You don’t get it. It’s not a game like if I get you to hang out with me I win. It’s about how it happens. Me throwing myself at you, constantly asking when you’re free, is not what I want. You drunk calling me at 4am telling me to come over is not what I want either. I want a Saturday afternoon text telling me to come outside because you’re in your car in my driveway and we’re going to the zoo. I want to come over every Tuesday night to make dinner and watch your favorite show with you and your roommates. I just want to know that you want me in your life because you want me in your life, not because you’re drunk or I’m forcing you.
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