly married to a man right now or six feet under

But I am relatively free and able to do my own thing...

That doesn't mean there's not hella misogyny and other societal problems to critique in my country....

...I'm just grateful to have my own place, not go hungry, not have to deal with a husband and children, have hobbies, etc...

[tortellinigirl]

men really be like “well this woman has studied this subject her whole life, and i am a man, so we have equal knowledge on this”

[hcrzallerliebst-a-deactivated20]

it’s ok you could have just said “i hate men”

[tortellinigirl]

okay, i hate men

[cowgirlgirl2002]

Another random information in female health is that female saliva is different from male saliva, with studies showing it tends to have a lower pH (more acidic), a lower flow rate, and differences in buffering capacity and protein content. These differences can be influenced by hormonal fluctuations and may impact oral health. most if not all toothpaste is strictly made for MEN, although packaging and companies do not release that information. This world is not for women no matter how many humans their birth.

[sylvanitchi]

looks at you like this

[scifi0lver]

[furiouswarriorinquisitor]

so ... let me introduce to you the concepts of misogyny and patriarchy ....

[nightmarereverie]

[mini-wrants]

Actually watching this stalking show on Netflix is super illuminating because:

Researchers being quoted are like “mostly these men will keep reoffending and we can say jail time might cure them but um. Unfortunately the data doesn’t support that.”

Absolutely none of the men will own up to having done something wrong. One of the men talks about the trauma he and his wife went through together: he accidentally killed her son with a tractor, got into drugs over the guilt, kept harassing her about wanting to kill her, and then went to her work with a noose in his car screaming he would kill her. Another man stole $100,000 from a woman and then started stalking her because she wouldn’t “listen to his apology”. Another man actually previously killed a girlfriend and the stalking victims testified against him on the stand, because he confided the murder story to her to scare her.

What’s interesting though is they do have one female stalker. She started leaving little voodoo dolls and shit on her husband’s ex-wife’s doorstep and car because she was sending nude photos of the women to her husband. Her story made national news. She was put on probation because she never did anything violent, but part of the terms of the probation was she had no contact whatsoever with her own mother for 8 years. The terms of this woman’s no-contact order with her mother were stricter than the no-contact orders given to men against their victims after they were imprisoned (all of the men either attempt to or continue to stalk their victims from prison). The female stalker did own up to what she did and expressed remorse immediately.

Anyway.

[mini-wrants]

What’s also very interesting is how the legal system has basically legalized saying you’re going to kill someone as long as the person making the threats is a man and the person being threatened is a woman.

A man kept punching out the windows of a woman’s home when she wasn’t there, sent her thousands of texts about being camped outside her home, asked her neighbor about guns at 6 in the morning, memorized her work and gym schedule. Because none of this was “a threat to bodily harm” it was all fine. The stalking victim had to hire an attorney to find other victims he did beat in order to prove he was a real risk to her.

The man was totally aware that as long as she didn’t have his face on videotape while kicking in the windows of her house, he couldn’t be touched. He repeated multiple times that she never had him on tape breaking into her home, therefore it wasn’t him and he shouldn’t be in prison.

Like….

[strategicdefiantchaosreigns]

These posts are dishonestly framed and it's gross, tbh.

[mini-wrants]

I’m curious about what’s dishonest and gross about relaying what these men and women stated about their actual, real-life stalking cases.

Was it the part where a man stated that because he wasn’t on tape breaking into her home, he shouldn’t be in jail for trying to break into her home? That he knew that without cameras it would be very hard for a prosecutor to do anything to him? Even though he had also left hundreds of voicemails detailing her daily movements and outfits to let her know he was watching her at all times?

Was it the part where a man stole $100,000 from his employer but kept breaking a restraining order even while in jail because he “just wanted to apologize” to her? And then later gave a fellow inmate a detailed layout of her home to put a hit on her and then the inmate turned him in and the map of her home was accurate?

Or was it the part that the jails these men were housed in let them continue to make phone calls to their victims, while a female stalker was court ordered to not contact her mother because her crime was committed with her mother, and was following the terms of that court order.

Was it the part where the researcher in Episode 1 stated that data doesn’t back that these offenders will stop offending? That rehabilitation doesn’t necessarily work, which was kind of supported by the stalkers themselves who all had multiple victims (except the one woman who was stalking her husband’s ex).

What was disgusting about my framing.

[mini-wrants]

Most verbal harassment and stalking is totally and completely legal. Even when stalkers start to break the law, it’s hard to prove to a jury they’re a physical danger to their victims or to the surrounding public.

But simultaneously, stalking tends to be an excellent harbinger of future violence against that victim - once you’re kicking in the front door of a persons property and leaving her dozens of voicemails a day, there’s a higher likelihood that the stalkers next step is actually breaking into the house and hurting or killing her.

I’m sorry that these cases upset you - they upset me too. But my framing is correct.

[virtualcremefem]

kills me that a lot of today's leftists have a herd mentality (liberal) and not a "let's find out the facts and make the best choices " mentality

[parasitefem]

male lolcows getting a rebrand as “misunderstood mentally ill men” shows how evil and deranged men can be to women, children, and animals and there will always be a huge amount of people defending them anyways… nobody really gaf lmao

[parasitefem]

no i don’t feel bad for a guy who raped his mother and sexually harassed women at his college. no you also shouldn’t feel bad for a grown ass man being exposed for sending fetish content to minors online.

[virtualcremefem]

some so called liberals will defend men like Chris as poor babies who got bullied until they snapped

but they wouldn't be caught dead coming to the aid/defense of these men's victims?

very progressive, very benevolent

make it make sense

bottom line I'm with OP: men can be so vile and cruel but will always be defended! we live in a patriarchy...

[sisterofrage]

Are MEN/MALES physically incapable of just answering a fucking question? The number of times a "debate" with a moid devolves into me just saying "Answer the question", "Stop avoiding the question", "You're just dodging the question", 800 fucking times is.... literally every time. Every fucking time. Holy shit. It's like a defect in their shriveled brains that physically prevents them from just answering a fucking question.

[virtualcremefem]

Seriously considering doing another buzzcut of my hair

I reallly want to grow my hair really long. I have a personal preference for myself being more "feminine" and, while it may not be right of me, I find myself uglier the more "masculine" I am...being super honest and raw...I am very fat and that doesn't help me like my appearance. I think I look like a particularly ugly man when I'm with buzzcut hair and comfy clothes. To be clear, I don't feel this way about other women, I'm just a hater of myself.

But at the same time I hate my long hair? I don't have the "spoons" as it were for the maintenance it needs, It needs a lot of care...It also falls out constantly because idk I'm unhealthy ig...But just imagine hairs and chunks of hair falling out all day. Entire animals worth of hair collecting in corners and under things like dust bunnies. My shirt? You know it's covered in hair that fell out. Somehow I have enough hair that the hair loss isn't noticeable.