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"For I am the one who alone exists; and I have no one who will judge me." She/her 🇹🇼🏳️‍⚧️

[violasses]

good boys put TME in their bios ❤️

[cigaretteduck]

bitches on this website treat being trans like it's a fandom

[violasses]

do transbians know they get to just be women. girl it's okay. you transitioned. you're female now. you can want things other women want like getting plowed in your pussy or having a pussy in general. you can like plushies and stardew valley and wearing dresses. you get to be feminine now. you don't need to cope by letting ciswomen turn you into The Stereotypically Male Animal and then use your Male Genital for her sexual pleasure or write stories about how you got forced to like fighting like a Male Soldier. and before you say, it's not your duty to dismantle stereotypes in your private sexual life, especially when your girlfriend is fitting you into another stereotype. transbian culture is just a vicious cycle of enforcing the maleness of trans lesbians with more masculinization and it's hard to watch from an outsider perspective, especially because you'd rather listen to ciswomen and twitter theyfabs before you listen to your fellow trans women.

[violasses]

Yeah no I'm fed up with this "they're not changing their sex but their gender!" bullcrap. I don't need liberal "allies" to compromise THEIR view of trxnnies to TERFs and fascists to justify OUR existence FOR US. Actually, I AM changing my sex, because changing sex is changing biology and biology is stupid easy to change. Changing your diet changes your biology. Putting other people's body parts in your orifices changes your biology. Getting sick changes your biology. And those are minor, temporary changes, so imagine consistently altering the levels of your sex hormones, one of the biggest factors that contribute to sexual dimorphism.

I'm tired of people pretending we're not radically changing our bodies to fit our internal gender, and thinking we're just playing dress-up. Let us be transsex. Let trans activism be transsexual, because transsexuals and transsexualism have material needs and material consequences instead of just the commercial ones implied by the phrase "changing your gender, not your sex."

[violasses]

Yeah no I'm fed up with this "they're not changing their sex but their gender!" bullcrap. I don't need liberal "allies" to compromise THEIR view of trxnnies to TERFs and fascists to justify OUR existence FOR US. Actually, I AM changing my sex, because changing sex is changing biology and biology is stupid easy to change. Changing your diet changes your biology. Putting other people's body parts in your orifices changes your biology. Getting sick changes your biology. And those are minor, temporary changes, so imagine consistently altering the levels of your sex hormones, one of the biggest factors that contribute to sexual dimorphism.

I'm tired of people pretending we're not radically changing our bodies to fit our internal gender, and thinking we're just playing dress-up. Let us be transsex. Let trans activism be transsexual, because transsexuals and transsexualism have material needs and material consequences instead of just the commercial ones implied by the phrase "changing your gender, not your sex."

[violasses]

good boys put TME in their bios ❤️

[mawofthemagnetar]

What do you mean “chat” is now referring to ChatGPT and not twitch chat? What? What? What the fuck? No?

When I address chat I am speaking to a presumed Greek chorus of real human people shitposting on their lunch break, not a machine that devours lakes to covert electricity into slop.

[violasses]

tumblr loves making up random shit nobody is doing and then larp as academics to "reject" it in order to feel morally superior

and they always have to sound painfully millennial when doing it

[violasses]

really not that shocking: that white theyfab with a "🚫 TERFs <3" pin will be the terfiest, most transmedicalist and most transmisogynistic person you've met

[bft-max-the-discourser]

The absurd irony of calling someone a theyfab and calling someone a terf and a transmed in the same sentence

[violasses]

me when i don't know what words mean and think they just mean "generic hater of all self-proclaimed transes"

[violasses]

really not that shocking: that white theyfab with a "🚫 TERFs <3" pin will be the terfiest, most transmedicalist and most transmisogynistic person you've met

[violasses]

i am partial to more (if not all being) masculine trans male tops but not nessasarily entirely partial to dominant trans men. i think the natural place for a man is beneath a woman. serving her. being her dog. kissing her feet. being her personal living dildo. serving h

[realjohnnytruant-deactivated202]

more trans man tops. more trans men being called daddy. more trans men gym rats. more phalloplasties. more diy hrt. more high protein diets. more body hair, more muscle mass, more boxy clothing. more dick pumping. more trans men in leather. more trans men being animalistic and sadistic and dirty and mean during sex. more het t4t porn.

[violasses]

when I read a fanfic supposedly set in Japan or whatever and the author is just so aggressively American. a repeat offender of this is alcohol brown bagging. an utterly American practice done literally nowhere else but for some reason completely beyond me shows up in a suspiciously high amount of fanfics set in Japan.

[violasses]

men could do so much with a pederastic catamite back in the day. satisfy their fetish for transfemininity & pedophilic desires with a beautiful young boy, and their fetish for emasculation & homoerotic forbidden love when the boy grows a beard.

[numberonesnapfan]

"saw a post saying why aren't cis people pressured to look like their gender. THEY NATURALLY LOOK LIKE IT???? BECAUSE IT MATCHES THEIR SEX???? are you retarded"

adding on to this, cis men who don't look "rah i am big balled, testosterone filled body builder" enough are absolutely shamed by society. cis women who arent "skinny clean girl pilates queen" enough also get bullied. like. its a thing??? whoever made the og take is retarded as hell

yeah that too

[violasses]

it's so funny because i can just see the thought blanchard was having when he made the typology

"hsts are the hot trannies who are into me & transitioned for my fetish and agp are the ugly trannies who aren't into me & that means they transitioned for their own fetish"

[violasses]

the categories "yaoi" and "yuri" were originally intended to be neutral indicators for stories with a particular element, but with recent development these terms have acquired positive connotations with the assumption of that which is called yaoi/yuri is a "good story." this doesn't generalize all yaoi/yuri as good stories, only that "good" yaoi/yuri is the "natural," "peak" or "sublimed" state of existence for yaoi/yuri.

with that cultural connotation accounted for, the heterosexual equivalent of yaoi/yuri wouldn't be just a neutrally valued straight story, which the category of "hetslop" has increasingly come to mean; it would instead be "hetgem," as hetgem is equivalently the "sublimed" state of heterosexual stories.

[violasses]

bitches loves talking about some "transmed" and this whole time transmedicalism doesn't apply to them

[violasses]

and just to reiterate what transmedicalism ACTUALLY is: it is advocacy for the gatekeeping of MEDICAL TRANSITION behind evaluations by the MEDICAL ESTABLISHMENT. they advocate for the gatekeeping of medical access for medically transitioning folks with dysphoria, aka transsexuals, behind the CISSEXUAL MEDICAL ESTABLISHMENT which will scrutinize you at every turn, make you undergo periods of crossdressing, intentionally giving you a low dose, be woefully uninformed about sex hormones, reduce your dysphoria down to a fetish, try to discredit your dysphoria in any way, keep medical transition behind exorbitant fees, etc. etc. that is what transmedicalism IS. it is an ideology that seeks to block dysphoric transsexuals from self-diagnosing dysphoria, from access DIY or OTC HRT, and from being stealth and passing.

what is is NOT, is when a transsex woman tells you you're being transmisogynistic, or when a transsex man calls you out for associating trans men with female biology or socialization, or when transsex people dislike you for falsely framing the desire to pass and the desire to have the sex characteristic of the target sex as "patriarchal oppression" or "western beauty standards" or "bioessentialism," or when dysphorics criticize you for mischaracterizing dysphoria as a "self-hatred" or a "depressive mood" that you can "overcome," all simply because you fundamentally don't understand dysphoria, or when we tell you we're quite entirely NOT the sex we used to be, and that transsex women are biological females and transsex men are biological males, and that we weren't socialized as our cissex. none of these things are transmedicalism. and certainly, believing someone should have less of a voice to speak about dysphoria or medical transition or even the trans experience, when that someone don't have dysphoria or don't medically transition or even transition in appearace, and when you're missing very fundamental parts of the trans experience, is not transmedicalism.

we believe these things because that uninformed ignorant "love yourself as is!" ideology that non-dysphorics have perpetuated in the trans community will only cause more dysphoria for pre-transitioners and leads to an ease of access into the establishment for actual transmedicalism and TERF bioessentialism. so, maybe stop calling people who've experienced far more transmedicalism you have, transmeds? words have meanings.