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What Kind of Lube?

Lubricant is a wonderful thing, it reduces friction and adds another sensation to your play - with certain types of sexual activity, it is often even a necessity. 

Before you pick up any lubricant off of the shelf, consider a few things first:

Ingredients - know which to avoid if you are sensitive/allergic to some

Preferences - do you prefer creams, gels or liquids?

What kind of activity you will be using it for

If you're planning on enjoying anal play

*Thicker lubricants are generally better for anal play because they provide some extra comfort; silicone lubricants are also a popular choice because they don't dry out. 

Water-based Lubricants with Glycerine

Glycerine (aka glycerol) is a "sugar alcohol."

They rinse out of the body easily and are equally easy to clean up 

They are also compatible with condoms, and virtually any sex toy (even silicone)

Because they stay "slick" longer, water-based gel lubricants work well for anal sex (and fisting) - however they don't last as long as silicone.

It's sweeter tasting - but it can also feel a little sticky on the skin when they dry out.

Cannot use them in the shower, bath, etc.

They may stain your linens and towels

Water-based lubricants are not recommended for women who are sensitive or prone to chronic yeast infections.

Water-based Lubricants without Glycerine

Rinse off/out of the body easily and are easy to clean up

Condom compatible and can be used with virtually any sex toy

Are not effective in the bath, shower, etc.

Are safe to use for those prone to yeast infections

They are prone to drying up faster than other types of lubricants and can feel sticky on the skin.

They tend to taste more bitter

Silicone-based Lubricants

They last longer than water-based lube

They feel more like oil than a water-based lube and they never get sticky to the touch

It's a cost-effective lubricant choice because a "little bit goes a long way" - however they usually cost more then their water-based counterparts

Use them for massages or in the water

They are more difficult to rinse off and out of the body

Silicone-based lubricants can compromise the integrity of silicone, soft-skin or cyberskin toys

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"I'm not into vibrators, what other toys can I choose?"

Silicone dildos are hypoallergenic, latex-free, non-porous, durable and life-like to the touch.  They are easy to clean and are considered amongst the most durable toys. Silicone dildos should be sterilied after use, as well as before inserting into another orifice or when shared with another partner.  Some of these toys may come with a small bullet vibrator that is inserted into the base of the dildo - these vibrating dildos will create excitement wherever they are placed.  If you have a regular dildo, try putting a vibrator against to create a new sensation!

Realistic dildos are almost an exact replica of the male penis; some even include testicles.  If you're turned on by the sight, or fantasize of being penetrated by one, this might be the perfect dil for you.  They often have natural looking knobs and veins - great for those that prefer toys with more texture.

G-spot or A-spot dildos are specifically designed to stimulate one or both of these spots.  Many women enjoy using this type of toy to achieve an amazing g-spot orgasm.  If it has a flared based, they can be used to hit the A-spot! Most of our dildos can be used for both anal and g-spot stimulation.

Double-Ended dildos are basically two dildos joined together in the middle.  Featuring two useable ends, they can be used by a man and woman, two women or two men.  These toys are great for couples, since they get to enjoy the same toy! Some double-ended dildos may also be used with a harness for some hands-free fun.

Butt Plugs have a flared base and are either cone-shaped (larger at the base) or have a series of bulges and ridges (getting larger at the base).  Used by men or women, they are meant to be inserted gradually and left in during masturbation, oral or vaginal sex.  A plug stimulates the walls of the anus, and usually work very well for A-spot stimulation.

Anal Beads are usually a string of beads used during sexual activity, that are inserted into the rectum.  Many love the intense feeling of pulling out the beads during orgasm.  Anal beads are also said to prolong orgasms and make them much more intense.

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"What Vibrator Should I Choose?"

An introduction to, or a starting place to help choose what kind of vibrator you might want.  The world is filled with many, many choices!

Clitoral Vibes as the name suggests, gives you an intense vibration directly to the clitoris.  This part of a woman's body is packed with over 8,000 never endings - so it's going to feel great when stimulated.

Battery-Operated Clit-Only Vibes or bullets, like the clitoral vibe are meant to deliver intense stimulation to the clitoris.  These toys are generally quiet small and compact; perfect to stash in your bag while traveling! They come in a variety of shapes and sizes and look a bit different then your traditional vibrator.

Electric Vibrators are fantastic for full-body massages or clitoral stimulation.  These toys generally have a large head to massage the labia, mons pubis, perineum and those other aching muscles of yours.  They are often made of high-quality and their excellent electronic component means you should be able to enjoy your toy for years.  Most come with a manufacturer's warranty!

Rotating Dual Vibes will stimulate both the clitoris and vaginal canals.  Those featuring dual action rotating shafts and pearls  are nothing but exciting.  They come in an array of shapes and sizes, but most look like your traditional vibrator with a "branch" coming off to stimulate the clit.  They often have a variety of different levels of vibrations or rotations to customize to your needs.  Some of these are even shaped for g-spot stimulation.  They are a versatile "must have" for your toy box.

Traditonal Vibrators are your... well, traditional vibrator.  Shaped like a phallus they come in a variety of sizes and girths.

G-spot Vibes will stimulate the g-spot, as the name suggests.

Anal Vibrators stimulate the anus and rectum.  While all vibrators can be used externally around the anus, any object you insert into the rectum should have a flange at the base to avoid an awkward trip to the doctor.  Anal stimulation with vibrators can be extremely pleasurable for both men and women because of the thousands of nerve endings - many men even enjoy having their A or P-spot (prostate gland) stimulated with an anal vibe.  Since the anus doesn't produce its own natural lubrication, plenty of lubricant should be used for anal play.

Waterproof Vibes are perfect for those looking for something a bit more versatile.  These toys can be used safely in the pool, tub or shower.  The warm water in a tub or shower paired with one of these toys is bound to carry you off to a very sensuous place.

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"What Material Should I Choose?"

Silicone is one of those "ideal sex toy materials" - it is non-porous and can be disinfected; it is used in many medical applications and many consider it very safe.  It can be shared between partners, or used both vaginally and anally provided it has been boiled in water for 4 minutes) if there is no vibrator unit inside it.  We advise using condoms on toys you share, and properly cleaning your toy after use.  Silicone is also hypoallergenic; so those with latex allergies should feel safe to use them!  Silicone toys are non-toxic, pliable, durable, warm to the body quickly and tend to carry vibrations effortlessly!  Be advised that not all toys are made the same, so be sure to double check that you have found yourself a quality 100% food or medical grade silicone pleasure device.

Latex vibrators and dildos are becoming less common.  These toys are soft, but not as pliable as their silicone counterparts so they won't bend well.  Latex is also very porous, which means your toy will break down over time and will be more difficult to properly disinfect.  If you plan on using these toys with a partner, or want to switch between vaginal and anal penetration, it would be wise to use them with a condom.  These toys (obviously) won't be a friendly choice for those with a latex allergy or sensitivity.

Elastomer is a popular material used for high-end sex toys.  Like silicone, elastomer is used in many applications (implants, for example).  It is hypoallergenic, soft and very durable - this means you can enjoy your favourite toy for years!  They are 100% latex-free, easy to clean properly and another perk?  Elastomer toys tend to be very quiet!

Glass dildos are non-porous, retains temperature and are extremely smooth.  It doesn't contain phthalates, and are easy to clean.  You shouldn't fear it shattering when dropped, but that isn't outside the realm of possibilities.  If you notice a crack in your toy, discontinue use immediately!

Jelly toys are extremely common, and are very soft and pliable.  They also come in pretty much any shape you can think of.  Be aware that these toys are porous and more difficult to clean than silicone, glass or elastomer.  They may also contain chemical agents called phthalates, which have been known to cause health problems in laboratory studies.  You'll definitely want to use a condom with a jelly toy.

Soft Vinyl toys from reputable manufacturers are less porous and last longer then your typical jelly vibrator or dildo.  These toys are extremely soft and pliable - but are just hard enough.  They carry a vibration well! You will have to clean them with anti-bacterial soap and water.  Beware of "cheap" vinyl! They can be porous and prone to housing bacteria and yeast - we recommend using a condom with these toys to avoid running into an unwanted vaginal or rectal infection.

Plastic toys are very hard and not very pliable.  They are smooth and typically carry good vibrations and are best used for exterior stimulation of you or your partner's erogenous zones.  These toys are very easy to clean properly with a good toy cleaner or rubbing alcohol.

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About Vellicate

Vellicate Retailer's mission is to provide customers with a sex-positive and non-judgmental online boutique.  We aim to empower our clientele by giving them opportunities to explore and discover how they can enhance their sexual well-being.

We promise a welcoming environment while our customers shop for high-quality sex toys, books and other accoutrement to fulfill their needs, desires and fantasies.