can you talk about soulmates and twin flames? i don't know if i’ve met a twin flame and i need some advice...
I had been wanting to talk about this topic for a long time! However, although my opinion differs a little from most, I wanted to share with you what I learned about soulmates and twin flames after reading some books about it.
It’s important to differentiate between soulmates and twin flames, since they’re two completely different concepts.
Soulmates don’t have to accompany us throughout our lives. Many people see soulmates as lifelong people, and it’s a wrong belief that should disappear. In part it may be, there are people who will live by our side forever, but it doesn’t have to be a soulmate. Soulmates don’t appear in our lives only as sentimental partners, but also as friends, family, coworkers… A soulmate doesn’t necessarily have to be a sentimental partner.
In addition, we can have countless soulmates. So how can we define a soulmate? For me, a soulmate is a person similar to you. Many people have a wrong concept: “My soulmate will be with me forever, we’ll get married and live a happy life”. That’s not true at all.
The relationship with a soulmate is simple. This person will always make everything easy for you. The relationship you share with them is fluid. A fluid connection. All goes well. It’s a relationship where you contribute to the relationship, and your soulmate too. The contributions are balanced and you both have and contribute the same type of energy/vibration. However, there will always be distancing or discussions, as in all relationships, but the reconciliations will be simple.
The twin flames are different. We only have one twin flame, and this person will always appear in our life as a sentimental partner. If you have the opportunity to meet your twin flame, you’ll both feel a connection that will never disappear. No matter how many years go by, the connection will always be there for us. People who don’t get to know their twin flame also have this connection, but they aren’t able to feel it. Therefore, the connection will always exist, but it will wake up when you meet this person. The relationship can be broken, but not the connection.
Relations with twin flames are very complicated. These people are a reflection, where you’ll see all the features you hate about yourself and you must change. Your twin flame is able to show you what you don’t like about yourself. The twin flame appears to teach you a lesson, and you appeared in their life to teach them a lesson. You both reflect on each other.
Depending on the difficulty of understanding the situation, the relationship can become stormy. However, you must keep in mind that the fault isn’t of anyone, but of both. The situation you’re going through isn’t created by anyone, but a lesson that you must learn. Something very important is that you’ll never be with your twin flame until you learn separately the learning you have to do. There are twin flames that know each other and have a hard time, but they never learn the lesson and never get back together.
Therefore, when your twin flame appears, very complicated situations related to them can occur. The complication isn’t karma or revenge for your past actions. There’s no one wanting to hurt you. The Universe needs you to learn, but the other person must also do it. Until the learning is carried out, the relationship will not manifest itself again. If you don’t learn and your twin flame doesn’t either: you won’t be together.
Therefore, if you know your twin flame and this is your current situation, don’t be obfuscated. First you must work for yourself and discover what you must learn. They’re usually lessons that we don’t want to accept or difficult to perform. This teaching must be learned separately. You’ll never learn side by side, but must be individually. When you both manage to complete this lesson separately, you’ll be together again and it will surely be for a lifetime.
What are the most common lessons? Detachment, learn to love the person in freedom, avoid possession, get rid of the fear of rejection.
A very important message for people who are living a similar situation with their twin flame. You cannot help your twin flame with its learning: each person has their rhythm, each person learns differently. Remember there are people who want to learn and others who don’t. There are people who aren’t very spiritual. This is a learning the Universe has put in your path, but learning is optional. You cannot force anyone to face a life lesson. Each one has its process and it must be individual. We must learn to love from detachment: there is part of the learning. As much as you’re suffering or want to explain what’s happening with your relationship: you’ll only get your twin flame away from you. You don’t have to forget this person during your learning process, but detach yourself from your twin flame and learn to live without them. Leave everything in the hands of the Universe. Everything will flow.
Soulmates are different, since we can have many and everything will be easy. With a twin flame it won’t be like that. There’s a lesson that you must learn whether you like it or not. It doesn’t matter when, but the lesson will haunt you during this and your next lives.
