VernalWindsBlows

Hi! My name’s Maria I’m a didgital artist I post my crappy drawings, memes and bands related stuff Am goblin 𓆏 Sorry for my shitty English ( I’m Russian ) Тута мои каляки

[hwainio]

Just wanted to share all of these cuties together too!

[invertedgender]

Men are using a powerful hashtag to fight back against emotional abuse

According to NCADV, 4 in 10 people have experienced some kind of coercive control from an intimate partner. Sadly, #MaybeSheDoesntHitYou is raising much-needed awareness for a widespread problem.

[faded-doll-hi]

This is disgusting. It really is. I hope that people gain awareness of this issue and their own situation and I really hope that we all find better.

[acruelgentleman-deactivated2018]

I appreciate the hell out of the women reblogging this. As a survivor of such emotional abuse, I know it’s vital for men to step forward and talk about their experiences. The old “man up” narrative needs to die. 

[accidental-muse]

^^^

[foxyshadow]

Absolutely right. Abuse is abuse, no matter the gender

[gajboy-deactivated20190929]

Abuse is Abuse, No Matter the Gender.

Please remember to hit anon when you send me the death threats!

[queereyegifs]

x

[japanesebonustrack]

“i can’t do simple hygiene bc im depressed” that’s easy babe! just do simple hygiene

[hundondestiny]

Y’all always have to wallow in your misery instead of considering maybe, just maybe, the encouragement people like this give is just telling people to do one, easy thing instead of worrying about a whole routine. Can’t make yourself shower? That’s fine, just brush your teeth. Don’t have the energy to do your hair? Okay, just brush your teeth.

Making 1 small change that can start improving your mood leads to other small changes. When I couldn’t make myself shower I would make sure I changed underwear every day. And then I started using baby wipes to keep myself fresh. And then I worked my way back to trying to take showers every day. My record might not be perfect but I’m getting better.

It’s really unhealthy to keep the mindset that anyone who isn’t miserable and suffering under their mental illness or emotional problems doesn’t know what they’re talking about. Maybe they’ve just grown to learn how to love and care for themselves in spite of what they’re going through.

[christiangothdotcom]

I don’t know what any of you people think professional help looks like, but when you walk in and say “i’m too depressed to do anything” they don’t just nod and say “well you’re broken forever i guess”. they don’t say “here take this pill and it’ll fix everything”. they work with you one step at a time and explain to you that you CAN in fact do simple things even though you’re depressed. it isn’t easy, but it’s not impossible, it just happens in small steps, but it isn’t getting any easier when you react to every instance of someone trying to help by refusing to listen.

[libertarirynn-deactivated202006]

The advice he gives is seriously so solid. A lot of times it’s hard to motivate yourself to do something because it seems too daunting to commit to a full routine, so doing one simple thing can help you get motivated for the next simple thing and so on and so forth. Other posters are right, therapists, at least the ones worth anything, don’t just throw pills at you and tell you you’re never going to improve oh well, they give you simple manageable tips to improve your situation.

[ghiraheeheeheem]

Recovery is about baby steps at a gentle pace, not using it as a crutch to never ever try to make your situation better. No one said recovery is easy, but it does take at least a smidgeon of willpower/effort on your part. You have to want it enough to be willing to try. I’m not saying you have to Just Do It and fix your life overnight but if you aren’t willing to try then no one can help you. 

[thatsaltysmallhuman-deactivated]

PRAISE THE LORD

[citrustazz]

i’m feeling bad submit a pic of your pet and i’ll rate them

[vernalwindsblows]

Here’s one of my cats. Her name is Belka. She came to my house 2 weeks ago. Someone left her here cause they didn’t want her anymore so she’s mine now. She is a total sweetheart and I love her to death

[himbo-lesbian-deactivated202008]

Rain: *rains*

Me: *immediatly physically and spiritually transforms into a frog*

[vernalwindsblows]

Met a hedgehog

🦔 🌿🍄🐸

He ate a frog

[o-kurwa]

[ziggyplayedd]

hey guys unpopular opinion but you’re not a bad person if you don’t care about every bad thing happening in the world all the time, or if you do care but you’re not constantly reblogging posts spreading awareness and information

it’s okay if you’re just on tumblr to have fun and reblog things you like or that make you happy.

humans aren’t made to process trauma and suffering on a worldwide scale without any breaks whatsoever & the internet has created an unprecedented access to bad news so please never feel guilty for scrolling past it because you can’t process it! and you’re not doing anything wrong & there’s no need to feel guilty

[vernalwindsblows]

Small pieces of a drawing I am working on rn

The second one isn’t as detailed cause it’s a really small piece

[vernalwindsblows]

YCH commission for furryfoxxit

Userpage of FurryFoxxit -- Fur Affinity [dot] net

Fur Affinity is the internet's largest online gallery for furry, anthro, dragon, brony art work and more!

[rough-tweed-action]

The fairest of them all.

[frogitivity]

Welcome to Build A Frog (Pride Edition)

Click here to enter

[mushroomfangs]

🐸🏳️‍🌈🐸

(Pls click 4 better quality, idk why tumblr ruined it)

[vernalwindsblows]

YCH GIF’s!

Starting at 20$ usd PayPal only

(The price depends on how much I have to to change the base and how many things I have to animate)

customizable

any gender

any species

[greedosforceghost]

if a dentist pulls your tooth and you don’t take one of theirs in return (by force if necessary) you’re a coward 

[logically-asexual]

Sometimes I worry because what if exclusionisfs are right and I really don’t have any struggles for being ace,

but then I realize how terribly scared I often feel about disappointing every potential SO I have because they consider their sexual attraction a “need to be satisfied” and that is an expectation I will never live up to;

or how inadequate I feel whenever my peers talk about their experience with partners or crushes and most of it I simply can’t understand;

or how I can never be at peace when I’m romantically attracted to someone because I never know what I want to get from it. I constantly shift between wanting to be close to them and fearing being too close that I ruin everything by not meeting their standards at that point;

or how I’m worried that people that I love won’t know how much I love them because they’ll think my lack of sexual attraction for them is a personal issue and I really don’t like them “enough”.

I just remember how hard it actually is to be asexual, but it’s something others will simply never understand.

[alltimevirgilant]

NEVER EVER THINK EXCLUSIONIST ARE RIGHT WHEN THEY SAY ACE PEOPLE DON’T EXPERIENCE ANY STRUGGLES FOR BEING ACE

aside from everything op just said

1) the coming out thing isn’t easy, the anxiety and uneasiness and confusion is there, i promise you

2) corrective rape is a thing with ace people, it goddamn happens and do i really need to say that it’s bad? like, really?

3) we feel broken before unlearning the way society teachers us that the ultimate goal in life is to marry and have a (biological) family and that sex is a basic human necessity

4) i’m lucky to have never encountered this type of people in my life, but they are out there, people who think we are monsters or freaks because somehow to them, lack of sexual attractions equals lack of general emotions

5) speaking from personal experience, I’m terrified of dating anyone, I’ve never had before but now that I know I’m ace, I’m terrified of finding someone i’m romantically attracted to and having to have that talk with them only to have them reject me because they want the sexual part of a relationship that i’m not willing to give and i’m scared i’ll never find someone who’ll be willing to just not have it

6) the pressure your own parents/relatives/friends put on your to have that (biological) family so they can have more extended family and/or blooded relatives when it’s not you want in the slighest

7) ACE PEOPLE HAVE THE RISK OF LITERALLY GETTING TAKEN OFF THEIR MEDS BECAUSE THE THERAPIST/PSYCHOLOGIST MIGHT THINK THAT THEIR LACK OF SEXUAL ATTRACTIVE IS DUE TO THEIR MEDS AND THIS IS DANGEROUS

I can’t put this into words well enough but it’s fucking terrifying living as an asexual person in a world were sex and sexual attraction is expected from every human being and people consider you weird and all other sorts of means stuff if you’re not down for that

[antigonics-deactivated20221102]

gay pride cat