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she. hufflepuff. finnish. obsessed.

[vedentytar]

like I'm so disappointed in most of my friendships and whose fault can it be but mine???

[vedentytar]

I had so many nice things happen to me this weekend and I just know, KNOW that no one will give a shit if I talk to them about it tomorrow.

[vedentytar]

rant time I just know my friends went to uni lunch without even asking me and I hate knowing that

[vedentytar]

like would I have gone??? maybe not but I'm so tired of not even being considered

[vedentytar]

rant time I just know my friends went to uni lunch without even asking me and I hate knowing that

[funnytwittertweets]

[pinkvelvvtt]

Anton_films_ // TikTok

- so proud <3

[soulmvtes]

january is one of those months where you experience every feeling on the human spectrum and you just have to go about your day like that isn't happening

[deerilkka]

Reblog if it’s okay to befriend you, ask questions, ask for advice, rant, vent, let something off your chest, or just have a nice chat.

[sproutlett]

i’m realizing that i have so much time. i have time to grow my hair long. i have time to cut it all off and then to grow it back again. i have time to discover new hobbies and give up on things that no longer serve me. i have time to grow and change and travel and change my opinions and live differently than how i am now. i have so much time. take a deep breath and slow down

[vedentytar]

it's that time of the year where uni groupwork spirals me into seasonal depression

[vedentytar]

do you guys think I could pull off a summer job as a reporter for the local newspaper??

I probably wouldn't get the place but it'd be cool to apply if I had the guts

[nicostiel]

#sobbing over perrito comforting puss through a panic attack

Puss in Boots: The Last Wish (2022)

[vedentytar]

did you know I haven't watched stranger things since the first season and never got around to catching up because I thought I'd have a hell of a job to do and only now that I finally got around to it realised it's literally 8 episodes a season

I've watched kdrama with more episodes in one season than this whole series has during these years

[vedentytar]

wait did 1899 get cancelled because of the stupid claim that they stole the whole thing?

[windvexer]

IDK who needs to hear this but if there's something in your life that makes you feel better, but you never stick to it,

it's still actually perfectly fine to do it

and you shouldn't stop yourself from starting just because it won't be a permanent change.

Like if starting a new daily planner gives you an amazing afternoon of planning and four days where you feel in charge of your life,

why not do it?

It doesn't matter that it won't be a permanent change - 4 good days is still worth it.

If you ever catch yourself thinking, "I wish I could pray/stretch/prep/plan/do the thing, but I always get started on that and it never lasts more than a couple of days,"

what this really means is, "hey, I can feel better for a couple of days."

if this post is making you think of things in your own life that you wish you could stick to because of how good they make you feel,

just be aware:

you're not thinking of a list of ways you've failed to commit

you're thinking of a list of things that make you happy, and you should give yourself permission to start doing them as often as you want to

[eskja]

J.R.R. Tolkien's The Hobbit illustrated by Tove Jansson

[cinnamoncountess]

"Of course. And Bo, the director, was very good at sensing sometimes when I had this self-criticism. He would pull me aside and talk to me about it. I would sometimes be so frustrated at myself when it didn't feel like I was pushing myself enough, and he was really good at handling that. He made me feel confident but also gave good criticisms as well. He's a person that doesn’t bullshit you, if he thinks it's great, he lets you know it's great. If he thinks that it needs some work, he lets you know. So you don't have to deal with these thoughts yourself. Learning to communicate with him very early on was amazing, and I think the bond we have now is so much stronger because of respecting each other and each other's work."

Lucas on battling self-criticism and working with Bo.

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