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Hello! You can call me Roswell, or Ros for short. I collect variant terms as a special interest. For a more literal archival blog with tags and stuff I recommend @radiomogai. My main blog is @pastelroswell (cw for posts about adult topics and politics, blog is 80% memes, shitposts, positivity and aesthetic stuff though) and 18+ LIOM blog is @xemboy (WIP. If you're a minor and interact there I'll block you there AND here).

Check out my notion if you'd like. It has my term collection and other stuff about me. Please share your term collections with me so I can add to mine, it really helps! /nf

Synnimchro/Altechro (bodily 27). I'm spiritual alterhuman (autocosm, divinekin, dogkin, foxkin, fictionkin, +more). Godshard (of my metasoul). Furry/Postfurry.

I've been in the neolabel community for over a decade! I was here when MOGAI was coined. I'm also the creator of the queer, omni, xenogender, ficto, and altersex flags along with many other flags and terms. I've collaborated on many too. I feel that gender education is my life's calling and I hope to do much more work for the community in the future! ☆

My primary overall gender descriptor is xemboy. I'm an ambiguous, xenic, genderqueer, femme nymboy. I only use boy/dude/guy etc. and not man/male (including "mlm" even though I'm a guy gay for guys). My xenogenders mostly relate to love, divinity, space, and various cute things.

I'm an aroallo bi gay. I also use gai, binotrix, floric, rosaen, queer, and homo. I'm POSIC and objectum. My primary attraction and relationship type is queerotic. I do not experience platonic or romantic attraction, but what I experience is indeed love and I'm polyamorous and happily partnered. ♡

I'm altersex (morphisex, phantasex). Atypically hormonally transitioned, paraphoric, and comfortably non-op/transine. AGAB nonconforming.

I use he/him, ae/aer, and ne/nym/nys pronouns and I dabble in others on occasion.

I'm autistic + ADHD-I, and I also have C-PTSD, DPD, dysthymia, and multiple OCD-spectrum disorders. I have other ambiguous or subclinical issues too. I'm also diagnosed with fibromyalgia/FMS. I am legally recognized as being disabled and I can't work.

Check my notion (linked above) for my full term/identity collection. This is a summary.

Special interests are psychology, philosophy, spirituality, nature, aesthetics, and identity of course. Always down to talk about them.

I am an anti-radqueer radinclus.

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DNI:

Bigots in regards to any marginalized group, eg. sexist, ableist, racist, classist, etc.

Exclusionist (anti-endo, transmeds, anti-mspec gay/lesbian, anti-aspec, anti-microlabel, anti-xenogender, etc.)

Limit labels/identity to any sex or AGAB, including transmasc/transfem. Terms that are explicitly about sex or AGAB are fine of course, I mean terms that aren't like that.

Against the use of neoAGAB labels and other forms of AGAB nonconformity.

Don't believe in transandrophobia, or whatever equivalent term you call it.

Condone or participate in harassment or bullying or abuse towards anyone. Criticism is totally fine of course, there's a difference.

If the blog you're interacting from is primarily a discourse blog.

Create/condone/consume content meant to sexually appeal to pedophilia, zoophilia and other inherently nonconsensual things (including in fiction and shipping).

Radqueer, transrace, transharmful, or transneurodivergent. Transspecies, most other things like transvoice etc. are ok though! :)

Pedophiles. Yes, I recognize it as sometimes being a disorder. No, I don't think you should be on websites or anywhere with any children present when that's avoidable. Yes, this is personal. Please respect that.

Anti-chronosian.

Anti-POCD/ZOCD.

Anti-BIID, including those who label themselves as transabled due to it.

Anti-informed selfdx.

Anti-leftism or pro-capitalism.

Are a cop apologist/sympathizer.

Anti-drug user. This includes stigmatized medications, illegal drugs, and vaccines. I use cannabis and will tag any mention with "drugs cw".

Anti-furry (SFW or NSFW).

You can interact if you're a minor but please don't try to privately befriend me! You can ask questions, ask for advice, ask for help coining something or making a flag, or we can chat about terms/other identity stuff, but that's all I'm comfortable with. Socializing publicly (in asks/replies/reblogs) is totally fine.

Minors can (and should) ignore under the cut as it is specific about adult topics.

#not archive #pinned #do not reblog

Flagless species terms bc yeah. I'm all of these

Divithere: a species term for divine beings with physical features resembling nonhuman animal(s). Can have any range of animal traits, from slight traits to fully animalistic in appearance. Includes shapeshifters with animalistic forms. Does not have to resemble any animals that currently exist.

Divithero: a divithere that is anthropomorphic in a mamner visually comparable to the typical concept of a "furry".

Divisona: a fursona that someone uses to express their divine identity or "higher self".

Recently discovered I'm intersex and the "line" between perisex and intersex baffles me. My variation is considered intersex by the community, but not medically, because my genitalia aren't ambiguous or unable to "function", they're just fucking weird /lh

And I'm surprised to see that some things I'd personally think of as intersex variations aren't considered that by the community. To the point that I think "why am I included if people with these traits aren't"? I don't understand how the community defines intersex. Seeing the term "dysex" and what it is meant to entail is so confusing. I would think that things like uterine shape differences (as in, the ones not considered intersex since uterus didelphys usually is) are intersex based on the fact that my situation is similar, but with another anatomical area, and the community sees my variation as intersex, but not that? Why? Why isn't any non-perinormative body (not caused by voluntary changes) considered intersex? I just can't wrap my head around this. It just feels so arbitrary and like there's a form of gatekeeping that's vague, inconsistent and unacknowledged in the community. We continue to consider more and more traits and variations to be intersex over time. I think that eventually the community will accept and encompass many "dysex" terms as intersex.

Btw no shade to the creator or any users of the term dysex. Considering how currently those traits aren't considered intersex, but aren't perinormative, it makes sense to want to use a label in the meantime since it just isn't accepted at all and I understand the imposter syndrome, even though my variation is considered intersex by the community I still find myself comparing my traits to supposedly perisex ones and feeling precarious in my placement. I just hope that one day we see intersexness as the spectrum thet it is and are consistent in who "counts". Sometimes it isn't ambiguous. Sometimes parts are duplicated, sometimes they're in a different place than expected, sometimes they're shaped differently, sometimes they aren't there at all. Also really weird to me that most of the traits I perceive as excluded are genital, organ or otherwise morphological variations. No idea what that means, if anything, but I sure noticed it. Maybe because it can be seen as "just a perisex deformity"? I'm not buying that anything related to sex that's called a congenital "deformity" in any context is perisex. The autism brain just hates inconsistency so this is frustrating. Why is it like this. What is the bias, the reasoning. Why am I included when others with comparable traits aren't. How do I know I really belong in the community if I can directly compare my variation to traits not considered intersex? Ugh this is all just so messy to me.

#yapping #genital mention #interphobia

I discovered that I'm intersex yesterday.

Y'all, if you ever have thoughts like "every single medical diagram of (similar genitalia) is inaccurate, mine isn't like that!" and have atypical experiences related to your junk for years and years it might be a good idea to question if it is you, in fact, who is the outlier in that situation /lh

But seriously. Intersex variations can be more "subtle"/easily unnoticed than most think, and in many cases not externally visible (mine is, but it's something that is very possible to mistake as a non-intersex genital difference if you don't know what it is) I already knew it was incredibly common for intersex fook to never discover that they're intersex before, and this confirmed that even more for me. Hell, I've had my doctor down there and she said nothing! (to be fair, my specific variation is under-studied and she probably didn't have any idea it existed and just thought it was unusual but unremarkable, she's actually a great doctor tbh).

Also, considering I've always identified as altersex and brought the term here from furry circles/made the original flag, I feel a renewed fire up my ass to create sex language that is affirming, accurate, inclusive, and practical. I'm still on indefinite hiatus, but when I do post next it'll likely be related to this! Or the autocosm rework if I can ever translate that experience into actually understandable language.

(also no body/AGAB questions to me or anyone else, and no shitting on altersex, ty <3)

#yapping #genitalia mention

neopronouns

flag id: a flag with 7 vertical stripes, which are silver-white, light red, warm purple, dark cool purple, blue, light seafoam green, and silver-white. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

a hydrangi flag for anon!

i based the format (vertical stripes, pink-purple-blue color order) on the androgyne flag and took colors from my fem- and masc-presenting flags to represent one's changing presentation.

tags: @radiomogai, @dragonpride17, @variant-archive

dni link

#i was just thinking about this term yesterday #glad it has a flag now!

your-bigender-big-brother

My Sex is Nonbinary Too (an essay)

My sex is of a nonbinary quality. This shouldn't be a very radical statement, but sex is as heavily binarized as gender is and there are certain expectations society has about sex. Your sex has to be either male or female, and whatever happens outside of that rule is treated as an anomaly. You're expected to fall into one of these two categories and in order to move away from the very strict box you were placed in, you'd have to undergo a physical change in order to fit the opposite category. At birth, you're female, and you'll stay that way until you make the difficult decision to get surgery. Now you're male. You’re assigned male at birth and are assumed to be of the male sex. That is, of course, unless you get that surgery to change it all. It's so very linear and conventional, and quite frankly misses so many nuances to the human experience.

My gender is who I am and is intrinsically tied to most other aspects of my identity. I'm a transgender man, I'm a nonbinary man, I'm an autistic man, I'm a man of many talents. No matter how my identity shifts and expands, the same gender is always present. Gender is inevitably relevant no matter which part of me I'm talking about because it gets tangled up in all the other pieces of me, and I don't see why that can't be true for the physical parts of me. My body is a part of my identity experience because it is a part of me.

Of course, I consider this a man's body no matter how I was supposedly born or what I choose to do with it. I call my body a man's body out of a need to take control over an event - an assigned gender at birth - that I did not consent to and that doesn't fully describe my relationship with gender accurately. As for sex, this is a highly intimate part of me that has been medicalized and binarized against my will just as much as the rest of my body, but bodies aren't meant to be policed in this way. Bodies are not meant to be at the mercy of medical biases.

My gender is not a medical anomaly nor anything that derives from physical limitations. I’m not a man because of what my body does, but because of how I view my role in society and how I subvert what society expects of me. For others, they may be a man (or another gender) because they want to fill a specific role in society rather than subvert it. Either way, this is what makes a gender and not what doctors assign to us based on perceived physiology. Likewise, my sex should not be placed under the scrutiny of doctors just so they can call it what they want based on their personal biases and my sex should not be relevant to what is expected of me in society. The sex binary is a construct that I've happily broken away from just as much as the gender binary.

Sex has always been a concept that was forced on me: It determines “what's in your pants” (according to cisgender and transgender people alike) and there are two categories that trans people have to fall into. People have this viewpoint that gender and sex are separate, but somehow they bastardized that concept into the idea that your sex is immutable but your gender is not. I've been told by both trans and cis people, both allies and bigots, that I will always be female because that's what my sex is called. In order to change that, I would need extensive surgery and hormone replacement therapy, according to them. Even so, we are often assumed to always be the sex we were assigned no matter what we do.

I don't subscribe to the sex binary in any way. While my gender has some overlap with the gender binary, my sex is a different thing altogether. I refuse to give my sex a binarist label and even reject sex-related terminology that is typically expected in the trans community: I don't talk about my AGAB, I refuse to call myself “FtM” or “MtF”, and I don't call my sex male or female. No matter what my physiology is, I consider my sex to be of a nonbinary quality, existing outside of the sex binary and being unable to be contained within the typical allotted binary boxes we're often expected to fit into. As someone who is transmaverine - maverine being a quality outside of pre-existing governance - I exist outside the governance of bodily convention.

When I began to really be aware of all the intricacies of my identity and all the pieces that make my gender what it is, I looked into how binarism limits my self-identification. As I grew to understand myself more and more over time, I began to shed all the baggage that comes with conformity and convention. Eventually I landed on the topic of sex. Whether we want it to or not, sex plays a huge role in gender exploration, and it's often expected that we either have a sex that matches our gender or that we subvert sex linearly (that is, we move along a straight path from assigned sex to a new sex.) None of this was ever appealing to me as a concept and so, instead of playing a part in this performance, I decided to reject it altogether.

Some folks are of the male sex, some are female, some consider themselves to be in-between, and some are null of sex. Many of these concepts are physical in nature and have a defined blueprint, which is what society expects from all people. But I don't feel like any of these terms accurately capture how I view my sex and I don't believe that changing my physiology is the only way to gain access to a nonbinary sex. If my gender can be man without having to change myself on a physical level, then my sex can be nonbinary in quite the same way. Nobody should have to undergo costly and stressful surgeries just to be seen as who they truly are.

There's a particular term that was always thrown my way whenever I brought up the idea of having a nonbinary sex. That term is altersex. It's a word for those who wish to change their sex to something unconventional or who view their sex in a way that does not fit societal standards. For a while I had assumed that the desire to physically transition was a prerequisite for altersex people to use the term, that there had to be some kind of physical change planned in order to fit the label, but apparently the definition was expanded early on to include those who simply viewed their sex in a nonconforming way. Still, this term goes out of its way to separate itself from gender labels, but I prefer to use a label to describe my sex that is typically used to describe gender. I don't see my sex as something incompatible with my nonbinary gender and I don’t believe my gender and my sex should use entirely separate and distinct descriptors. I call my sex nonbinary and I think that it would benefit a lot of trans and nonbinary people if they tried to do the same. Try to say “I am a man and this is a man's body, therefore my sex is male,” or “I am nonbinary and this is a nonbinary body, therefore my sex is nonbinary.” This can work for any kind of gender, really.

Of course, there are dozens of labels out there that can describe sex in nonconforming ways - neumel (neutral sex), aporale (aporine sex), oumel (outherine sex), enbinmel (nonbinary sex) - and a number of them may come pretty close to describing exactly the way I view my sex. Enbinmel is right there as a word for having a nonbinary sex, so why don’t I choose this one? To me, it’s empowering to use a term that is typically used to describe gender to describe sex instead. It’s a way for me to queer sex with the same aggressive nonconformity with which I queer gender, to say “fuck you” to all convention and label myself on my own terms, even if it makes no sense to most people.

That’s really the struggle right now: Trying to help make sense of nonbinary sex for people who view sex as a physiological two-part model, because I can see myself having to explain that my nonbinary sex doesn’t have a specific “look” and that it’s just what I call my sex. I call myself bigender, which in turn also doesn’t “look” like anything. I call myself a man, neutrois, transmaverine, and none of these things have a “look.” But people tend to hold on to the material and seem to prefer some kind of visual evidence of gender. Masculine is masculine and feminine is feminine. To some, nonbinarity should have some kind of visual signifier so that they can wrap their heads around the concept. The problem is that gender is not that simple and while sex may be assigned based on specific observed traits, it’s not that simple either.

To those folks, I say: Gender is a construct that is entirely mental and traditionally, there may be some kind of perceived aesthetic that matches or subverts specific genders, but it’s otherwise more flexible than traditionalists tend to view it. Sex is something assigned based on biases and can pave the way for how we are raised and what is expected of us in society. We can call our sexes whatever we want and we can choose to break away from our assignment if it means living a more authentic life. Sex, gender, and many other aspects of our identities are very personal and it really shouldn’t concern others how we choose to navigate these concepts. It often feels like all of society is an oppressive force of conformity with few options for exploration. Many of us choose to look at all the options forced upon us and simply say “no thank you!” or “not applicable!”

I never talked much about my physical transition goals in videos or blog posts and the older I get, the less inclined I am to do so. I don't need a specific transition plan in mind just to convince others to view my labels as valid and I'm sure as hell not shelling out money for a surgery that can “perfectly” encompass all the many facets of my gender. Few nonbinary people even have access to nonbinary options for surgery because of the heavily binarized medical field and the expectation for sex to be of two distinct physiological categories. This is why being able to call our genders and our sexes what we want, both equally, is far more beneficial to our individual journeys of self-exploration. We are valid because we are self-identified.

the-delta-quadrant

i've already watched a video where you talked about this and related quite a bit as someone who disidentifies with the concept of sex in general.

bigots will say i'm denying the reality of my body and my biology, but it's really just about what i call it and how i conceptualise it. "i'm nonbinary, thus my body is nonbinary" sums it up for me. i see ideas about this more often in german-speaking radical trans spaces, probably in part because the word for sex and gender is the same, and people are pushing back against the idea of "biological gender"/using gendered terms for people's bodies. i used to see many jokes similar to this: "a man in a woman's body? which poor woman's body did i steal?" to point out the ridiculousness of this concept when forced upon us.

also, more often than not, people treat sex like the gender of the body (or vice versa: gender as "brain sex"), using the exact same words they use for gender for sex, which is how we end up with things like "they identify as nonbinary but are biologically female" or "she's a biological man but transitioned to a woman".

and this is where i check out. if crip theory has taught me anything, it's that the body and the mind aren't separate entities. i refuse to gender my body differently than... well, me. it just doesn't make sense to me. my body is my body, so it doesn't have a different gender than me. you can say female or woman are sex terms all you want but that doesn't remove the gendered associations, nor does it make it not misgendering. i am a single, whole nonbinary bodymind. my boobs are nonbinary, my vag is nonbinary, my period is nonbinary. all of my so-called sex characteristics are as nonbinary as my toenails, my eyes, my brain.

my gender has both nothing and everything to do with my body: nothing because one is not determined by the other, everything because this body is the vessel my gender lives in.

maybe it's the (binary) genderedness people talk about sex with, maybe it's being defined by body parts, maybe it's not wanting to use many body parts the way nature intended them, or maybe it's being confused by society turning a set of random characteristics into a supposedly coherent identity - but something about identifying as any sex feels deeply uncomfortable to me. even non-misgendering terms like müllerian and wolffian would be mocked and/or just converted back into misgendering anyway. i don't vibe with altersex either. the closest descriptor i'd use at all is quoisex but i still don't use it because i disidentify with sex way too much to even use a label to describe that disidentification. the only sex term i'll use is perisex, only to describe privilege i hold over intersex people, nothing more.

if i want to talk about my body, i'll just talk about my body. if i want to talk about my uterus i'll talk about my uterus. if i want to talk about my boobs i'll talk about my boobs. i don't need a sex label for that. i don't need a word to try to create a coherent identity out of random body parts and functions i happen to share with some other people.

(on a side note: i keep going back and forth about using the term ftx, in a "this is where i come from" way", in a "i transitioned from living as female to nonbinary" way, but i know people would just misinterpret as me changing genders, medical transition or my fucking nonexistent sex.)

i said it before and i'll say it again: "biological" means "relating to living organisms". i'm a living breathing nonbinary person. i am biologically nonbinary.

your-bigender-big-brother

I love this. Thank you for sharing!

radiomogai

[PT: My Sex is Nonbinary Too (an essay). End PT]

#rbing because I love this so much.

i was just wondering if theres any type of gender where you feel comfortable presenting as male/feminine-male online but to people you know irl you're a female/tomboy? ^^

Netgender refers to a gender you feel more when online! So you could be a netboy. If it's just that you aren't comfortable sharing your true identity irl but are when online, that's more complicated. Idk if there's any term for that yet (other than closeted but I don't want to assume that abt you)

imoga-pride

Nixic Pro/Jux(era/vir) Combo Flags

Nijuproxevira (pro/nijuxevira \ pro/nijuxeravir \ nijuproxeravir): juproxevira & nixeravir;

(Pro)Nijuxavire (nijuproxavire): projuxavire & nixavire;

Juxera Nixvir;

Nixera Proxvir.

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Xirl and Xoy

Xirl:

Someone who identifies in some was as a nonbinary girl or nonbinary girl-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part of woman/girlhood but who wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely girls or don’t want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word “girl.”

[image description: a flag with five stripes. from top to bottom they are: pink, green, pink, green, pink. an hourglass symbol is behind the center stripe but in front of the others. in the hourglass, the colors change to: black, white, (pink), white, black]

Full size [Here]

Xoy:

Someone who identifies in some was as a nonbinary boy or nonbinary boy-adjacent. Someone who identifies with some part of man/boyhood but who wants a more nonbinary and neutral sounding word because they aren’t entirely boys or don’t want to be associated with the typical ideas brought up by the word “boy.”

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Full size [Here]

Color meanings:

The pinkish-lavender or greenish-blue represents the connection and closeness of this identity to woman/girlhood or man/boyhood without quite being girl or boy.

The green represents how it is a nonbinary identity and how it can be an entirely off-binary/binary-adjacent thing for some people.

The white is there to bring the pinkish-lavender/greenish-blue and green together as a reminder of the genderqueer flag.

The grey represents the entire spectrum of possible meanings for this gender and how it’s a grey area with a lot of room for individual meaning.

Terms coined by: Unknown

Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!

DNI updated to reword some things to better reflect my intentions behind it.

Changelog:

-Added DNI for people who don't believe in transandrophobia (bigotry directed specifically at trans men and adjacent identities, idc what word you prefer to use for it). If you're on the fence about it but aren't against people who recognize this issue you're fine for now. Prior followers aren't grandfathered in, so please quietly unfollow if you don't think that trans men face specific issues due to who they are.

-Reworded DNI regarding engaging in or supporting content meant to be "stimulating" towards inherently nonconsensual paraphilias, after realizing that the way I worded it sounded like I was also against supportive content about those paraphilias that don't condone engaging in harmful behaviors because of them. I'm very pro-para and believe that support is important, but I don't think that excuses any harmful behavior. Just clarifying.

Also, still inactive/hiatus, just went through my asks. My ADHD is kicking my ass so hard that I can't do much of anything right now, sorry. Please go to @radiomogai for a similarly intentioned archive blog that is active and actually tags stuff lol

were you a lithroalterous daydreamer?

Nope!

i love your notion, it's so thorough and informative! you mentioned being abused by someone with NPD, are you okay?

Thanks for the concern, but I'm okay now! :) I haven't been in contact with them in years and my current partner is amazing and taught me what a healthy relationship actually looks like. No lasting damage, I just learned a lot from it.

Context: I mention this in a section explaining why I think the idea of "narcissistic abuse" is BS and is the same as "regular" abuse because I've been abused by people with and without it and it's exactly the same, for those possibly concerned that I'm anti-NPD or think it makes you bad or something. In context, it was the opposite, just stating my experiences, why I have that belief, and why I think that people with NPD are arbitrarily and unfairly treated as evil.

#abuse tw #ableism tw

I must say it is very odd to be rad inclus and anti ship 😭 unfortunate to see someone be bigoted against paras/queers/kinks I hope its okay we followed /gen /nm

No, it's not ok that you ignored my DNI. /m /srs

I'm the most kink/para positive person you'll ever meet, I just think that some things are unethical, and that paraphilias aren't an excuse to participate in those harmful things. Certain paras are in my DNI for personal trauma reasons. Fuck off

Hi, I don’t know if I identify a certain way but am trying to find the term (if it exists yet) to research it more. I’m definitely pan, but sometimes I wonder if my attraction to women is actually constant. Have you heard of a label where part of the attraction is fixed , but the other part is fluid? Almost like partially abrosexual & abroromantic?

Pulsaric might be what you're looking for!

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Is there a gender where you feel mostly boyflux bit sometimes demigirl?

There isn't anything specific to those genders I'm aware of, but it would count as genderfluid, as you're a different gender sometimes and the specific genders can be anything in genderfluidity. I'd look into types of genderfluidity if you want something more specific- try searching @radiomogai 's archive or (carefully, make sure to check sources) look at wikis that have different terms in them. I understand wanting something more specific when the genders you're fluid between aren't binary genders or whatever most would associate with a genderfluid individual, good luck finding what feels right for you.

#asks

hi, would it be possible for you to make a bigotry ocd flag ? ive always categorized it under scrupulosity, but a more specific term seems useful, considering how many different things scrupulosity can be. its basically when your intrusive thoughts are about being bigoted or being perceived as bigoted. itd probably be pretty popular, a lot of the people i know who have ocd have this subtype. i’d make it myself, but idk if you’re comfortable with someone else making a flag in your style, and id like it to match the other ones. thank you ! ^^

Hi! You're more than welcome to use my format to make flags for other subtypes. Others already have without asking lol (no shade to them, I don't mind as long as it's done in good faith). Totally optional, but it would be cool if you could tag me so I can see it when you're done! I have shades of this subtype (intrusive thoughts of slurs for no reason at all, and yeah it is very distressing) so I'd love to see it made. I've seen a site recognize R-OCD (racism OCD) already, in fact it was one I was going to work on before... Whatever the hell is going on with me now where I have no motivation to do anything. It's definitely real.

#asks

i love your notion site! how do i make one for myself?

Hi, thank you! I just made an account and followed the instructions to make my own site. Tbh I don't really remember the process now TwT; When it comes to formatting, the way I do it is by using the innate tools that let you make categories, subcategories, and so on, and I personally use drop-down formatting for each term to hide the definition until it's opened manually (to make it easier to read). You can also add icons or emojis to each category, and add background colors, which I did for fun and aesthetics! Ultimately it's up to you how you choose to use the formatting tools to organize things. You might use different categories than I do, as mine are pretty personalized to my own identities, but the same idea is there. Sorry if this isn't very helpful or specific, I'm happy to answer more specific questions if needed. Just keep in mind I'm not very active right now (sorry, it just makes me feel bad knowing I don't have the spoons to do anything here but lurk at the moment) so replies will be sporadic.

(btw, on that note, if anyone here wants to keep in touch with me or talk or ask me anything or collab or whatever, I use telegram, and sometimes discord but I'm more active on telegram because it's how I talk to my partner, and I don't talk to anyone else much. Feel free to ask, keeping in mind I may not agree if you're a minor, there are DNI conflicts, or I'm unable to socialize at that time for some reason).

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